Wanking and jelquing.

Is it ok to wank before jelquing, probably not the best to wank after, but before?

No, it’s not really ok. Doing it before PE does not yield good results from most people I have read does this or has done it. Your penis and body will be satisfied after ejaculation and therefore will most likely not be as full and may not even hold the erection needed for the optimal jelq session. I find it best to only whack to puppy on my days off, but thats a personal preference.

I have no problem holding a 60-80% erection after masturbation. So it this most of the argument solved?

No, it’s about the state of your penis during a PE session. Your muscles are at the most relaxed state after ejaculation, and guess what your penis is? It’s a muscle. You do not build muscles in the gym when they are in a relaxed state even though you work out. The same applies to the penis. In most cases the best results of a PE session are from when your cock is in it’s most normal state and rested.

I need help jelquing, I cannont exactly get it right. I do not know how tight to hold it, and have some questions about things like kegeling during, and what is a tunica grip, etc.

I need help jelqing, I cannont exactly get it right. I do not know how tight to hold it, and have some questions about things like kegeling during, and what is a tunica grip, etc.

Uh Oh. The old masturbation effects on PE discussion again :)

You are going to get LOTS of different opinions on this. I have no opinion on the actual effects of masturbation on PE, however I do have a strong opinion on mixing the two.

PE is serious business, as a beginner it’s normal to feel some “excitement” over the whole idea of PE and getting a larger penis. HOWEVER, it becomes very counterproductive to condition your body into believing that PE is either “foreplay” or “afterplay”.

PE and masturbation are two very legitimate, valid, and normal activities (for most of us here anyways). I recommend keeping those activities separate, as they are meant to accomplish two entirely different things.

I’ve been trying to cut way back on masturbation. If you feel the need to masturbate, why not finish your jelqing routine, then masturbate? This is what I do.

Oldman,

I’d double check my facts before handing out advise. I Don’t mean to be harsh, but the penis is NOT a muscle. I would recommend reading up on the following, I know they were very helpful to me when I first got started:

The most often asked and annoying questions!
Thread about the anatomy of the penis

These should get you off to a good start.

Didn’t mean it WAS a muscle, but it does contain a muscle.

Wrong place my friend, do a search or check out the tutorial section. We try to keep threads on their intended topic here. :)

To answer this question, I’ve made the large majority of my gains by jelqing after masturbating. It seems that my dick is in the best condition for expansion at this time, and, like you, I have no problem maintaining a 60-80% erection.

I would also suggest that jelqing after wanking is even better than my gains give it credit for, seeing as my septum (part of my tunica) is my limiting factor. My BPEL quickly caught up to my BPSFL after I started jelqing in this way, so I imagine if I would stop being lazy and get my stretching in, the gains would continue.

Do what works for you my friend, nobody can argue with your own improvement.

I always do after Jelqing, it may have hindered my potential gains but I have had very good gains in the past 9 months or so.

Word! I think it’s more a myth that masturbation will hinder gains more than anything. As long as you are masturbating AFTER jelqing and you are getting enough of an erection to jelq, no problems at all. I think this myth persists because of turtling after masturbation, I do get that when I masturbate after jelqing, but when I jelqed for 6 months, 6-7 years ago, I masturbated virtually every time after I jelqed and I saw gains, no need to torture yourself.

I try not to masturbate but if I really have to I will wait after I’m done as a “warm down”

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