Weak ejaculation

So he is relying on pinching the hole to make it shoot farther? Like putting your finger over a garden hose? Did I get that right?

Exactly. It seems to have at least something to do with it. I mean, Peter North could shoot a fair distance without even touching his cock, but that’s because he’s Peter North and he’s a little different than us, but he used the garden hose effect for his most powerful shots too. Anyways, the garden hose effect seems to be a popular way to shoot a load and it may really be the secret for all of us dribblers. For those who can shoot powerful shots without doing this, how big is your meatus? Mine is quite big, but when I shrink it down, it seems to help.

dfurs660 are you talking about shooting when masturbating? If so, forget about it. I’ve come to the realisation that the volume (and shooting distance) depends on level of excitement, relaxation and how much you’ve cum beforehand. When you’re with a chick and your excitment level is high, you’ll find you’ll be like a firehose I’m sure. Anyway, that’s what I’ve found.

Um, well, Shintaro, most guys who can shoot can also shoot during masturbation as well.

Regardless, I think I’m getting better. I shot to my lower chest on my bed earlier, despite it being a quickie (needed to get off real fast, too horny). It all seemed to be a factor of letting the orgasm start before the ejaculation. I’m not sure how I did it, but I was experiencing the orgasm at least three seconds before the actual ejaculation began, and when it came out, it squirted out, despite the briefness of it, and the lack of “firehosing” that I did.

I dunno, it’s a complex process. If I do figure all of this out, I’ll try to help all dribblers out there overcome theirs. =)

I don’t know if I have a big meatus or not.

I will try this technique though.

What do you mean by tug down hard? Do you squeeze tight or pull back the dick to make all the skin tight above your hand?

I am intrigued.

I’m still confused.

Do you pinch towards the dick opening or pull down on the shaft to make the top of the dick taut, thus opening the opening a little more?

How hard do you press / squeeze?

With a firm grip on the shaft, close to the head, I pull down very hard (this will only work un-lubed). This will make the meatus close, pinch shut. If you want to see it work in action, next time you take a piss, use your fingers to close the meatus in a similar way and make sure you aim down a bit more. Yes, pissing and ejaculation are different, but it’s the exact same thing making it fly further. However, if you’re uncut, there’s a simpler way; just pull your foreskin up as high as you can. It’ll close around the whole head, and close off the meatus a little more.

I’ll try this soon, I haven’t had a good opportunity to get off right. It seems this new lube I have has been causing a few ill effects, so I’ll try dry again.

Thanks.

I’m cut.

Forgive me if I seem ignorant here, but if you grasp the shaft close to the head and pull down, won’t that pull the meatus open?

Maybe I’m looking at a wrong diagram or something.

Not really. It will stretch the thing more open, vertically, but it will pretty much be shut off, horizontally, if you get what I mean.

I personally, however, think it’s better to use lube and grip the whole head tightly, which will pinch it off in all directions. That takes more practice, though.

Any of you ever try Gauifenesin? It’s the drug name for Mucinex, the expectorant. Works well for me, as well as plenty of maca.

I didn’t know lots of ejaculation can cause erection problems.

How does Gauifenesin work? Does it thin the semen out to allow it to squirt out more?

Never heard of this stuff.

Is it available over the counter?

Hmmm. I’m experimenting with stuff.

Masturbate for about fifteen minutes, edging many times, then when I ejaculate, use my index finger (while still stroking) to put pressure on the urethra. Also, right at the exact moment when it’d usually be released, I kegel very hard. I’ve tried this twice while lying down (on back and on side) and both times, I didn’t SEE any semen fly out (then again, I don’t really look) but when I got up there’d be a big glop on the bed.

I think it works okay.

If I understand dfurs660 correctly, I have done the same wrong kegeling as he has. So if we have been doing excessively strong contractions while kegeling, we did not gain from doing this? Were we only suppose to do our best to only exercise the BC?

I followed avocet8’s advice to retrain in kegels and it has worked wonders for my intercourse duration. Before I had done these excessively strong kegeling for probably 2 years every other day and I would do 15mins at best during sex. Now I’ve been kegeling for two weeks trying my best just to train the BC and letting the PC relax, and for the past 2 nights I’ve lasted as long as I want and the wife is happy. The “BC only” kegeling has been effective in teaching me to control the sensations. I’m not sure the 2 weeks had strengthen my BC though, I think the 2 years of excessively strong kegels had done that with both my BC and PC. But do you guys think that by doing kegels wrong that I have enlarged my prostate by this incorrect exercising?

As for shooting, the strong BC has not helped. I tried tugging the shaft toward the base in various grip strengths and nothing has helped. I have a larger meatus opening as compared to when I was younger due to sex I guess and I know this larger meatus opening is the culprit. So I tried the advice for uncut guys and tried to pull my shaft towards the glans and it worked. I’m cut and have little or no excess skin so I just tried different grip strengths and that sweet spot is just hard to find,but at least I can find the correct strength a 25% of the time as compared to none at all for tugging towards the base.

Hope my experience can help others. And big thanks to you guys for sharing. Seldom ever last long during intercourse, now I can marathon when I want.