What are the points to Porn detox

Maybe yeah. The best thing you can do is to focus harder and harder until you get erections by imagination or when you touch yourself because you wanna.

Believe me I do have problems. Most of the time I need to see something so I can get erected. I have been watching porn since like 6 grade and now I am almost at my 3rd year of college soooo…. do the math ahahah.

Ok sorry, perfect grammar from now on.

I couldn’t have written it better.

While watching porn it took a lot to get me hard. Took increasing levels of porn to her me hard. Now seeing her hard nipples under her blouse makes me stiff and makes me leak.

For me, porn is poison!

I can relate to that last post. I do find real life women and more important my girlfriend when I don’t watch porn regularly. Its like a poison yeah. When I don’t watch porn for a while, see a hot girl with big tits and I haven’t cum for a while I get very very very hard like a rock.

I used to get hard rock anyway but yesterday I had a really, really, really lame experience so I guess I’ll start detoxing again…

I wish you good luck and keep us up with it!

I’m off with this crap and so far feels so fucking good.

Althought we have hard times with wife.

She has somewhat hard infection.

So no vaginal sex.

Oral, anal and some good old petting :D

But I..we enjoy it :)

It is remarkable how, with faster technology, how porn has become so accepted.

We have an entire generation who were raised on it to the point where women are choosing to watch also.

When we were kids we saw playboy. Magazines occasionally, but porn is now the steady diet for teens and older.

My wife cranks me too bro. It’s the best feeling in the world, especially after heavy porn use for a year or so.

The basic idea is that porn is so hyper-sexual that regular-sexual becomes less and less stimulating. While there is loads of research to support the idea that sexual dysfunction is correlated with amount of porn consumed, there might be a z factor of sexual frustration driving both phenomena. Where I have landed with it (as a lowly psych grad student) is that it really depends on the relationship you’re in. If you’re with a relatively “unsexual” (asexual, (read) prudish, or conservative) partner, porn is a substitute for what you want, and can absolutely desensitize you to the unsatisfying sex you’re having with your prudish partner. If you’re with a hyper-sexual succubus, porn is probably just going to give you some ammo to keep up with her outlandish desires. In the end, porn is a demonstration of what’s possible, and you will do with it what you will. As for trying to cut yourself off for PE gains.. If it makes you hornier probably a good idea. Otherwise, no dice.

Yeah Murder thats right. Another reason for me to cut the porn use is that I am not attracted to it as I used to be. I really dont like fake boobs, fake moans and all those positions they use so the camera can record the dick and pussy. I like it natural so when I watch porn ( I have been cutting and probably will entirely soon) I watch amateur or nothing just pics of girls I like.

When I tried to cut the porn out I just cut the pro porn. I kept watching my own amateur videos. I’m yet to see whether that’s enough or if I have to cut that too.

I tried cutting out porn for 3 weeks and found it harder to get an erection with my wife. I do have some venous leakage but, I know I watched excessive amounts of porn, probably in total accumulation of 4 hours a week. I am detoxing again but, how long does it take to have your libido come back?

I don’t have any insight for you (unofficially started a detox myself within the last month because I’ve just grown tired of porn and decided too late in life that I didn’t really like it or its effect on me), but you may get better feedback posting in this thread since it has been more recently active:

Quitting Porn

Last post here before yours was in 2014, whereas was reasonably active within the past two months in the other.

Thanks man.

Man it could take a long time depending on your use and reliance on it to get hard, and what it does to your brain as you self-pleasure. For me, it took about 5 weeks or so. I could get hard in a room all alone and masturbate but this anxiety would hit me like brick and I never felt that when I’d self-pleasure with porn on. Around 8 weeks or so I felt like I did in college, over 20 years ago. Now its been like 17 months since I quit porn, or more I don’t count it was March 2021, and while I do rarely look at it or just catch some photos here and there, when I think about being with my wife in any capacity, I start to get hard without touching myself. Last night we spooned in bed before going to sleep and my flaccid was pushed against her nude vulva and my cock started twitching and pulsing uncontrollably, she could feel it, simply said to me “I love your beautiful cock so much” and I grew to full size with it just barely making contact with her. When I watched porn daily this NEVER EVER HAPPENED. I’d have to have more stimulation to even get a semi.

Porn is poison it makes us impotent. I know it does because it happened to me! You have to give it time. Fall in love with your body and cock again, then your cock will fall in love with your wife again all on its own ;)

20 days in no porn, no Instagram, Twitter, TikTok. (They where places to watch porn for me )

I feel 100% different, I don’t feel depressed anymore, have longer-lasting erections, and I had fucked my husband more times in the last 15 days than so far this year. I truly feel like porn it’s one of the root of my mental health problems, and now that I’m taking control of it I feel like I can do anything !