What to tell my wife?

I think telling the wife really depends on the wife and the relationship. My wife is a medical person and hence thinks it’s all crap. Also, I know there’s no convincing her short of adding a couple more inches… which I’m working on. I do tell her that I do exercises to make my erections harder. I think she assumes I’m just doing kegels. She had made the occasional comments back when I was growing, but our relationship was pretty f***ed up then.

So I will caste my vote in the don’t tell her catagory… at least don’t dump all the gritty details on her if you think she’ll freak.

Be honest tell here but down play it. And dont go into details. I told my wife when we were just dating she seemed to like it at first. But i think she thinks im crazy now. She probably thinks its my excuse to jerk off every night.
She needs to know so you not sneaking around.

Horsehung told his wife that men naturally get bigger with age. Be careful here for you might find your wife all over your Grandpa. You know how charming those old guys can be. This just seems to risky.

I told my wife last night and she was very supportive. Then she went into “you’re perfect the way you are” mode to which I responded “don’t knock it till you try it.”

After that she wanted a demonstration of the exercises. This was not a good idea. It really made her cringe. I do agree that honesty is the best policy, but I was confident Mrs. J would understand. Your mileage may vary.

I’d tell her. You don’t have to convince her that it works but you may have to explain why you fibbed at first about it getting bigger. Don’t come off as you are looking for permission to improve yourself. Your tack should be: This is what I am doing and why, it would be nice to have your support. You will likely be surprised to find out she will support you, provide you with space and time and even be a little curious about the exercises. If she is like my wife the whole scene might even be a bit of a turnon for her. Good luck.

One other thing that I think I’d say, and have said to Mrs RBM:

“I’m doing this for me, but I know it affects you and our relationship together, too. I don’t want to make it so that our lovemaking is painful, and I’ll stop if you can’t adjust. It’ll be a learning process for both of us. My gains, if I have any, will most likely be quick at first, but will slow after a couple of months.” (You don’t want her to see you gain 3/4 of an inch in 2 months and think she’s going to be faced with Long Dong Silver in another 6 months!)

You have to let her feel like she’s part of your motivation, like she’s part of the process. You don’t want her getting the wrong idea, thinking that you want a bigger worm so that you can go fishing with it. ;)

RBM