Originally Posted by Plucky858
I’m curious of what size allows for best possible orgasm. I know everyone is different and this is very subjective but there has to be a base line somewhere!?
Look fella, I can see by your post(s), your really struggling here.. I’ll start off by saying I’m a DNP here in a local hospital.. I work around 90+ % women and believe me, they let it “all hang out”, so to speak lol..
That said,,, I hear all about vfc what’s not happening in the bed room right, what’s good etc.. What ya have to understand is the majority of women do in fact NOT have orgasm through sexual penetration alone..
My girl friend of almost 4 years before my was convinced it wasent possible.. She had one male lover out of high school who did her wrong, never had an orgasm with him or the next cheating fell then she turned to women for13 years.. She again was cheated in by a woman of 10 years then went straight..
Couple guys came and went and still no O from sex.. Then I step in.. I’m not a giant but I weigh in at 7”BP and 6” girth at base and lil over 5.5” mid shaft.. The very first time we had sex it was magical for us both.. We started her on top, I could feel her cervix, a moved my hips in a circular motion while she rode me..
After 10-15 minutes she came “unglued”, so to speak.. She felt like she needed to urinate, I urged her to continue on in that I knew what was about to happen.. Short of the story, she ended up have 6 back to back multiple orgasm from penetration..
My friend communication and trust are key as well.. There are more than one type of orgasm a woman can have ie. Clitoral, g spot, cervical etc.. Obviously for a cervical a guy will need to be able to hit her cervix and unlock it.. The clitoral is obvious, but the g spot is tricky.. With practice, control and restraint I’ve learned to give my queen a G spot orgasm as well.. In most women the g spotvis only a few inches in..
We as men love to go balls deep passing up this sweet spot lol.. But if you take your time, get your rhythm and keep direct stimulation on the g spot with the glands, magic will happen..
Does size matter?? To you it obviously does.. To some women , yes of course.. Is there an ideal size to produce orgasm from penetration?? Yes and no.. I can give my queen a g spot orgasm with one finger.. I feel you frustration in that this gal has told you about her past lovers.. I call bull shit on her, so you can either believe her or not.. If you do, do something about it for you..
Put your work in bro, be excited about it.. Make a goal but don’t obsess about it.. I do personal training part time at a local gym, and it’s the same principle.. I’m a week in to PE and seeing results.. No stress, no fuss it’s basically 45 min or so I dedicate to ME.. Do it for yourself not her.. Given stats you probably won’t even be with her forever, I know you both are very young.