When did YOU find out you were BIG?

I am small, insecure and have a bad EQ. That was the mindset I had when I joined thunder half a year ago. Done some PE since and grew a little but lately I have discovered a few things.

A wile ago I browsed through the penile length stats. As me being a guy with a small dick I didn’t think much of it. Then I got a bit of a shock. According to the statistics I was in the top 5% lengthwise and in the top 2% in girth! What?! That is impossible! But when I looked better at the porn that warped my perception, and what I saw from the guys in the locker room I started to agree. I am BIG.

I have always had trouble with condoms. I hate the suckers, they are tight and I really need to stretch them down. My ex had a couple of hundred free ones from her insurance and those buggers made me feel bad and insecure, I couldn’t hold a erection in those. Turns out.. it wasn’t me. I bought durex XL and those are much better! Wait… If I am buying XL I gotta be XL!

Yesterday, went to bed (no sex yet :( ) with my new girlfriend, and she’s a bit small. At one point she grabs my dick through my underwear… at first she she’s shocked, then she starts laughing. Oh noes! What will she think of me? :( Now worries! She tells me she feels a huge thick thing down there and is actually worried If she is able to fit it! During the evening she made a couple of remarks and jokes about my penis size and repeatingly grabbing and playing with it to check. A real fun evening i might add. :)

These events happened in the last 1,5 months. My mindset changed quite a lot. I thought I was nothing special, but now I walk proud and secure on the streets. Not hiding the bulge in my pants! I see the ladies smiling, and boy does that feel good!

So guys, when did you find out that you were big?

Ps. Stats
5,7 mid EG
6.1 base EG
7.3 BPEL

HappytoPE,

Your stats are similar to mine now, I feel pretty good these days not huge but I don’t have a Small penis complex
anymore and it’s great.

Glad your happy pal.

Those are my stars as well, consider myself average.

USA_Prof,

Well there bigger than average !

Hey man, your stats are looking good, keep up the good work

Ps: leuk om hier ook een Nederlander tegen te komen, ik ben vrij nieuw hier en ook met PE. Ik hoor graag je schema enz

Greetz

I’ll let ya know when I get there.

7” is just plain huge! Discovery can be liberating.

When a part time pro I was about to fuck told me that she had to dig out the Magnums cause I wasn’t going to fit in a regular.

A sweet moment.

Everyone would say that 7” is BIG. Size queens are the only ones who would say that it’s still SMALL.

I’m not 100% convinced of this.

Hardbody, buddy, you really understand this, I know you do. ;) It is true, YOU have a big penis. I know, I know, the girls you know/hang out with, etc. etc. all say they have had 8 & 9”, and that THAT is big. (no, that is HUGE)

I’ve always admired your steadfastness HB, but take a breath and accept it. You have a LARGE dick.

It’s ok to want a larger unit, for whatever reason you think. But, WHEN you find the right girl, your dick will be BIG to her.

I’m not sure what thread Invisible did it in, but I recall him doing a height percentile to penis size percentile comparison.

I would imagine your dick size was/is the equivalent to being 6’2” tall. (A big dude in most people’s book)

Ha ha, well Acid Jazz then my stats are actually very fitting for my frame. I am 5’ 7” with a broad upper body (it will be when it gets more muscle, I can already see it happening.) My dick is roughly 5.65” x 5.5”. My length is at average or a bit under but my thickness is bigger than it should be for my height.

While I am not huge at all length-wise, the first time I realized my dick was thick was when I tried to put on a condom just to try it on and it could barely get it on. That was when I was 5.125 or so (not sure I never measured it but it was roughly in that area.) I asked one of my friends about it and he said they were supposed to be like that so I just assumed that I was average (which was great back then when I had deep penis size insecurities.)

The first time I realized I was thicker than average: I was pretty drunk and tried to put on a condom for a comparison pick for later and I couldn’t get keep a hard on in it. Normally I get stronger boners when I am intoxicated (up to a certain point, which I haven’t crossed in over half a year) so I tried it again the next day sober and the same thing happened. When I realized that I needed bigger condoms, I began to question my insecurities.

When I realized my dick was more than good enough to get the deed done: I looked at it from the side. That’s it. You go ahead and try it. Get a strong one and then bend down and look at it from the side. Looks bigger doesn’t it? Well I did that and then was taken aback by how big I looked. That’s when I realized that my dick wasn’t small at all. I have come to terms with the fact that I am average length and far above average girth. Also came to the conclusion that since I was average length, my excellent girth would make me BETTER than average. Boy was I happy!

And now I am here. Completely happy with the penis I have but I also realize that more length will NOT hurt me but only make my dick better. I am fine with the girth I have but I know that jelqing and ballooning will increase that and that is fine. I am just not going to do any other girth stuff I don’t want a Coke can dick.

I got the opposite effect! I am 7.3 BPEL, 5.3 EG, and my actual girlfriend told me I’m a common size. Actually average. ( And for women average means small ). She was being a little disappointed when telling me this. So it depends on every woman’s perception. She also told me her ex was having the same stats ( but according to her, he was tall and had a small dick ). And I really didn’t expect these remarks from a 5’2” woman. She’s also astonished when she looks at hung men ( pictures, porn, etc ) and she says “what a horse”.anyway, she told me many jokes regarding my size and I felt so small. I even told her she must be more careful when speaking of my manhood, and suddenly she tells me I’m big. I recently asked her to tell me her perfect size, and she told me mine is perfect, because she can’t handle more. Full of crap, isn’t it ? Now, I know I’m not the biggest guy on earth, not even big, but above average. Unfortunately, she thinks I’m just a common size. Frustrating.

Actually this week. It really brought it home. I had two girls refuse to blow me because of my girth. I managed to convince them. One girl actually estimated my length at 7.5 - 8” when I’m closer to 6.3”. I didn’t ask her, she just came out with it. From my experience, women definitely overestimate length. My ex never mentioned my size but I’m pretty sure I was only her 2nd guy so she wouldn’t have had a basis for comparison.

If a women tells a guy with a legitimate 7” NBP dick he’s small, then she’s doing it deliberately to fuck him up. Some women can’t stand to see a guy who’s proud of his looks so they’ll cut him down any chance they get. It’s pure insecurity.

These days I’m more focused on improving EQ and edurance. It would be nice to have some more length but not sure it’ll ever happen.

I have a story like raoul’s. I’m 7.75” BPEL (a little more on a great day) x 5” EG. I was with this girl and she insisted that there was something “magic” about my dick. I was just long enough to be able to go at it without having to worry about bumping her cervix, but if I pushed my hardest against her pubic bone, I could just nudge it.

One day I was talking to a friend of hers and I believe the quote was, “It must be nice being huge.” Huge was not a word that I was used to hearing about myself. It was quite and ego boost, and it was good to know I was getting positive reviews.

Later, I let her know that I knew she was talking about my size, sort of hoping to get the compliment first hand, and she thought I brought up size because I was insecure. She then gave me the, “you’re perfectly average” garbage in a reassuring tone as if to comfort a smaller guy. I was upset.

So I’m still not sure what her perception was. My guess is that because I’m longer, but only average girth that maybe I look thin. Maybe thin meant small to her and that’s why she couldn’t understand why I was hitting that “magic” spot. It seemed that my penis confused her. Or maybe she just didn’t want me to get full of myself. I’ll never know.

I walked away from it confidently though. I know I’m above average. I know that she was aggressive because she was happy with the sex. And she was too wet and quivering too much to be faking. I just wish she had hotter friends to sing my praise to.