Where I stand

First of all….excellent site! I’ve always believed in self-improvement in all aspects of my life.

I’ve lurked here for several weeks and have been jelqing about a week off and on. I am personally glad I am not the only one with these same feelings and desires. I measure right at 6” NBP and 6.5 BP. My current girth is 6”. After reading many members comments, I guess I should feel pretty good starting at 6X6 but I want to be bigger. I don’t know where I stand in the below avg, avg, to above avg range, but I want to be in the 7” club personally.

I feel jelqing is already working on my girth, which I always been complimented on by my wife, who by the way has never complained, but judging by her assortment of dildos ranging from 4-11inches, I know I can improve. I have watched her take almost all 11 inches and she cums like a bandit using the big dildo, but the smaller ones also work. I guess I’m lucky she is orgasmic with most sizes. But I’ve noticed the 11 inch rubber cock really makes her wetter and have stronger orgasms. Makes me wonder why the heck I bought it in the first place? Go figure.

My goal is to be 7.5”X6.5”. I want to achieve it silently and see if she notices improved quality in our love making sessions.

Any comments are most welcome. I enjoy all of your posts, everyone seems very supportive of guys efforts to improve themselves no matter what size they are. Glad I found the site. Oh yeah, I’m considering “hanging” some weight, but I am very very leary of this. But the more I read, the more I see gains others are experiencing by this method. Thanks for reading my post and I’ll repost some follow up measurements in about a month or two. I’m really trying hard NOT to measure myself.

Good to see you’ve set yourself achievable goals and jelqing is a great way to start growing. Remember to take it nice’n’easy to start with and build up from there. You’re a good size already - slap bang in the middle of average length and above average girth which is excellent because girth is much harder to gain - be careful about gaining too much girth - you wouldn’t want to do yourself out of BJ’s! There’s lots of routines and tips scattered all through these pages so enjoy and keep us posted!

Good Luck!

lil1 :littleguy

Welcome, and goob job on realistic values, not that “I want to gain 3” in one year” crap. And I thought I was proportionally chubby starting at 6.5X5.5 Damn!! At 6X6 yours must look like a can of Cambles chunky soup!

I made the mistake of thinking initially that manual stretches didn’t do much. If I were in your shoes I think I would emphasize stretching, and what jelqing I would do I would be careful to keep it at less than 60% erection.
Interesting observations about your wife’s collection. If women thought like men she would have thrown everything out except the big one, goes to show that thier priorities and what they find pleasing on a given day may vary.

>>But I’ve noticed the 11 inch rubber cock really makes her wetter and have stronger orgasms.>>

I think that you may be right but she might not percieve it necessarily the same way all the time. Her subjective satisfaction is probably more important to her than whether she exuded 5 cc or 20 cc vaginal fluid.

>> Makes me wonder why the heck I bought it in the first place?

Because you are a man and think like a man, “If big is good - bigger is better” and you love her and wanted her to have maximal pleasure - it made sense to you. Did she buy any of them at all, If not that should tell you something. If she did - take note of the sizes and shapes she did pick out for herself. You may not need to put much size on to be her Ideal, perfect fit. Cheers.

A hardy thanks to all that replied. I especially appreciate the advice not to get to much girth! If I knocked myself out of BJ’s I don’t know what I’d do.

About keeping a 50-60-70% hard-on, this is very difficult to do. Jelqing is not far away from beating off for me and I have to stop and start again quite a bit. I find jelqing easy and it does make the head swell up like a cathead biscuit.

I want to stretch but I am absolutely ‘small’ flaccid and have very little to work with. I am starting out slow. I’ll have to read up on manual stretching as adding weights scares the dodo out of me! I am happy now knowing I’m about average, but I of course want more!! Go figure?

Oh yeah, I’ve purchased all toys for my wife and I have no idea which is her favorite.

6 x 6 is much larger than average, girth-wise. You’re ahead already and will probably see some nice increase after some work. Feel it out. Choose your routines carefully. Hanging is not essential for length gain, although it does work for a lot of guys.

Welcome to the club. You’ll find a lot of support here. Keep us posted.