Who says 8x6 is the ideal size?

NineInchNails,
just got curious: you gained 4 cm in 3 months (from Nov11 to Feb 8)!
Can you tell us how you did it? Never heard of such a remarkable gain!

Oden

I just wanted to know, when people say 8x6 is the ideal size, do they mean 8 inches BPEL or NBPEL?

On the penissizedebate chart website, is that based on BPEL or NBPEL?
The Ideal Penis Size - The Penis Size Preference Chart: preferred penis size, penis shape and penis looks.

Also, when someone wants to know your penis size, do we say the BPEL or NBPEL measurement?

I don’t think 8X6 is ideal size. I will tell you why, I’m 7 And I literally can’t insert all of it. My girth is almost 6 And My partner have to open his mouth like hell, so where the idea in this! I don’t care about the ideal size for a woman, I need the ideal size for me too. More then 7 inches in length is useless, you can only use it for different or hard positions, but to insert all of it, you just can’t, The majority cannot take it, that’s the bottom line. About girth yes 6 is ideal and more is an option, The vagina canal is not an open space, Trust me my penis sometimes bend inside it just hit the end and my partner is screaming like a fuckin annoying hell.

whynotbig, yes i agree with you, i’m just asking for reference because i need to know if they talking in BPEL or NBPEL. You said my partner has to open HIS mouth, so does that mean your partner is a male? He has a vagina? :o

Do you know the answers to my original questions? Cheers

All I’m saying is.. If my dick was 8x6 half the women I slept with would of been running for the hills. Or id have to spend my entire life savings on bottles and bottles of astroglide ;) either way 8x6 is too big. As whynotbig said anything past 7 is hard to fit. I think the ideal size would be 7-7 1/2x5.25. That’s just an ideal size that will certainly please any lady, but of course nothings wrong with having a little extra just for show :D

:) Well 101% FEMALE. HIS word was a huge mistake of me :S, I’m against anal sex, maybe you didn’t stop on some of my posts, but I had to read my post before posting it, Just busy because I had to run take a shower after gym. Any way the pic you saw and its kinda rubbish, and has nothing to do with truth, let me tell you why, I got married before few years ago, and my partner wanted to watch some porn, even though SHE, S not a fan of porn, but you know she wanted some voices while we make some love, better than my bethoven music :D She’s start telling me ohh why these guys are very huge, and she start having this idea that bigger is better, so the devil start playing with my brain and you know some manly hood shit, so I decide to hit the gym first of all to remove the fat pad. So I did after a long battle with it reduce it to almost 10% fat, or maybe less, With some month’s in the PE. And after that trust me I hear complaint all the time. Stop stop I cannot take you and I can’t adjust to this and try to stop you’re PE because this is already big for me. So I really got pissed off like hell, and I decide to tell open up 100% with her, and I told her that you told me that you think bigger is better, her simple answer was I was wrong sorry I don’t need it that big. It’s mentality issue, One time I decide to pump like extreme and to have sex, she literally made my life hell, no stop please can you cum fast! And don’t take it as I suck in bed, no I make sure that my partner cum at least 5 6 7 8 times and sometimes 13 times, until she spit the last cum in her body, we foreplay almost an hour. So the idea is they suck in visual measuring, and the big or small mentality, and even if you give them a ruler they will measure from you’re balls and up, they just don’t know shit BPEL! Do you really think that they know what is BPEL and NBPEL? If you think maybe they do, then why the majority measure from the bottom of the penis, not from the top like how we do! When you make a chart and assume that the sizes in this chart does reflect every woman needs, then you are an idiot. So the owner of this chart is just an idiot nothing more or less. More then 7 inches in length it will just help you to make some hard positions, but to insert all of it, some may take it, but the majority won’t. As you see vagina comes with sizes, the average is 4 5 6 inches depth. Some will tell you that when the woman is aroused the cervix will shirt up, yes its true but there is an end for the shirt up, which is 4 5 or 6 inches. So if you have more then this then you will just cause a huge discomfort for the woman, and most of them loses their focus to cum, because the pain is over whelming.

Now my advice to you is, forget about all this rubbish you see or read over the internet, and focus on you’re PE, make you’re goal limitless, I was hoping to gain .5 inches in girth, now I almost cross the 1 inch. And if any woman ask you in bed what is you’re size, if you’re 6 tell her you’re 7, if you’re 7 tell her you’re 8, and you will see the wow face :O, The majority don’t know shit, they hear things from a friend of a friend of a friend :) rumors :) Have a great day.

Whynothing , in general I agree with you .

I navigate a lot in lpsg.com and there I see a lot of huge dicks . It seems that 8x6 is average in that site .

I know that most of them lie when they post stories , but what about the photos ? Are they all fake ? There are too many photos .

Being this said , my question is : all these men cant fuck ? They wont find a woman that can take theirs huge cocks ?

My answer is : YES they can fuck , and A LOT !!!

Good post whynotbig. I do PE for myself and so the 8x6 number is my goal. I figure that I’m on my way there and I have great EQ and maybe when I get there I will want more, but this isn’t about my wife or any other woman who has ever been in my life, this is about me.

Women please themselves. They decide what is correct for them, and you can tell them otherwise, but they will go ahead and fall back on what they already decided.

And if you do manage to convince them otherwise, it will come back to haunt you.

My ex used to demean me about my dick by singing about big black dicks and making mmmm, mmmm sounds and when I told her I didn’t appreciate the comments, she laughed and told me I was jealous. It got to the point where she would make comments about movie stars having big dicks, and I just slept on the couch. In retrospect, I don’t think she thought I would be hurt by her comments, and that it was just her immature nature, but it sure pissed me off over time.

I think it was my insecurity driven by her comments that made me search for something like Thunder’s, and when I found this place and began doing the work, and got results(!) the feelings of insecurity and her stupid whiney voice in my head went away.

After a year of PE I had gained a solid inch of new dick and my new wife didn’t say a word. I gained some girth also and she obviously loved that, but again, never said anything.

So the memory of my exes crap went away and my new wife was unchanged, so I realized that as with anything else, you have to do it for yourself and if others appreciate your efforts, all the better.

8x6 seems like the right number to aim for. It’s big, it’s rare and it’s close enough to my size now that I feel it’s obtainable, which motivates me to hang weights from my dick!

First never trust a photo, specially if a photo of a penis, and the man is bragging about it. Any one, I never said people with bigger then 7 can’t have sex. I said its difficult for them, they have to go slow, other wise they hurt their partner, that’s what I meant. By the way having a big dick doesn’t mean you will fuck a lot.

Well I’m almost the same length as you 7. And let me tell you something, Why I think 8 in length is not idea, because you can’t enter all of it, you can’t pound hard. So okay you have 8, but you can’t do all what you want, you get 6+ inches in girth and say bye bye to anal sex, bye bye to a good blow job. Now I don’t care about anal sex, but blow job is not a pain in the ass, but teeth marks on my dick :D Now with all my negative comment, would I want 8x6, I would tell you no, honest speaking. I would go for 8+ and 6+ why!! We are fuckin sick creatures :) simply, I won’t enter all of it, but I change positions a lot. But my personal ideal is 7.5 NBPEL and 6-6.2 in girth, That’s my ideal. And I’m so near, I’m already 6.2.5 in base girth, I don’t care about it because, I can’t enter with my full length. So how could someone feel the base girth! I would go 6.2 for MSEG :) Keep going man, I would like to hang but I can’t find the right material all sucks :S with what do you hang exactly!

Interesting topic guys, but how about those huge dildos women can buy to pleasure themselves with? We’re talking 6, 7, 8 heck even 10 inches in length with girth of 6-8 inches.

I started out with 6 inch girth and my partner has no trouble giving me head. Anal obviously it has to be eased in slowly and given time to accommodate, but after that it’s all good :)

Scientifically speaking, There is an end for the vagina, some girls come with longer then 6 7 inches depth. Now about the girth, girls can get very wide, specially if they use big toys. Girls can’t suddenly big toys, they keep upgrading, because the pussy will keep getting loose, so they start 5 then up to 8 inches, we are talking about very active girls who have no regards to their sexual life nor their vagina. These people you must dissuade them, we are talking about normal people in here, who doesn’t use 7 8 inches wide dildo. Now every while someone will pop up with a new thing, Well if they buy 10 inches long dildo does that means they will insert all of it? I’m a fan of brutal dildos movies, and non of the girls did insert more then 6 7 inches. So you must care about the girth not length, Normal girl 5 to 5.5 inches girth is way enough for them, sexually active from 5.5 to 6,and girls who’s addicted to sex, and they get used to big toys then generally speaking you start from 6 girth up to 8 inches. This is it. Usually they can’t take more then this due to the pubic bones I think. But normal girl no matter how much sex she have, or how big was her previous partner, 5 to 5.5 is pretty decent. You can’t go out with hookers all your life and then come and comment that girls love big dicks, well hell yes hookers vagina are completely loose. I’ve watch many fisting videos, where the man insert 2 hands in the vagina, When and when I tried to do it, I tried to insert 4 fingers and I couldn’t. You can’t apply every thing you see in porn. By the way most porn stars are not more then 6 in girth. Porn girls tries to hold the penis with a specific way, so you think that they have bigger then 7 inches in girth, plus they have a special camera trick. I do not mean that all of them are small, but most of them are not more then 6 in girth bottom line.

5 posts and yet, no answers to my original post. It seems like no one knows the answer to my questions.

whynotbig, that’s one of the best posts I seen on this forum. BUT you saying women prefer bigger mentally but a smaller size physically, which makes things extremely complicated. This is like saying, I would love to own a MANSION, but I am much more comfortable living in a small cosy apartment. I read a comment somewhere, the ideal size is 12 inches floppy and 7-8 inches when erect lol. Arghhh penis size sucks, but what sucks more is PE because even though you are in control of your own size (with efforts), you don’t know where to go with it, you can still never win at this game. In order to win this game, you need two penises, big one for show and the smaller one to use lol.

I once talked to this woman on chat and we had a very long conversation (30-60 minutes). She said a 7 incher would smash her cervix, so I ask her what she thinks is the ideal penis size. She said 8 inches. I then say to her “how is 8 inches be ideal when you just told me a 7 incher would smash your cervix lol”. Then no response, she didn’t know what to say. I waited and asked if she’s still there, but nope, no message back even though she was still on chat.

I think the problem is, every guy wishes to be 8 inches, and because it’s the most popular size guy wants to be and women hear this all the time, so naturally believes this must be the best size (why would everyone want to be something that is not cool right?). I think it’s all the guys in this world that have brainwashed women to believe bigger is better. It’s our fault guys, we the one put it in their heads, so you can’t blame them.

So I agree with, whynotbig, it’s all a mental issue for women, not that they need it physically. The difference is not huge though, atleast that’s the good thing, so the conclusion is:

FACT #1: Most women DO NOT want more than 8 inches NBPEL! 8 inches is really the sky limit for ‘nearly’ all the women.
FACT #2: Most women say that they want 8 inches ONLY because that’s the size every guy says they are. It’s not the size woman want really.
FACT #3: Women say they want 8 inches, but they don’t know why they say it. Show them the ruler, 7 inches is the max they want.
FACT #4: Nearly all women would choose a 7 inch dildo over an 8 inch dildo, when you show them both dildos together.
FACT #5: Nearly all women thinks 7 inches look the best visually, 8 inches looks too big to them. When they say TOO big, they mean it in a bad way, not a good way. Guys assume too big means “too good” lol. It’s good to have too much money, but when it comes to penis size, too big means “no I don’t want it that big.
FACT #6: Seven inches will hurt most woman and pain is not a good thing. Guys assume too much pain equals too much pleasure lol. Try an experiment, ask one of your buddys to punch in your stomach as hard as they can, 500 times in a row, or 5 minutes non-stomach punching. How does it feel guys, are you feeling pleasure? lol
FACT #7: Penis size is related to 3 senses. By hearing, women want 8 inches. By visual, women want 7 inches. By feeling (physical), woman want 6 inches.

These are the facts. So how do you decide which is the PERFECT penis size for woman?

We aren’t choosing for a woman here m21684. This is about the male ego and the damage done over time, and what it takes to repair it, if that’s at all possible.

I maintain that all the creative good things (and the bad things too) are accomplished by someone missing something in their lives., and the accomplishment is directly related to the missing piece.

So by that measure 8 x 6 meets the criteria for me. (At least I think it will.)

TAXI!

My wife bounces up and down on 7 just like she did on 6, and I would guess that she would bounce up and down on 8 in just the same way!

I hang with a handi-clamp and metal weights from my weight set.

I hung hanged for the first time today.

Here is the thread that documents the whole of my hanging experience.