Why the quest for larger when you already have enough

No offense, but in my experience, this simply isn’t true. I think you are confusing hitting the cervix with truly hitting bottom.

I was naturally about 7x5 ( give or take .25 inch for both dimensions) when I started PE.
Let me tell you that women go nuts with an 8x6!
I speak from expereince. I barely enter them when they are are saying…

“OH MY GOD! You feel so damn good!”

This a repeating pattern that I have notice with all women but I dont recall getting as many comments when I was 7 x5. Im not saying this to discourage or create a complex for any one on the forum that is less than 8x6. Im just telling it like it is otherwise whats the sense of posting if you are not going to be frank and honest.
Anyone that knows me knows that I shoot from the hip. 8x6 is where its at. I challenge anyone to reach this level and then tell me that your wife or GF has not made dramatic changes in her reactions during sex.
OK well I admit there are some exceptions like Asian women and a minority of women who generally dont tolerate much more than average but you guys know what I mean. Most women will react favorably to an increase in size but only to a certain point then its the law of diminishing returns.

Mule,

When you study the cds, you may come under the impression it’s inside the vagina, as I was for quite a while. My understanding now is that it’s a pouch located behind the bottom of the vagina, and requires a dick with a long enough reach to push the bottom into it.

When I was 6.25 bp, with a dozen women I never hit bottom. Only one reacted for a few seconds like I had entered something (and I felt myself slip by something at that very moment she went bezerk), and I now believe I had entered her posterior fornix slipping by her cervix. In her excitement she immediately expanded even more and it was no longer in my reach and she calmed back down. I’m married now and have only been with her (not the one in my example, that was many years ago) while growing, and at 7.25 bp I can’t hit bottom. I do get an “OH” from her at times, but she can’t tell me what I’m touching to cause that and I don’t feel it. Maybe part of the bottom at times afterall? Anyway, she tells me to go for as much as I want, and I know she wants it too. I guess she could change her mind, but I don’t think so, and at the slow rate I’m growing it certainly won’t be anytime soon.

Why go for more?

Because we can! :D

And its the fact that we know we can and that there are many who don’t believe that encourages us even more! Just so we can laugh in their faces because they think they have to accept what nature gave them. Never give up, always strive for perfection… you may never reach it, but it can be a lot of fun and you’ll discover a lot about yourself along the way! :)

I have been with several women who don’t begin to lose it until I get my pinkie in, and without exception but with patience and proper preparation they seem to really dig when I’m in up to the third knuckle- at least they ask me to do it again.

I wear an XL glove and my hand measures ~8” at the third knuckle of my longitudinally cupped hand, >8” with thumb.

Internally we’re talking soft tissue that has some leeway- in fact a great deal under the stress of pregnancy, so to imagine that poking and prodding is going to be affected by an inch either way seems to deny the truth that most women can take far more than almost all men can give.

For me it is ego and id driven- I want to be the one she tells her girlfriends about today and then walk into the room to see lustful curiosity in their eyes. I want to be the one she tells her granddaughter about in the far future with a happy wistful smile of memory. I want to be the one she thinks about when she’s fucking the next guy, I want to be the monster fuck of her life, I want to bottom out with cock to spare and just sit inside her while she shivers and shakes and pulls me in deeper. I want my accumulated rack skills to be the icing on the cake, to be why she can take the big one. So it isn’t just about swinging a big one in the locker room, and it isn’t even about bringing her pleasure beyond belief- it’s about knowing that she knows that I gave her that pleasure that she never had before, and will likely never have again.

That’s my definition of enough.

Whether it’s sex, breasts size, cock size or wealth…

MORE is better!

Ain’t that the truth!

Let’s not leave out bubble butts, and great hips!

Seriously:
I just hate knowing she’s had bigger. Plane and simple.

I always have moments of fear from the story of “his cock was too big to put in my”..

Damn that bastard!

(Side note: My girlfriend continually tells me I’m the best she’s ever had. But, DAMN THAT BASTARD!)

Mule, I’m flattered that you took the time to read and analyze my post & spend the time to respond to it.

Yes, I consider myself EXTREMELY lucky. The height of my sexual adventures (there have been quite a lot) was at a time before AIDs was so widespread.

The size you mentioned is very close to my size. Most of them have said it was big (not huge though :( ). I’ve never been with a woman who was not able to take the whole thing and enjoy the sex when done properly. As far as oral sex, this size fits comfortably in most women’s mouths and throats. Most had trouble getting the entire length down, but they weren’t stretched too uncomfortably. Thus, dubbing this size, “comfortably large.”

Mule, you are so correct. Porn is NOT a representation of real life. They are actors. HOWEVER, do a search on Bella Donna and you will see her not only swallow Lex Steele, but also take him to the hilt in two other places.

I mentioned websites with women enjoying very large toys. I can confirm that some women really enjoy this type of stimulation based on my personal experience. I’ve had girlfriends who love really big toys and even fisting (my hands are large enough to palm a basketball).

Painless sex is truly about having a willing partner and patience/technique.

Good luck in your PE goals!

Sure, she could do it, but what’s the point if she doesn’t enjoy it? Isn’t that, or shouldn’t it, one of the reasons to do pe; to create a dick that brings more pleasure to your woman instead of less?

But why then do the figures say that a pussy in excited state is on average 5” to 6” deep? I didn’t create those numbers, I pressume the medics did. And it stands to reason that if they are going to determine “average excited pussy depth” that they will then measure all the way to the bottom, not stop at the cervix.

Here www.penissizedebate.com/page41_vagina-size.htm is a link to the site whose stats I’ve been relying on.

If you have stats that say differently then I will gladly take a look at them.

Beenthere,

I just read a thread on the Cul de Sac, very interesting and something that I was completely ignorant off. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. I want to see if I can actually reach that spot without hurting the future Mrs Mule. As I understand it, this should make her a very happy Mrs Mule. :) !

I don’t know what to say. :)

Likewise, thank you for taking the time to read and analyse my post and spend the time to respond to it!

You are absolutely right, but how many have a Bella Donna waiting in the bedroom? I know I don’t. Which brings me back to the point of my opening post: why want more when you already have enough? Unless I’m the only one whose woman doesn’t want more dick, and I doubt that’s the case, then this raises the question: what is it with man and dicksize that makes them willing to potentially sacrifice sexual pleasure for both themselves and their partner, just so they can sport a huge dick?

Right again. :) But “painless sex” doesn’t equate “most pleasant sex,” and I’m certain that’s what everyone wants. What if your dick is so large that going “pubic bone to pubic bone” becomes a “no go area”? That would for me be a decrease in sexual pleasure, yet if it’s necessary to avoid pain then it must be done. Resulting in painless sex at the expense of pleasure. And when I look at the goals that some members have set themselves, then either they have a partner who can take a lot more than the average pussy depth indicates most women can take without pain or they are setting themselves up for a decreased quality of their sex life.

Thank you. I’ve been thinking about doing pe for what must be 6 years now, and I already know that this obsession with getting truly hung is not going away. I.e. For myself I will start pe and watch future Mrs Mule’s responces as I go, and hope I have the self-control to stop before my dick becomes a torture tool instead of a tool of pleasure.

( I just looked over this post and I’m certain there are a good number of spelling and grammar mistakes, and I don’t see a spell-check. Fact is that I’m autodidact and aware that my spelling and grammar are less than perfect, I just hope I’m not brutalizing the english language too much. )