Will I ever have a normal sex life

1. No
2. No

The first time I had sex, I coudlnt really feel anything at all either and my girlfriend was very tight. It just felt odd to me, and didnt really even feel good. I kept doing it and about the 3rd and 4th time it felt great and it keeps getting better and better the more you do it. I didnt cum until probably the 5th time of having sex with my girlfriend. Once you cum you will feel more comfortable with her, just get the hang of it. The next few times should be different, or at least they were for me. The first time is like a learning experience.

Can I please add to this thread? I want you to know that you’re perfectly fine. This actually happened to me this weekend and I’ll tell you about it. I met a wonderful girl and we hit it off and we ended up having sex. I was going and going for aquite some time and I had a feeling that she orgasmed already but wasn’t going to ask her in the middle of it, so I kept going. I kept thinking in my head, “Nascar, baseball, work, Nascar, baseball, work” just to keep from cumming. It got to the point that she actually asked me if it was good for me and was I into her and such. I had to assure her that everything was absolutely awesome and that she was really turning me on. It just took me awhile. I was able to finish and she was happy because she had multiple orgasms. She felt better after she asked and she actually told me that she orgasmed awhile back and that I didn’t have to hold back if I didn’t want to. It was incredible. You’re fine brother!

#1: Maybe….I beat my dick like it owes me money, and I take forever with women, too. Especially with the few whores I have been with, although I think that is very normal. You should definately mix it up some though. Use your other hand, real light pressure, etc.. better yet, find something you can fuck, like a fleshlight or the homemade variety (roll a towel folded lengthwise into thirds around a latex glove, and fold the glove back over the towel, lube, and hammer away!) This way you will get used to cumming from thrusting, and you can work on your stroke, so you are sure to impress the next time you are with a girl. I had built up plenty of “experience” this way before I was finally able to get laid, and I think I was much better off for it.

#2: No way. Unless she JUST got railed by someone much bigger, the pussy only stretches enough to accomodate your dick. You should feel something. After all, tampons stay in, don’t they?

MY FIRST TIME WAS EXACTLY LIKE YOURS, FOR THE EXACT SAME REASONS AND IT FELT THE EXACT SAME WAY. And it had nothing to do with my penis size or masturbatory habits. I didnt cum until my 5th time or so either, by then with a girl I actually cared about. Don´t worry, relax, and get your confidence and overall sex skills up there together with your penis size.

How bout an experiment. Put on a rubber and go beat off. Even if you do cum you should know it is way easier to get yourself off.

It is true. I don’t last as long since I started PE. I used to go as long as I wanted (though rarely did I want to go longer than 20 minutes or so) but now I’m fine until my wife lets out a good moan and then I’m over the edge. I want a happy medium :)

Don’t worry, it took me a few weeks to orgasm in a condom. It is a simple matter of your dick being conditioned to receiving stimulation from a hand, which cannot be replicated with a condom…
You will learn to orgasm from less stimulation friction, which is the problem that condoms present…
It may take a few days or weeks, but you will be successful…
I would start off by trying to jerk off in a condom for the next few weeks…

Good luck,
RB