Yes, these are serious questions

You’re big compared to any group of people, and if your fiance is happy with it and says not to worry, then don’t worry. From the sound of things, she might not like your insecurity over something that she is perfectly happy with. Also, don’t worry about comparing yourself to her former lovers. Women are notoriously bad judges of penis size, so those guys probably weren’t much larger than you, if at all.

Most penis surveys find the average/median length to be about 5.5”-6.5” BPEL, and average girth is around 4.75”. You’re substantially bigger on both counts. Porn is evil. Ever notice how the guys in porn rarely get their dicks all the way in? Something to think about.

As for maintaining the EQ, kegels :) I also recommend staying in good cardiovascular shape, avoiding junk food, and maybe taking ginseng or L Arginine.

Are you sure?
Maybe it’s just my perception, but it seems to me that the first reason for PE still is the subtle desire to be able to hurt - slightly, and only sometimes, maybe - women.

But, if it’s true and you DON’T want that, then the question becomes: why you’re trying to do so?

Well you would want your partner to hurt every time after sex? Now I realize you said only sometimes, but if it hurt say 4 out of 5 times that is not cool at all. I am not trying to hurt her which is why I am stopping PEing I just wanna keep my good EQ’s going the way they are right now :)

Just take it easy. Do some jelqs and kegels and you will be ok.

What would you people suggest? like 2-3 times a week 25-50 jelqs in the shower. Also I should now stay away from the stretching correct? Something amazing happened last night I had a massive hard on and I have never seen it this big or so full so I measured the length and I was a little over 7” NBP and right between 7 3/4-8” I really wish I would have measured the girth because it was looking massive, all I got was one picture I was so proud of it lol :D