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Hello all,
I’ve been PEing on and off, started 3 years ago or so… saw gains early and the plateaued. I just started again and was dying to tell this girl that I’ve gotten a few blowjobs from about it.
So long story short, tonight on AIM I told her what I was up to. The convo is posted completely unedited below, except our sn’s have been changed (it’s about 100 lines but a quick read).

Me: can you keep a secret?
Myfriend: yeah
Me: you totally have to
Myfriend: why?
Myfriend: I will
Myfriend: who am I going to tell?
Me: lol I dunno
Me: I might have told you this while drunk before…
Myfriend: ok
Myfriend: hummmm
Me: and you have to believe me because it’s true
Myfriend: ok tell me already
Me: well 5 days a week for 30 mins or so I do excercises to make my cock bigger
Myfriend: lol
Myfriend: why?
Me: well right now I’m like 7 inches long and 6 inches around
Myfriend: holy shit
Me: I used to be 5.8” long and 5” around
Myfriend: but why?
Me: waaaaaay before we met
Myfriend: but why?
Me: last time you saw me I was pretty much this size
Myfriend: you are outstanding the way you are
Me: because I want to get to 8” and 6.5”
Myfriend: ok, but that is going to kill some girl
Myfriend: KILL some girl
Me: haha if she’s tight
Myfriend: she wont even get off
Me: well anyways…
Me: it took me 4 months to get from where I started to where I am now
Myfriend: you will not be abel to have sex all the time for a great while, until you have done it enough times
Me: then I stopped for 3 years
Me: and I just started again about 2 weeks ago
Myfriend: dont
Myfriend: you are AWESOME just the way you are
Myfriend: you are even a little to big
Me: thank you
Me: eh for oral
Myfriend: for everything, you are going to have to go out with a porn star
Myfriend: not a woman
Me: that’s not true
Me: I’m in message boards like crazy
Me: to make sure I don’t get too big
Myfriend: ??
Myfriend: what do you mean?
Me: like right now if I rammed you with it, it would hurt… but not if you eased it… then you’d love being rammed with it
Myfriend: shit, I couldnt have sex with you
Myfriend: you are way to big
Me: oh boy… then you’re the tightest girl I know
Myfriend: no
Me: not that that’s bad
Myfriend: trust me I am not that tight
Myfriend: other girls just dont tell the truth
Myfriend: just to let you know
Myfriend: well good thing we are not going to have sex right?
Me: lol apparently
Myfriend: apparently??
Me: you’d ‘die’
Me: lol
Myfriend: lol
Myfriend: wow
Me: what?
Myfriend: just you
Myfriend: you think that you are not big enough
Myfriend: wow
Me: I took ‘before’ pics when I started 3 years ago
Me: you can see them sometime
Me: big difference
Myfriend: lol, thanks
Myfriend: I think?
Myfriend: You are great just the way you are
Me: lol
Myfriend: I dont know why you want to make yourself any bigger
Me: you already said I’m too big
Myfriend: well you are, shit that is going to hurt somone
Myfriend: not in a good way
Myfriend: other wise you are right I guess that I am tight
Me: :-(
Myfriend: ??
Me: well I’m just going to go until I get to maybe 7.5x6.2 or 8x6.5
Me: no bigger
Myfriend: that is way to big
Myfriend: you are GREAT just the way you are
Myfriend: why are you doing this to yourself?
Myfriend: what is going on that you NEED to make it bigger?
Me: lol nothing
Me: I’ve had free time so I’ve been doing the excercises
Myfriend: go for a RUN, JOG, WALK, hit the weights
Me: nah
Me: sorry
Myfriend: lol
Myfriend: I really want to keep talking but I have to go upstairs and finish up my project
Myfriend: sorry :-(
Me: it’s okay
Myfriend: it is due in 12 hours
Me: sorry you feel that way about my workouts
Me: :-(
Myfriend: lol, I dont know I just think that you are AWESOME just the way you are
Me: well thank you
Myfriend: and that is cool, and I like that but if you think that you need to get bigger than go for it
Myfriend: make some girl cry some day
Myfriend: its all good
Me: lol oh please
Myfriend: I am for real
Myfriend: Most girls I know would not be able to take that
Myfriend: they would cry
Me: there’s a guy on the site that’s like 8x6.5 and he said nearly every woman loves it
Me: and only like 1/30 or something said it was too big
Myfriend: that is because he is telling you what he wants to tell you
Myfriend: I guess I was that one
Myfriend: oh well
Me: maybe, but I must say I’m surprised that you’re saying this
Myfriend: why?
Myfriend: I just like you the way that you are
Me: because I didn’t expect you to say I’m already too big for you
Myfriend: now why is that?
Me: you seemed like you kinda wanted to have sex a few times we’ve spoken
Myfriend: yeah I did
Me: and that was after you saw it
Myfriend: but now that you are going to be bigger and bader I dont know
Me: lol not substantially
Myfriend: I know, and I liked it that way
Myfriend: not any bigger
Myfriend: I think that you were a little big then but I could handle it
Myfriend: granted it would hurt, but
Me: well maybe you’ll see it when it’s 8x6.5 and we’ll see
Myfriend: it would be worth it
Myfriend: NO WAY
Myfriend: you can keep that to your self
Myfriend: lol
Me: haha
Me: alllllrighty
Me: well this is interesting
Myfriend: yeah I need to go
Myfriend: sorry
Myfriend: it is
Me: okay well thanks for the imput

It is a great read!!

Well, as for you PE goals…I’d continue until you are happy. And then “make some girl cry” as she said. LOL.

Might I add that while we were together those few times, (all she did was oral, and she sucked at it!), she NEVER said ‘it’s too big’.

In addition to that, she did have a tough time getting past the head with her mouth, but continually used the word ‘mesmerizing’ while caressing it.

I just don’t know what to make of it.

PS - before I mentioned this tonight, she invited me over and I didn’t go… so she’s not using the ‘too big’ talk to keep me away.

It depends on the woman, some could take all that and more!! Women, like men aren’t the same size, and they (women)are pretty flexable. The vagina is made to stretch.

Is she a virgin as well?
What kind of experience has she had?

I am inclined to believe that she has not experienced anything near your goals. That would disqualify her from passing judgement on whether it would hurt or not be pleasureable etc.

I am inclined to believe that most girls, when properly aroused, can take just about anything most guys can throw at them. This includes 8x6.5.

No she’s not a virgin. I know of at least two people she’s slept with, one being a friend of mine, lol. (They broke up 10 months ago, but he doesn’t know about our escapades). In addition to those two, there seems to be a couple more.
Well look at the bright side I guess, I know I’m bigger than my friend. Normally I wouldn’t rub this in, but he always makes innuendos about his cock.
In addition to this, I just checked out a dildo store online. The BIGGEST one they sell is called like the titan, and it’s 2” across! That equates to less than 6.5” around. (it is 8” long.)
Keep the comments coming, I really don’t want this to hinder my goals!!!

She’s obviously fairly young. Maybe a virgin, maybe not. However, she is probably pretty tight due to her age and relative inexperience.

I doubt that you are too big for an older woman.

Wait’ll she hits 35 with two kids….. then 7x6 will NOT seem too big.

And, like Secjay said….. every woman is different. 7 x 6 may well be too big for some. For others, it may be too small!

PE until you’re happy. Do it for yourself.

Well you’re correct, she is young (19). On that same note, I’m 21 and mainly desire girls/women ages 18 to 23.
I’m quite close to getting into a serious relationship with a HOTTIE that I’ve wanted for about 2 years. She is a virgin, she’s 19, and she is about 5’6 120 lbs. I do not want to be too big for her if it works out!! Guess I might just have to get her really wet, eh? ;) Or might that not do it.

I should get into more details, as I have a varying girth…

5.4” head

5.7” RIGHT below the head

6” midshaft

between 6.4-6.8” base

PS - I’ll be posting the before and after pics when I get a digital cam of my own. I refuse to post the befores until I have the afters, lol.

m7point0;

My girlfriend is about 5’3”, and my schlong is just under 10x6.
She takes it just fine.

I tried to tell myself excuses like “she wouldnt be able to take it” etc, before we were going out, because I was too chickenshit to ask her out.

But now, over a year later, I say go for it!

I don’t think I’d believe that its too big. Listen, at first when I got to about 7.375” length the wife was having discomfort. We adjusted, she adapted and now she handles my 7.875 without complaint - she loves it and she knows I intend to go for 8.5” and is in my cheering section.

Daaaamn, well that’s promising! Nice size pipe you’ve got there my friend. I’m certainly not worried about me being too long at 7x6. My main concern that when I arrive at 8” long… what will my girth be?? 6,6.5,7?
I know, I know… I should stretch and not jelq, or jelq soft. I currently stretch for 20 mins then proceed to jelq at about 50% erect. I feel a better stretch while jelqing though, so I have no plans of stopping this. Plus, after a good session of jelqing, my girth goes up to nearly 6.5” midshaft and 7”+ at the base!
I just can’t believe I have the same girth as a 10 incher! And you are in no way thin. ;)

m7,

>I’m quite close to getting into a serious relationship with a HOTTIE that I’ve wanted for about 2 years. She is a virgin, she’s 19, and she is about 5’6 120 lbs. I do not want to be too big for her if it works out!! <

No, no, no, NO!! You are letting a girl who you are not seeing and have not slept with help you make decisions in your life which should be your prerogative. Unless you are married and intend to spend your whole life with one person, you are the only one that should decide.

You are putting her first before she has done anything to deserve it, if you go into a relationship with that attitude she is going to walk all over you. If you want to be 8x6.5, do it, yes take into account the fact that some girls wont be able to take it, but make it your choice.

Good Luck
SS4

m7point0, you are obviously jelqing with pretty extreme intensity.

I used to get around 6.5” girth after a good uli type session. I hardly get any swell any more though. I think it’s just a case of your body reacting strongly to the new stimulus. Still, keep it up!

I agree. When my girth was 5.2” my wife used to comment how thick I was. Now I’m 6.14 midshaft, better than 6.5” at base. We’ve adjusted also, and I have to make sure she’s wetter now before I insert it - but the sex is much better.

That girl on the IM sounds very young - and inexperienced. I’d take her words with a grain of salt (besides, how does she even know what your goal size would look or feel like?).

And, as someone said, wait til she has a kid or 2 - she’d wish you were BIGGER. A 6 x 5 might terrify a virgin, while a 9 x 7 might have some women yawning with boredom.

Design the cock YOU want - don’t conform to the scared imaginings of some IM buddy for such an important decision. I’m even married yet I’m going for the size that I want - especially since “marriage” is no guarantee that I’ll spend the rest of my life with her (I would, but we’ve had some problems for a while; it gets better, then worse, then when I’m about to leave, she lightens up - but I’m getting sick of it all). Only time will tell, but set your own goals.