Am I sadistic?

It could just be me, but I must admit that I get turned on by the thought that my penis has the potential of causing a bit of pain to my woman during sex.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to really hurt her……but I do enjoy hearing comments like “Ooh! Careful, not so hard.” or “Not so deep.” I like knowing that I have to be careful not to thrust to hard or too deep. Sometimes my wife makes those little noises (grunts, or quick intake of air through her teeth) during sex where I know it is a bit painful…….and I know to back off a bit…..but I am actually more excited because of it.

I am no longer looking to gain length because my wife is small and my current length is more than enough for her in most positions. My current girth is pretty good too, but it would be nice to be thick enough to require extra lube and to make her feel “stretched” and maybe to cause that “good pain.” I want her to feel a bit of the “virgin pain” again.

So, am I a sadistic bastard??

I think it’s a common sensation among men, it’s just another women’s way to say “OMG! How big you are!”. Nobody of us (I hope) would really hurt our partners but if you are requested to be careful it’s implicitely means that you have a big tool, the main reason for all of us being here on this site.

You are not sadistic.

You are a man.

Testosterone-driven.

Cool man. Later ticker

From what I can read in your signature you are currently 7.25 EBPL X 5.875”EG, probably a bit more because we’re on November 16th already.

You’re way above average, length- as well as girth-wise and big by the standards of “normal”-sized women, too, I guess. If your wife is rather small, you’re even bigger, related to her size.

You say you’re long enough for her in most positions. What does that mean? Long enough for hitting the CDS/anterior fornix zone/makeing her cum? If so, how about going into cementing what you have? :) On the other hand, it’s possible to hurt a woman even with a smaller dick… it’s just about using it properly. Perhaps she sometimes felt a litle pain before you started PE, too?

Oh and by the way, you’re not sadistic. I think every man would be delighted to hear his spouse say “Carefull, you’re really big.” :) That’s why we are here in the first place.

Cheers!

Wally

You call that sadism? :)

There are levels of it, what you do is about %10.

My opinion is: what Rocco does in some of his movies is something about %50 , and that’s my limit too.
Every woman has a masochist side- more or less. So they’ll like it, if you do it with taste.

My favorite words: “be careful with that”.

There are so many sex positions. Play around with some that don’t cause her discomfort and also work for her.

I’m long enough that she doesn’t want 100% penetration. If I push in 95-100% (in many positions) it causes enough pain for her to tell me to stop.

It’s funny, I dated my wife back when we were in high school and I lost my virginity (1986) to her but I was her second. My initial PE took place before we got back together. The first time we had sex was great…..I am considerably bigger than her ex-husband and I am bigger than when were together in high school. As a matter of fact, I’m the biggest she’s ever had (she’s only had sex with 6 guys in her life – including me). She said, “Where you always this big?”

She never had any pain with my pre-PE size. I could thrust as deep and hard as I wanted.

And if you do happen to find a position which really causes her no discomfort whatsoever and you’ll probably know with the ‘Is it in yet’, move quickly on, not forgetting to take it out first btw :nodding:

I’m thinking of those big fat slugs, you know that unmissable trail they leave, well we wouldn’t want that :noreally:

She’d only follow it back and know rightly :gulp:

Well seanjacobs, it just sounds as if you reached about perfect size :)

If I was you, I would go into maintenance and not care about further gains. You got the right size for the right woman. Having to avoid 100% penetration depth is something most guys don’t have to deal with, I guess. You’re big.

Yup, I’m strickly going for girth right now.

My lady likes it when it hurts, she said if it didn’t hurt we would have problems!

and Rocco is the only one who can f***, IMO, maybe Nacho and Rodney Moore also. Rocco is an “humanimal” and that is what women definitely like it.

My favorite words: “honey, I think it’s selfish to use your dick on just me” :)

Their is a very fine line between pleasure and pain.