This is my experience:
I have known my friend since we were both teens, he was the first person I ever heard the word “jelqing” from. I had never heard of it nor had I even thought about PE in general. Nature gave me a 5.5” long penis (erect) with about 4” girth and I’ve never really been bothered or unsatisfied with my size.
My friend however, was quite obsessed with penis size, I never asked him where he learned jelqing from and I really wasn’t even paying attention when he explained how it was done. I figured it was BS. My friend’s penis was about 9” long and 6” thick erect. If you couldn’t tell, we can talk candidly about pretty much anything and don’t have any hangups. Basically he proved to me how big it was by showing me. Needless to say, I was impressed, it was almost twice as long as my penis. Still I wasn’t sold on jelqing, I honestly wasn’t even paying attention, I figured it was just some genetic French/Scottish thing.
However, over the past half-year, I started to get curious about PE. It happened by accident, I was reading articles on the web and came across a blog about a penis extender. Even though I’ve never been bothered by my size, I can’t say I wasn’t curious about becoming bigger. I started reading more and rediscovered jelqing. I’ve been reading techniques, exercise regimens, etc. And I came across this forum which has provided me 80% of my information. I hope to be able to share personal information with future people who come to this forum who are curious about PE. First regarding my friend.
We’ve been close friends for over a decade now and over the years, I’ve seen his penis size fluctuate. He’s jelqed for a few years then took off for a few years and he hasn’t jelqed for a while now. When he stopped jelqing his penis shrunk to 6” erect and recently has remained that size. He used to have a reputation among the ladies for his huge penis, but not anymore. I don’t mention it or kid him about it because he’s moved on in his life in terms of obsessing over his penis. He always has a girlfriend so they obviously don’t care. But my main point is that jelqing gains are NOT permanent and they do not cement. I’ve been reading posts about it and that is just not my experience. My friend has jelqed since he was kid and he did have a huge penis at various points in his life, but once he stopped, his penis totally shrank. Not a little, A LOT. He used to double fist his penis and there was still shaft and head, now only one hand.
Ironically I have started jelqing and now we are almost the same size. I have gained almost a quarter inch length and a tiny bit in girth. So I am now a believer. Yes, jelqing works, I see measurable gains. I jelq 5 days a week, do the warm up and warm down and it’s so damn time consuming I’m not sure it’s worth it, but it’s working. I also know though, once I stop jelqing, I’m going to go back to my original size. I hate to break it to you guys, but PE is lifelong if you want to keep your gains. Honestly though, I can’t say that it’s a bad thing. It’ll be interesting to see if I can get myself to 7 inches, but once I get there, who knows if I’ll even want to stay that big. When my friend’s cock was at it’s biggest, he was always talking about it, people would talk about it, and it pretty much defined him. It’s all sort of silly now that we’re older.