Anybody Feel A Little Weird About Talking About Their Dick?

Thunder and guys,

I will attempt to address all of the questions raised in order that they were rasied.

Cutdowns on the forum, I haven’t seen many lately and were they serious, sounded that way to me. The moderators here do an excellant job of catching this sort of stuff usually, but a few slip thru every now and again. Any comment that is designed to make another feel bad is a cutdown, putdown or slam, chose your own adjective.

Fear, is the above statement part of why guys don’t talk about it, probably. That and there are some fellas that have to be on guard as far as their jobs are concerned etc etc etc. That is one of the things that I admire most about the forum, we can be open, and usually without fear of reprisal or ridicule.

Women and breast size, yes we discuss it, most want to be bigger, some want to be smaller. And how we can accomplish that. Smaller usually requires surgery. Kegals, yep we talk about those to, on how they keep the pelvic floor strong and able to grip items of interest to us.

Techniques, yes we are known to discuss specifics, especially if one of us is having trouble mastering a technique. We also talk in generalities, like a tarp and veggie oil, and how much fun it is to try and hold on :)

I spent 3 years in Europe courtesy of Uncle Sam, and I can attest to the fact that Europeans are much more open about sex and sexuality than Americans. Here we don’t normally see a condom stand on a street corner, and ‘adult’ stores are blasted by just about every religion imaginable. Sex is dicussed frankly and openly, now whether or not penis size is discussed, I don’t know, I wasn’t knowledgeable about that back then. I did hear comments from some of the guys I knew back then that they wished they were bigger. If I’d only known about PE back then, there could be several happier guys in the world.

Think that gotem all.

Sunshine kid,

I would first like to say it is refreshing having a woman on the forum. Your honest and sensitive remarks are always appreciated.

Anyways, I was just curious why you decided to become a member on a forum discussing penis enlargement? I am interested in hearing what you get out of it. Please dont take this as an insult, as we are all very happy to have you here, I am just curious.

Sincerely,

Bogava

Gosh its nice to be wanted :)

As far as why am I here, several reasons actually.

One, I am on the receiving end of a bigger penis so therefore am interested. And I am not a size queen by any stretch of the imagination.

Two, I work in the medical field, Physical Therapy to be exact, so am interested from the medical standpoint. No, I am not a Physical Therapist, I am a Physical Therapist Assistant, and a certified reflexologist. So anything having to do with elongating tissues has an interest to me.

Third, its something that my spouse and I can do together for the benefit of our relationship.

Four, sometimes a feminine view is worthwhile.

Thanks again for making me feel wanted here, its a great place to be.

OH CRAP!,

I just read my last post and realized that I forgot to put in the relevant material to this thread. The bully in my story was also a lockerroom critic. He was not hung, but he was not small either. He made a point of ridiculing and embarrassing every kid who was smaller. He bragged all the time about his sexual exploits. A good friend of mine bedded a girl that he had previously been with. Turns out he was not large, just average, but most importantly, he was a two minute cummer. She said that she got tired of their 10 minute love sessions (including foreplay). I guess that the bully came up short - so to speak. He had little hesitation to talk about his unit and his exploits, but he was obviously trying to kid everyone - including himself.

I haven’t talked to many people about penises as an adult. I recently talked to a few of my best buddies about PE since I have had a good experience. Two of them are now active in PE. I don’t have a problem talking to a guy about penises or PE, however, I am always cautious because you never really know how someone is going to react. I have pretty much exhausted the number of guys that I would even think of bringing up the subject with. I do, however, get a lot out of the discussions on this forum and again take my hat off to Thunder for creating it.

Happy PEing

Jelktoid

Do I feel funny talking about it. It depends on who I’m talking to. I’ve shared PE with all of my boys and it’s up to them to take the initiative from there. The middle son has taken an interest in PE to the point where he has registered on this forum. He’s doesn’t get to check the board often to to his work, but he is somewhat active, at least as far as reading and studying the posts. The oldest boy just got married in July, so it’s not foremost in his mind at the moment ;) The youngest boy isn’t active at this time due to no computer at his location. We’ve also shared PE with the younger 2 boy’s best friend and he has registered with the forum as well.. Haven’t seen any posts from him, but I know he’s reading and learning about it here when he has time.

I’ve also told my brother, but have no idea if he has even looked at the forum. I’ve told a few guys at work about PE, but generally get a really funny look and a lot of ridicule about it, so I don’t bother with it much anymore. I know PE works, but have decided to be very cautious as to whom I share the info with.

Cheers!

I haven’t told anybody about pe, there are only a few guys I would even think about telling but then when I get close to telling them I think since we seem to be hunting for chicks in the same area I don’t need to give up my edge. Selfish yes but I can still live with myself, my one friend is getting married so I might tell him.

I don’t think I ever had a conversation about dicks with a guy until I found the the forums.

I feel alike. I don’t even consider telling, though; it’s a lose-lose situation. Either they won’t believe you and will laugh at you OR they believe you and grow bigger. Trust no-one. :D

Btw, Dino, you’ve been doing a lot of digging recently… Any particular reason for it? Don’t get me wrong; most that you’ve dug up have been good stuff, but part of the information is outdated, though.

base

We get a lot of new guys so I look for some old posts that are good but that aren’t time sensitive you know issues that are still compelling. Pretty much I just want to get some more people involved in posting you know root out some of the lurkers sometimes we have 200 people on and hardly anyone is posting.

Well I don’t want to go off thread to much, back to the subject one of the guys I ride”motorcycle” with that has a rep for having a big dick well I think he hangs the last time I was over his apartment he had a couple of weight plates next to his computer so I looked all over the apartment on the sly and I didn’t see the bar anywhere, I didn’t ask though.

As long as I never meet any of you in person, it’s all good.

;)

Dino, not a bad idea. The traffic has been somewhat slow in the forum for the last couple of days… or mayby it’s just me.

“Umm, so what do ya do with all that weight?” I’d expect him to start stuttering. ;)

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Lurky: I’d just stare at everybody’s crotch all the time, trying to find signs of those trouser snakes… :)

A couple of things —

Dino- Good job digging up the old threads. As a fairly new member I know I wouldnt have bothered to look thru the archives when there is so much new stuff coming along every day yet the “oldies but goodies” you are regurgatating have been really interesting and thought provoking.

Next — I have told only one friend (not even the wife) and have tried to visit the subject with him a couple of times but he seems to blow me off like he is very nervous about talking about it. I wouldnt say that I am very comfortable with it but I thought he would be a little more open about it. He doesnt give me that “WTF are you talking about” look he just kind of changes the subject real quickly.
Every time I grow a little more, I feel like bitch slapping the other guys at the gym (or even my best male friends) who openly complain about their dick size in the lockerroom. You get the impression that they do it as a way to let you know that they know they are no better than average. I feel like putting up a poster that says “www.ThundersPlace.com — Go there, grow your dick and stop bitching”

Anyway just my two cents

678

Hi, I’m new and mostly lurk. (I posted on one thread.) At this point, I don’t post much in here because I’m in learning mode. I want to learn as much as I can before posting much so that I’m not asking redundant questions.

(Although I do have an idea for a very simple hanger/stretcher that I will share should it prove itself in testing.)

The concept of talking about dicks online is no problem to me. It’s more what Thunder described — fear of saying the wrong thing/asking the wrong questions while I’m so new to this.

Real-world, I will talk to a close friend (and my wife ((who is my closest friend))) about it once I really get going, but probably nobody else. I view it as a private activity. People like to blab and I don’t need everybody talking about how I sit around pulling on my penis for hours at a time. :)

In social situations, I think (generally) guys in a group discussing their penis/PE feel threatened for reasons mentioned above (size inadequecy, etc.), but there is also a large element of (a majority) of (macho) guys “feeling gay” talking about their penis in these type of terms to other guys. (Please note: I’m not saying this is right and just, I’m just saying what my perception is, let’s face it, there’s a lot of homophobia in the world.) And guys are pack oriented, once one or two of the alphas in a group riducule something, the followers go along with it — even if they don’t feel it, for fear of being ridiculed themselves.

Additionally, I think guys have been somewhat “shamed” in this society. For the most part, we come from pretty puritanical roots in regards to sexuality. Over the years, we (guys) have been conditioned to believe we’re pervs for having natural sexual urges and that the penis itself is “dirty” — so by extention, talking about PE would probably be associated with a lot of these types of feelings for many guys.

That’s my .02 cents…

SuperSizeMe

Good post Bro I think your pretty much right on.

Thanks Dino9X7!

I don’t feel “weird” at all - in the forum format (but never face to face with other guys). I take this is just another self-help forum - usually analytical, always helpful, sometimes even scholarly.

Very business-like.

No self-consciousness here….I’m too grateful for what it’s all done for me.

Happy holidays!