It is also important to point out that there is often a discrepancy between what we might want, in order to fit our own ideal of what is masculine and impressive and what is realistic and gives our mate (or potential mate) the most pleasure.
super is a case in point.
He definitely enjoys his size and, like he has said, thinks that 8 X 6 is ideal. However, as he has posted here many times, he has been put on a maintenance program by his significant other. He was larger than 8 X 6, he’s not now because it’s not something she wants to deal with. Because he is a good lover he is honoring her wishes.
8 X 6 is a very large cock. 4 men in 100 have that size or larger (so that 4 men includes all the 8 X 6’s and all the 9 X 7’s +, etc.). His woman, who he has been with for quite a while, has ‘adjusted’ as much as she is going to. She has made it clear that it’s the max she can deal with.
I think a lot of women would feel that way. And many would find it too much.
super and I, who are very good friends, have argued the so-called “gold standard” point many times. He’s definitely more in the bigger is better camp - though he does seem to recognize that there are limits.
In this I am more conservative.
I started out to be slightly longer than average with average girth. Now I’m safely above average, but I’m never going to ever appear on Monsters of Cock. I do pretty well. And have only been ‘too big’ a few recent times in my life. I have only been ‘too small’ with two women since becoming sexually active in the 70’s. Once pre-PE and once at the very beginning of my PE career. I have had exactly 1” length gain and a .55” girth gain.
In my experience what most impresses the women is performance. Being able to last and give them the space to have multiple orgasms. To connect to them so the physical act has an emotional impact; fun, excitement, and that delicious mix of safety and danger. Women really respect a good lover first and foremost. Penis size is lower on their priority list than it is ours. This is true of the vast majority of women.
super by any account, has a big dick, but he is also a very intuitively sensitive guy. He is an experienced and versatile lover. My lover. I call him Bob. Just kidding. I’m just seeing if you guys are still paying attention. ;)
In all seriousness, when we have talked about women and relationships he has revealed himself to have many of those qualities that women look for. His dick - whatever the size - is a bonus.
Anyway.
A double-digit penis will be a specialty penis. It will likely cause you more difficulty than joy, unless you plan on being a porn star.
What do you want your love life to be? Seriously, think about it.