Best Size?

Hey beenthere! That depends on whether we are talking looks point of view, or actual sensation. I was refering to the visual turn on of a massive unit. Most people here seem to think ALL women get totally dripping wet by the sight of a 8+ unit. I can tell you that’s absolute crap. Like I said before, that’s as narrow minded as saying ALL men get excited with huge breasts etc. And I don’t see how a woman would change her view once actually experiencing one. I personally have never experienced flat or overly large chested women. And I don’t have to in order to say it doesn’t turn me on. Experiencing it will more than likely put me off even more.

From a sensation point of view, I can agree more. But to a certain degree. Like it was mentioned before it’s all relative to the size of her vagina. I’ve read they vary even more than men’s penises.

I did put a qualifier in there. If it still fits, then they probably will like it.

I’m trying to figure that out for myself. That’s one of the reasons why I set intermediate goals. She still loves my size so onward and upward.

If you are not in a life long committed relationship then I would say 8x6 will be the top of the mathematical bell curve in terms of peak pleasure for the greatest quantity of women.

However…

If you are in a committed life long relationship or at least think you are :) then the perfect size is the size that is perfect for her!!!
But don’t take her word for it because more often than not the woman does not know what the right size is for her and by default will always tell you that your size is perfect. Sound familiar? :)

The way you know for sure is you continue to monitor her groans, moans, facial reactions, intensity of orgasms etc….
Assuming all else is equal and you have good technique, these indicators should get progressively better and/or louder as you grow bigger.

The signal to stop PE and thus the perfect size for her will be when she just starts to show mild discomfort due to your huge size and maybe says something like:

OH MY GOD, YOU ARE TOO BIG!!! ITS STARTING TO HURT A LITTLE!
(these comments assume adequate lubrication is present)

Then and only then will you know that you have reached the threshhold of pleasure. :)
From that point on you back off PE and do simple maintenance exercises to remain at the perfect size.
In any case I would not grow to more than about 8-8.5x6 just in case you find yourself single again.

I quietly thought the same thing when I read his post, but decided not to reply - until you did. :)

I’m deeply suspicious of any woman who claims that cock size is irrelevant. That’s like a guy saying he doesn’t notice any difference if a vagina is firm & tight or loose sloppy canyon. Yeah……..riiiiiiiiiiiight………..

Most women who say dick size is irrelevant are either bullshitting their man (wow, that’s a radical idea!), bullshitting themselves, or they’ve never truly experienced the thrills of a big sausage.

1) Nobody said “ALL” in relation to this topic. “All” would be illogical in almost any setting. For example, not “all” women even like dick; some are disgusted by the sight of any penis - unless it’s latex & strapped onto their girlfriend.

2) A woman “experiencing” a big dick is completely different from a man “experiencing” large breasts. The genitalia are integral to intercourse, tits are not.

3) I’ve never in my life heard a woman describe a big penis as “disgusting,” but I’ve seen women snicker like hell at photos of a guy with a tiny penis.

4) The way that experiencing a large dick would change a woman’s mind happens in the same way it did with my wife. Never a size queen by any stretch, she only had 2 other lovers before me. One was an inch longer, the other an inch shorter (I was 6.5” BP) but neither was as thick as my 5.25” erect girth. She always seemed to enjoy sex with me, and I never doubted she was faking her pleasure (she always trembled and sighed and I could actually hear her juices after she got off, sloshing between us)….

Flash forward 12 years, my cock is now 80% larger by volume (after 2 years of PE). Never had this woman yelled out or nearly passed out from the orgasms as she now was doing. At 7.75 BP x 6.14 midshaft, my cock gives her shattering orgasms like never before and she never misses an opportunity to tell her friends that I have a “big cock.” Furthermore, her interest in sex has quadrupled since when we were younger. Some adjustments were need - more foreplay, even K-Y jelly - but the sex is incomparably better (and I sure don’t have to explain it to her).

I’d be willing to bet that if I showed her a dildo back then cast to my exact current size, she would’ve probably flinched and said, “I don’t think so - that looks painful.”

Now, she’s saying, “Gimme that big dick!”

Don’t you guys get tired of this shit? Arguing back and forth about what all women want or need?

NO way, I like Wad’s argument particularly :p :chuckle:

I wouldnt believe a woman if she tells me that if I had a 5” dick that she would not want a 7 incher, especially if its my wife. She probably dont want to hurt my feelings. All my life, Ive always seen women get excited when a large dick comes up in a conversation. You want to hear the truth from women, listen to her conversation with her female friends on the topic of big dicks vs small dicks. You probably wouldnt believe that thats your wife talking.

Im not saying that a 5 incher cant satisfy her, but I know that if you take home a 7 or 8 incher, she would be in dog heaven.

Later.

I’ve heard it at least 20 times, so forgive my remark above. Better to worry about one woman at a time, treat her with respect and realize you are never going to figure out what is going on in her head, so why bother.

Now, maybe I am just an idiot, but my wife says “Why would I want one that long jabbing me inside”? Its not like she gets pleasure from it hitting inside her up higher when it is longer. Also, about somebody else’s previous post about a loose pussy or a tight one, I wouldn’t know. My wife was a virgin, but I don’t remember what a tight pussy feels like as she has had two kids, so I don’t know which is better.

Hey Thunder, we KNOW what they want/need - that’s why we’re here! LOL

If anybody here seriously believed the “5-inches-is-fine” bullshit, who would waste their time tugging & squeezing their cocks for hours each week?

I just find it humorous when guys try to rationalize all of this - seemingly forgetting that they’re on a PENIS ENLARGEMENT FORUM.

hehehehehe

Yeah it bothers me when guys obsess on what “most” women want, but you know that.

Why you gotta be like that? I believe my wife is perfectly fine with my size, but for me, i want to be bigger. I want to be bigger for my own self confidence, and if it pleases her more then great, if not, thats just fine, but maybe I will be more confident anyway. Not trying to rationalize jackshit.

TJW wrote;
“Now, maybe I am just an idiot, but my wife says “Why would I want one that long jabbing me inside”? Its not like she gets pleasure from it hitting inside her up higher when it is longer. “

Who told her that a bigger dick would be jabbing her inside? Comeon man, wake up and face reality. Stop trying to convince yourself that 5 inches is ok. Its not, thats why we are here. We are not satisfied with our 5 inch dicks. Our wives are much happier with our gains even though they also said that they didnt want it bigger. My wife have yet to know that my dick is 2 inches longer and 1 inch thicker. She knows that its bigger, but if I told her that I was going to excercise it and gain 2 inches, she would have not agreed to that. She too would have lied and said that my 5.5 incher was perfect. Bullcrap, now she is taking the 8 incher and enjoying it.
Please wake up.

Later.