Can I ask?

Why do most men want a bigger penis?

Is it?

Fear of sexual failure with a partner?

Insecurity in the shower/locker room?

Vanity or ego?

Another reason?

This question is born from the certainty that many men are happy as they are born, and wondering why some are not.

All of the above but mostly A.

Used to be -Insecurity in the shower/locker room

Now it’s - Vanity and ego

Hi Melvin

For me I know it isn’t A, apart from a prostitute I went with when I was 17 I’ve never had any bad comments from any of my partners about Mr 5.5.

And really I ain’t bothered in the shower.

I think it’s the ego thing, which is sad for us men.

I think it will depend on what your natural size was when you started.

A guy that is a natural 5 inches might tend to say Fear of sexual failure with a partner or Insecurity in the shower/locker room.

Whereas a guy with a natural 7 inches might tend to say Vanity and ego.

However those are just general rules.
A natural 5 or 7 may say anything at all because the guy that is 5 is confident with his size but wants more anyway, whereas the guy who is 7 is not confident with his size and wants more to improve his confidence.

Psychological factors may play a role.

For me it was just wanting to push women to the brink of insanity when it comes to sexual pleasure.

I LOVE WATCHING THEM GO NUTS!!!

Everything you named OldBill. The need to make a woman go crazy during intercourse, to give her a cds orgasm that hands can’t do, to hear her voice make almost unearthly sounds because she’s being handled with penetration.

I’ll agree with that one…. for me its just to experience the ole CDS orgasm. I’ve seen one but never caused one….

I forgot to mention that this is what I desire. It does vary from guy to guy. For instance there are plenty of men here that are just doing it for themselves, and not really worrying about what the woman thinks or does. I guess ego is the best overall answer to your question of why we want to be bigger.

Russell4,
Are you the guy that posted about living in the apartment complex? If so, have the neighbors still been keeping you awake? :)

I want a bigger penis for too many reasons. The biggest reason would have to be confidence in bed.

For the knowledge of having a big unit, ego I think. I heard so many times that PE doesn’t work. I need to prove it otherwise for myself.

That’s pretty damned ironic, Bill; you paying and she desparaging.

I’d say “B”. I’m pretty happy with my erect length but my flaccid hang is pathetic

For me it’s not about her pleasure but her pain. I realize that many “nice” girls wouldn’t want to have sex with a pussy splitter but… I don’t care? I will tear up a ho’s insides. *evil grin*

Seriously though, I want to do that. As far as nice girls go, they would be scared at first but I’m sure I could get them feeling horny enough to give it a try. I would give it to them and inch at a time and after a while they would be able to take it all. Anything that can let a 10lb human being pass through can surely handle even the biggest dick. Plus, I think she would feel like more of a woman (in a macho sense) once she could handle my huge cock.

I want her to be able to tell her friends my huge size, see them gasp, then brag about taking it balls deep. I’m sure that even though a girl could be scared at first, she would be wondering if she could take it all. I’m generous so I would be happy to let her try.

Maybe I am fucked up.

Here is my take on it.

Insecurities of a small penis

I agree. After watching my wife scream on two separate occasions as the head of our babies split her apart, I then decided that I wanted to make her scream in like manner. Therefore my goal is to create 7.2 pounds of meat down there. :)