Changes in opinion post-PE

In my case I didn’t get into PE for size. My main objective was to get harder erections and to control premature ejaculation.

In both instances I believe I have seen improvements. But it is difficult to measure the hardness of an erection. Also the controling ejaculations is hit and miss.

But I feel like I am accomplishing something. When I was young along time ago I could generally get up 7”. When I first started PE I measured in at 6.25. After only 2 weeks I got back to 7” . When I measure for my first PE datebase entry I measured 6.75”. So I see what this month brings. I am not really concerned with the gains in size as long as it is nice and hard and my balls hang.

I got into pe to grow, and while I am still not large I am already gaining confidence. I always knew it was under average. I was actually under 5 bpel which was very depressing. But with the IR light I am almost average and I feel alot better.

One of the factors that made it worse is one of my friends has almost 9 inches. He’s always talking about how women go crazy for it, and then I hear his various girls talking obsessively about how big it is. This really bummed me out. Even though I am stronger, dress better and so on, it seemed like I would never be able to satisfy women like sombody better endowed. But now that I am getting to average I feel so much more confident. No longer depressed it really has changed me. I am more sure of myself in many aspects of life and it feels good. Plus I feel that I will be way past average soon. I don’t need to be the biggest guy, I just want to be able to give women what they want in bed.

At about 8x5.5 bp, I don’t feel as desperate anymore.

For me, I am no longer completely obsessed, just mildly obsessed. The one thing I am not sure that I like since finding the PE forums and the online discussions is my ease of making a dick size comment OUT LOUD. I guess I figure that everyone else must be thinking the same thing.

Even after reading thousands of posts I still have a very poor perception of dick size on another man. I can look at a guy with a 4.5” BPEL pecker and think that he is bigger than I am, yet the ruler doesnt lie. I am still astonished that I have a preconceived idea that big guys should have big dicks and shorter guys should have shorter dicks, it is simply not true. When will I learn. I have seen guys at the gym that I thought were going to be hung only to notice that they were quite small and other guys just the opposite.

I have built up a certain confidence now, not pertaining to my penis size. I was always cocky now I really can be. (I think I paraphrased that from Dino)

I want another inch in length, I have already gained an inch and a half so I dont know if my goal is reasonably attainable, but I keep at it. I want another 1/4-1/2” in girth but I am less obsessed with that. I walked around with an acorn for so long that I enjoy sporting a 5” flaccid soon to be six, well maybe not too soon.

My sex life has improved because I am hitting spots I physically couldnt get to before, in both length and girth. Mrs 7 and I always had an active sex life but now it is different, much more positive. She also makes comments about my dick size more often and watches me when I get in and out of the shower. I see other women crotch watching me and I enjoy that a lot. The bulge factor is definately there.

Other than my dick discoloration, all has been good for me in PE and I hope to change my mild obsession to a simple hobby by the end of the year.

789,
hehe happened to me as well.. Some people just can’t handle a little discussion about the really manly topics at hand (and rather call ‘em gay shit or something along the lines) ;-)

I think the most important thing I learned from thundersplace is .. well .. self-acceptance (?)
This includes a) me and b) others, no matter what their size is (bigger or smaller).

IOW: The space in my mind I used to reserve for dick size related things (mainly bickering about the felt lack of my own) is now mainly free for more interesting topics (well except for [as someone on thundersplace took it] “when the ghost comes by once in a while”)

And yeah, the crotch watching thing really is something for good ol’ mister ego, isn’t it? ;)

Ys

NO ! I am obsessed and want more
The more I work it the more I obsess

I’m not insecure even a bit ! But I still want more, I’ll be happy if I can get to 9x6.5 which is not too far

Dino 7” is F***g scary is that mid or base ? Any pics of that monstor ?

This have been a life changing phenomenon to say the least. Since I started 3 months ago, I’ve lost a little weight, been eating better, my dick is bigger, and my “relationship” with my wife is better than ever. These typed words fail to express my true feelings, but I think it sums it up nicely.

I’ve turned my initial obsession into a positive, life changing hobby, that I’m sure I will not give up for many years. I guarantee you will see me around this forum for at least 5 years sporting an 8x6 :D

Well said, haha. I have to say the same. I’m going to be around for a while too. Perhaps even after I’ve reached my goals because this is such a friendly and supportive place!

** Rifor raises his glass ** To ThundersPlace!

I’m with haha and rifor. Thunder’s has really helped me out. I’ve also started working out, eating better, and have a much more positive attitude. My wife has really enjoyed that part. I’ve got a long way to go to average but I don’t plan on stopping PE.

789,

>For me, I am no longer completely obsessed, just mildly obsessed. The one thing I am not sure that I like since finding the PE forums and the online discussions is my ease of making a dick size comment OUT LOUD.<

Ah yes this is a good point and the same for me too. If it’s an obvious joke then fine, but I’ve never really been prone to self-inflating bragging. BTW I’m really cool and everyone on this forum loves me. I wrote that hanging post did you know?

>I have built up a certain confidence now, not pertaining to my penis size. I was always cocky now I really can be. (I think I paraphrased that from Dino)<

That’s really good.

>She also makes comments about my dick size more often and watches me when I get in and out of the shower. I see other women crotch watching me and I enjoy that a lot. The bulge factor is definately there.<

Nice! Good confidence booster.

>Other than my dick discoloration, all has been good for me in PE and I hope to change my mild obsession to a simple hobby by the end of the year.<

Good luck man, I know you’ll do it. About discolouration, that was another thing I was very insecure about to the point of not taking chances with girls where they might have wanted to have sex…but having increased in experience I can honestly say that they do not notice, or they don’t say anything if they do. If anyone is insecure about discolouration, TRUST ME on this, I’m the cool guy remember?

What I try to do every day when I PE is concentrate everything I have into it, breathing, technique, focusing on seeing my penis becoming larger, but after my workout I forget about it for the rest of the day and act like nothing has happened. Before I started doing this, I became obsessed with penis size, confidence, worrying about what girls think of it and it made me completely sick mentally. When I exercised my dick I would just look at it and say to myself “What changes have happened at all?” “I dont see any.” But when I measured and saw there were gains I realized there was hope, so I changed my mindset completely, and now I’m making steady gains but not sweating my size at all. Finding inner-peace with yourself is probably the best thing one can do concerning anything. We should be positive and focus on helping others, in return we will find ourselves becoming better.

tootin, hehe I think it’s kinda funny we all are going down in PE (purely physical.. yeah right ;) ) and end up experiencing somewhat of a self-enlightening experience.
On second thought I’d rather call this one more step in the maturation process of our minds (which is a good thing of course).

Anyways, need to get off some load now.. Just noticed I was getting really aggressive for my browser crashing on me while writing this post. Darn Testosterone hehe :)