Choose Sex Over PE

Guys, I just want to say, I’ve been having tons of sex with a new girlfriend over the past month and have had barely any time for PE. We have sex almost every day, usually twice, and I’ve lost some of my gains since I spend so much time with her or at work and am constantly “drained” (I subscribe to the school of ejaculation hinders gains).

And you know what? I don’t care! Before this it had been about a year and a half since I had a continuous girlfriend and continuous sex, and that had been plenty of time for me to forget how great it is.

I’d choose sex over PE any day. So for all you who are avoiding sex because you think your dick isn’t big enough or because you want to spend more time on PE, I say think again. You only live once.

I still find the forums strangely addictive though, so I’ll still be around and posting. Plus no matter how much you love your significant other, it’s always fun to live vicariously through saiyan22.

SG

Who can blame you?Whats the point of a big dick if your not using it?Between working,playing,and trying to keep 2 women satisfied..it IS hard to find time to PE..im trying though..but sex comes before PE.

Sex wins every time. If you’re having great sex, she is obviously pleased with the size of your dick, so PE is a relatively moot point.

I couldn’t agree more scienceguy106. I PE to improve myself in an attempt to make sex better, but the day I turned down sex because of PE would be a sad day indeed.

We have a penis for a reason, and that reason certainly isn’t to compare it to other penises so don’t lose sight of the big picture!

I would choose sex if it were an option :(

I’ve had a lot of sex and I am not happy with my penis, I would turn down sex if it would interfere with my PE training. Once I am happy with my size then I can have all the sex I want again.

You don’t have to give up sex to PE, though, avantasia. I’d recommend that you don’t wait until you are happy with your size to have sex. You may never get there.

The subject of PE goals comes up here from time to time. My PE goal is one inch more length and a half inch more girth than whatever I have right now. You see the problem there, I hope. My goal is an ever-changing target. I’ll never get there (unless I revise my goal), so waiting to have sex until I reach my goad would mean waiting forever.

Plus, if you don’t have sex while you are increasing in size, how will you know if you’ve crossed the line into being TOO large? Don’t laugh; it has happened.

Very interesting Lampwick, I have regular sex but the reason why I PE to be honest is to cure some trauma that I have regarding a cheating girl and larger size, I fell that I need to feel good about myself again and stop having this feeling of inadequacy, a bigger dick will grant me that (it already is beginning to fix it).

About being too big I know that, I have a friend who is 9x6.3 and not even the prostitutes want to have sex with him.

I was refering more to the fact that if sex prevents me from being bigger I’m willing to sacrifice it so long as I have a big dick that I feel good about. I know that sex won’t be on the way and I know that I need to have sex and keep using it.

Thank you so much ;) .

Avantasia - I’m not trying to target you, just trying to help you here because that’s what we do. A lot of your views on sex, size, relationships and girls are pretty much upside down. You need to change your thinking and you’ll be a lot more satisfied with life, yourself, and the way others treat you. Take Scienceguys advice here. It’s not his theory either because he’s living it. There are plenty of people out there with disabilities. Paralyzed people aren’t going to wait till they can walk again before they do anything. They go out and do what they can in spite of it. Jim Abbot didn’t wait for his hand to grow back before he started pitching. What I’m saying is pretend its January 1st. Change your way of thinking starting now. Respect those that respect you and forget those that forget you. Happy new year man. Go out and live and use that more than capable dick now rather than later. Happy new year.

Good post SG.

I know, I realize I’m not normal, this girl has sicken my mind, telling me things like: He is much larger, he as much more girth, he has much more length, it felt so nice because it stretched my pussy, he is taller, he has a better body, the things I don’t like about you are: bla bla bla bla bla.

Normally I wouldn’t care if someone has “superior” characteristics than me if it is someone that has not been involved with the person that I date (if a girl that I date sees Brad Pitt on Troy and tells me “he is handsome” I wouldn’t care). But in this case they are guys that she has cheated me with and told me everything about it.

I am FULLY aware that my line of thought is not normal and that I need some help.

Hey avantasia, I am in the middle (2 years) of a bitter divorce and my ex is a immature and cruel woman who truly enjoys making me suffer. I have heard all kinds of details about her numerous boyfriends since we seperated, how much better they are than me, how they can do things I never could, etc. I do not know your situation, but I know my ex, and she is completely full of shit. She would make up anything to hurt me, she rewrites history in her mind to justify it to herself, she is very jaded.

My point being, have you considered that she is just trying to get a rise out of you?

Your stats are well above “average”.

No, I have seen the photos and personally know face to face the guys that she has cheated me with. I know all that she says is real, the problem is that she cheated.

There are always guys who are going to be better than you in some aspect or other, the problem is when a girl cheats on with a guy who is superior and she tells you about it.

Dude that’s exactly my mindset at the moment, I know it’s not right but I can’t help it.

avantasia: most of us have someone like her in our past. I certainly do, so I’ll preach to you what we’ve all said. You need to get the hell away from that bitch permanently. No more excuses.

I am trying but it is so hard, it is like some bad drug addiction.