Coming Out of the Closet

Well Fellas,

I came out of the closet yesterday and told my wife that I was PEing. I got the typical reaction, but I was firm and persistent. I told her that, like many guys, I was not happy with the size of my dick even if she was. I said that most people would like to change things about themselves, but they don’t always have the courage or commitment. She asked me how I do it. When I told her that I was hanging 20 lbs. off my dick, she about fell over. Anyhow, she said that it was OK with her and she would support me. She has even been asking me a lot of questions, and when I told her that Bigger got a 10.5 incher (4.5 inch gain) and that Tom Hubbard (or Bender) got almost a 4 inch gain, she smiled and said “Really? Wow!” We are on vacation at the beach right now and I got a couple of good hangs in this morning. I never would have been able to if I had not told her. I can see that I am going to have a lot more time to PE now. The moral of this story is - GO AHEAD AND TELL HER!

Happy PEing (I sure am!)

Jelktoid

Hey jelktoid,

That is great. No more hidng the equipment and trying to find private time. Now you can concentrate on the hanging instead of looking over your shoulder. I would have liked to have seen a photo of her expression when you told her that you were hanging 20 pounds off your dick. :D

By the way, just so things don’t get totally out of hand here. I do NOT believe Tom has gained anywhere near 4 inches. I may be wrong, but I think his total gained is under 2 inches. Perhaps Tom will chime in and tell us his gains to date.

That’s great man! I bet that feels like about a 20-pound burden has been lifted from your shoulders (no wait… it’s still hanging from your dick).

Size

Jelktoid,

So doesw she appreciate the fact you will be “fullfilling” her needs a bit more completely, or just humoring you? I have been toying with the idea of telling my wife, but I am hesitant as she will say that PE is impossible and just be happy with what you got and that she is.

Guys

You have to be careful about telling women,they tell their crews everything, every women has at least a 3-6 women support team with them at all times. So you tell the wife she tells the support crew and they tell their husbands or boyfriends. You would be amazed at what they talk about Dick size is a favorite topic. Guys don’t talk about shit but women talk about it all from dick size to how many orgasms they have, and what a dick you have been acting like etc etc they share all info.

Dino }:o )~

Dawolf,

I guess I was lucky in that I had some pretty good gains really fast. When I told her, she said that she thought that my dick was bigger, but then later she decided that she must be imagining it. When I told her that I have gained 1.65 EL since I started, she said that it was almost unbelievable that a man could make his dick bigger. I have gone a little nuts today and have gotten in 6 - 30 min. sessions (we are on vacation and staying in a condo). About an hour ago, she said “How much do you have to do this?” I said, “As much as I can.” She said, “Won’t it get tired and sore?” She’s a lot smarter than I give her credit for!

Dino,

You’re damned right! My wife has a support group, but she has said that “sex specifics” are off limits. I’m not sure since she tells her best friends just about everything. I really don’t care if she tells about my PE. I finally have a respectable dick and I just don’t care if the neighbors know - fuck em!

Happy PEing

Jelktoid

Jelktoid,

Thanks for the info. I have been toying with making swim cap device, you may have inspired me.

Dino,

Yes, you never know what is in the minds of woman. I ran a health club once and had to inspect the locker rooms from time to time and the grafitti in the woman’s was unbelievable. And keep in mind, this was an upscale club, but there was performance and size messages about some of our male members!

jelktoid,

IMO, to share your PEing and inparticular your hanging with your significant other IS THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING you can do. I also believe it is next to impossible to be a closet hanger and make gains at an acceptable rate.

I believe by sharing this part of your life with your mate it opens the door for some serious gains when using hanging as your primary enlargement method. The reason I think this is that while hanging can be very successful it requires the type of time commitment that makes it very difficult to do without the knowlegde of your wife if your married.

Congradulations on coming clean and having your wife accept you for it.

PS This is only my opinion and I am not suggesting everyone who is married should tell thier wife about thier PEing routine. Each situation is different and what works for one person may not be appropriate for another.