Dick problem

Anxiety maybe!

:) Yeah we were neighbours till 01.01.07. Now you are in EU LOL :)
Well for her it is easy cause she spread her legs and stuff and if she isn’t wet there is a lubricant,but when you are a man it isn’t that easy ..
I am new and I have some problems with PE(no gains) I do inverted V stretch and dry jelq but nothing happens(more than a blue regions cause I practice a lot),you would be more than a help I see you have really good progress in size congratulation:) ,
Can you post me what kind of exercise you do ,how many time a day ,when you make a pause and similar?
Like,Post your PE program :)
Thanks in forward

ZLI

Well I was off PEing for almost 6 months cause I have problems with personal space and time.
I can tell you since you’re new, stick to the newbie routine for a few months. You’ll probably get you first gains in a while. But don’t lose faith , that’s the most important thing. Some guys don’t experience any gains in months. Just keep doing the newbie routine I suggest you and see what happens. If you don’t have any gains don’t worry, think of it as preparing for more advanced exercises later on.

I have changed my routine several times but this is how these things work - if you stop seeing gains in a 1-2-3 months of doing your routine you change it, change the angle, intensity, duration of the exercises, kind of the exercises (depends of your goal).

Oh yeah, this is important - to think of a goal and try to reach it. Decide whether you want girth or lenght and depending on this you change your routine. But all of this is after you’ve been doing the newbie routine for at least 1-2 months.

And about the blue spots.it’s because you’re overdoing it. It’s normal to have some from time to time but not permanently. Try doing less of what you’re doing because sometimes overdoing causes loss of gains.

If you don’t know how to do some of the exercises just make a search in the forum. Everything is explained there.

I hope this will help you!
If you have any questions just ask me

Thanks bro I will give it a try

Ya, I think its all psychological… Hmm, based on my experience, I can keep it longer if I have a want to totally dominate a girl and show her who’s the man in the relationship.. hahaha.. A suggestion I think for you, you might want to give it a try where all your thinking is fucking the life out of her, and not think about how hot or how good she feels.. This works for me, and when the girl begs to finish, then I start on pleasuring me(meaning thats when I do think about how good she feels and how hot she is).. Girls I’ve been with loves the fact that I’m in control.. Gluck

Don’t put so much pressure on yourself.
I get that way sometimes with too much prolonged foreplay or too much excitement.. My cock will kind of take a break for a few minutes. My girl will think it is her fault but I’m still really turned on. If I don’t stress about it.. The little sucker pumps right back up again.
.. Just go down and eat her pussy for awhile (do the abc’s or something) and make her cum a few times and I guarantee you will get hard again.
I think it is a normal refractory thing that happens to many guys, but many won’t admit it or they never have a prolong sex session long enough to experience it.

.. Good luck

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Yeah about the prolonged fore play.I think you’re right. Sometimes I am like really really horny. But after a 2-3 hours of kissing, masturbating each other and not having sex, when the time for real sex comes it gets down..

Hmm I must think on that one. I think this was the reason.
Thank you a lot!

P.s.
What is this “do the abc”? Is it a way of pleasuring a women oraly?

:ROFL:

This has happened to me more than a few times with new women. I never have problems with women I’ve been with a few times but the intensity and anxiety of the first time with someone new tends to take the wind out of the sails. I’ve also found it really has nothing to do with how the women looks. Some women seem to make it easier because they are aggressive orally or really good with their hands. I’ve been with a few women that not because of looks but because of lack of ‘action’ on their part just makes the whole thing a lot of effort. I’d certainly say you are best off working on edging and working on lasting the first time rather than banking on a good hard-on after you’ve already had an orgasm. Sometimes that works out and sometimes not… so many factors. Edging will help you find your ‘point of no return’. One trick I use is when I get really close to it is to go down on her and stay there until I can get back some control. If you are having problems staying up you maybe able to go down on her and use one of your hands to give yourself some stimuation. Another option is to just be very bold, grab your cock and start stroking it right in front of her face until you are hard as a rock.

As I’ve gotten older I’ve also enjoyed adding various toys into the mix. Most women are open to this and it gives you more options and ways to move to something else should find yourself close to orgasm. I guess in general I’ve found some women are just easier to work with than others and it has nothing to do with the appearance. If anything the more you want to ‘do good’ the more likely anxiety will creep in. It sounds like she has already said a few things that would definitely make it more difficult as well. ie ‘are you capable of keeping it up’. It maybe that even before she had said anything you may have subconsiously picked up on her judgemental attitude.

Good luck!!!

Tryingtobebig,

Man you are right, the words she say are making me anxious sometimes. Women are like that - like a mental terrorists. They say something which seems to be nothing special. But after a while that thing starts to eat you from inside, subconsciously. They really know how to make you miserable sometimes..

Whatever I wanna express my joy of yesterday. I had sex with her again but this time I wasn’t thinking how to make her feel good. I was thinking how I’m gonna bang her and that’s all.In the beginning I almost came 2 times, but I managed to hold my self and after that I became like a machine:) )) I couldn’t came and I was rock hard. I banged her for a long time.I don’t remember.
Well non of us came because her roommate came into the room while we were doing it .It was embarrassing. But the point is that I think I did it yesterday:)

Thanks for the replies guys:)

The ABC’s are a basic little oral trick to get your girl all turned on. Just lightly trace the ABC’s with your tongue over her clit. By the time you get to Z she should be squirming around quite a bit. Then you can move into a little more direct stimulation.
Remember lightly at first. The worst thing to do is stampede the clitoris. Girls vary a lot in this area but most of the time men are ready for rougher stimulation sooner than a woman.

My good old Dad told me once that a man is a pressure cooker and a woman is a crock pot.

Hope this helps. I’m definitely not claiming to be an expert.

Thanks a lot about that shooter35 !

Yes, I’ve noticed that different girls like different oral techniques. For example one of my ex-gfrds used to like the clitor massage a lot. She could cum just from massaging the clit. But this one, she doesn’t like that.she likes to penetrate with my fingers inside her.and especially to touch her G-spot. Strangely her G-spot is freakasly deep (chuckle).Now PE comes to help. If I had my previous dick I couldn’t reach her G-spot for sure. Now I believe I can:)

Now I wanna say thanks to all of the people from this forum and especially the moderators. Thank you very much !:)

No problem.

Maybe we could get some good pussy eating advice from some of the ladies in the group.

Yeah! Lets hope so.:P