Disapointed..

I’m a little disapointed, my friend and I had a discussion about size last night, and she told me the average size of her partners (she had a lot). It was like 6.5 Inches, so I decided to measure again after a few months of inactivity but this time with a measuring tape instead of my old ruler… I then realized my old ruler was not precise at all.. It looks like I’m shrinking too because I used to be 7 10/16 on my ruler and now I’m 7 1/2, and that’s 7 1/4 on the tape (BP) … I’m so disapointed, I’m with a new girlfriend and we haven’t had sex yet and now I’m feeling little and afraid of what she’ll think…

I think I’ll have to PE again, but I’m afraid not to see results without pumps or devices… Any advice? (My lot is 8:30, still constant..)

Thank You
JD

JD,

At your size, regardless of the difference in measuring, you’re still packing a lot of pipe, and more than her reported “average size” (she had a lot of guys and measured them all accurately enough to obtain an average?). Look around here at some of the post regarding women and their subjective view on size, you’ll be surprised.

I wouldn’t worry about this at all. If she digs you, then that’s what it’s about. I hardly think she’ll kick you out of bed because of your size.

Measuring can be a dicey thing.

Some guys here would give their left nut to have size equal to yours. Get in there and lay that pipe with confidence, you have no reason to do otherwise.

dude 7.5 x 5.5 is GOOD you are ur bigger than most men. get over the complex and enjoy yourself.

6.5 bp or nbp? I can’t help you about devices because I haven’t used any yet. I gained an inch in length by jelqing for over a year and within the last 6 months I’ve added manual pulling and fowfers. I’ve only gained noticeably in flaccid in these 6 months and I may eventually try a device. I’ve noticed lately though that after PE I can sometimes pull my penis up to a half inch longer than ever before, so I’m hoping this is a sign of a stable gain that will eventually be coming. Personally, I’m not into devices, but will if it becomes necessary to try them.

Considering that average is 6” BPEL, you’re kicking ass. As for girth, another winner!

Don’t let yourself down by letting this get to you.

The problem is that my friend told me that all her friends look at me and say I look like a hung guy (I’m pretty tall maybe that’s why)… My girlfriend even told me her friends asked her “Your boyfriend must have a huge one right?” but she didn’t know yet… (Because we still haven’t done anything together)

I wish I could be 7.5 Inch, I was pretty confortable with that size but now that I measure and get like 7 1/4 I feel disapointed…

Thank you
JD

I don’t know 6.5 bp or not… I you were a girl, would you consider BP? You know she told me the average by the space between her 2 fingers (You know that thing girls do), and it was about 6.5

JD

Jackdaniels, pal, you have nothing to worry about at all. You have a very good size penis. Well above average. Infact you penis size is within the range of what most women would consider the perfect size. 7-8 inches. You’re right in the middle of the perfect size. The only real problem you have is the one you invented in your head.

There are guys with much smaller dicks than yours who can please their women very well. The only thing that you really need to do now is make sure you learn all the other things that can make sex better for a woman. Good comunication, touching, foreplay, learning good techniques by watching and listening to her body. Size should certainly be the least of your concerns, especially when your penis is within the perfect range like yours.

The most important thing you need to do above all else is stop worrying about the woman’s pleasure so much and start thinking of your own. If you are a kind, caring man, then sexually pleasing a woman will naturally come as you spend more time with the woman. Your nature will make it happen, with very little effort. It will just evolve. What you really need to do is start focusing on what YOU can get out of sex with a woman. Your pleasure is and comfort is absolutely one of the most important thing during sex. Just as you have been worrying about a woman’s pleasure, so too many women have been worrying about whether men will enjoy having them in bed. Their focus won’t even be on you a lot of the time. They are often too nervous and worried about themselves instead, just like you have been.

Sex is meant to be fun. It can be tremendous fun if both the man and the woman stop worrying so much and just start sharing and enjoying the other person’s company. Take the focus off of yourself right now Jackdaniels. The only thing you should focus on when it comes to yourself is your pleasure and your enjoyment. Your penis doesn’t even have to be an issue if don’t allow it to be. If you were only 5-6 inches I would still say the same thing to you and it would still apply, but at over 7 inches, the only problem you can possibly have is one you create in your own head because most women love that kind of size.

She will be first, most impressed if you treat her like a lady and second most impressed with not your size so much, which is quite large, but how you use it. Relax and enjoy your lady and she will enjoy you. If she has the audacity to judge you, dump her. Oh, and by the way, don’t asked to be judged!

Thank you guys, you are right… I don’t know why I’m nervous this time, with my last girlfriend everything was fine and we both enjoyed it very much… Gottagrow you’re right, every woman I’ve been with never said anything about my size, but always told me how caring, passionate I was…

Thank You!
JD

For a boost, check this site out. Read both pages.

HealthCentral: Health Stories, Patient Inspiration, and Trusted Medical Information

Link courtesy of ThunderSS, from another thread.

ICM, I think it would be interesting to make an average out of Thunder’s members size (even their “starting” size)… I think it would be a lot more than 5.1 BP… Are all hung guys hanging out on thunder’s? :P

JD

How many of us have ever been with a woman that whipped out a ruler? So, how on earth could a woman actually say that the average size of men she was with was 6.5 inches?

Anyhow, don’t worry about it Jack. Most of us wish we had your size. As for me, I’ll make do with what I got and continue to try and make it a little bigger.

GOTTABHUGE!

Like gprent said, don't ask to be judged.

Relax.

If she really wants a number and you choose to throw in an answer, say 7.5 or 8-ish with a shrug, whatever you want; it’s your dick, your measure and your goddam number too. If she’s a nice enough girl - hopefully she is - she’ll just let you know she likes it.

>>>For a boost, check this site out. Read both pages.

>>>HealthCentral: Health Stories, Patient Inspiration, and Trusted Medical Information

That is a nice boost! Seems the docs are measuring bone pressed and got an average of 5.1"… i bet the docs don’t push as hard as we do… but still sounds encouraging. Maybe we get another 1/8" or 1/4" when we do it to ourselves. We also probably bring ourselves to our max size too when we measure… I know I do! Following up with a nice jerk session is standard. Bet they didn’t do that in front of the doc either.