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Originally posted by aarzakk
I understand that this stuff works. Problem with me is the more I try to visualize the more anxious I get and actually start loosing engorgement while jelqing. I've tried to picture this 8x6 of my goal while pe'ing. Then I'll get negative thoughts rushing through my head. I'll actually get to the point where I get let down and want to just stop what I'm doing.
Anxiety disorder is a terrible burden on PE.
It's good that you brought this up because in my martial arts history visualization is the key to success. Too bad I wasn't doing PE back then.
I understand aarzakk, I do experience the same problems. Your visualization should happen before your actual PE session. Visualization is a technique best applied prior to the exercise as a means of seeing it before it happens and seeing it POSITIVE. During the actual exercise your mind should be clear and focused on the actual exercise. Before and After exercise is when these techiques work best.
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General anxiety is something I think all of us feel to a ceratin degree especially around our penis. I find it equally as scary looking at my final goal. I see how big that is and it is difficult to believe I will get there but alot of “mental PE” is built on past experience. That is why reflecting on our past size(s) is important, it reminds us that we already have accomplished this incredible feat. I have always told men that make gains to be proud of themselves but never settle for it. The success of gains should always be used as the stepping stone to new gains.
I wanted to post this here too. This is an affirmation exercise that has worked well for me to:
Past/Present/Future Affirmation:
When I make gains it is always a struggle to accept these gains. Making them cemented in my head sometimes is as difficult as making the actual gains. For myself I have a table, which some of you have may have already seen, where I put marks to my gains and future goals. After my morning exercise I like to spend sometime meditating by looking at the table. I do 3 things in this mental session.
1. I look at my starting size. I really try to remember situation that happened around my starting size. I try to make a very strong mental connection to my starting size. When I have that captured mentally I go on to step 2.
2. I place my hands on the table showing my current size. (I put my left & right hands down and the space in between them is my current size) This step is very important. I squint my eyes and picture my new size. I try to imagine situations in which I remember my new size. I stare at this space between my hands until I can accept that this is my new size. When I get that mental connection I go to step 3.
3. Now I move my left hand to the goal size I want. When I have that space between my hands I squint once again. I concentrate on this size and picture myself with this new size. I will meditate on this until I can capture a clear vision of myself at this point. Once I am able to envision this, I close my eyes and move on with my day. The last thought in my head is the new size.
This method of affirmation has been so important to me. It keeps me very grateful by reflecting on my past size. It makes PE a reality by aiding in acceptance of my current size. It also serves as a wonderful motivator for future gains.