Do you think showing a bulge is offensive?

I’m over 50 and don’t care what people think. My age affords me that liberty.

I mean you dont have to care what people think at any age really. Also doesnt bother me if dudes in ill-fitting clothes dont care what I think either, doesnt change my opinion that when a bulge looks more like Han-Solo stuck in the wall desperately screaming to escape the death hold of cheap pants fabric, while at the same time every seam of the pants are bursting at the threads every-time the dude pops a squat looks sad.

My whole point was there is bulges, ones where because you happen to have a pair of clackers and rod people might get a sneak peak of whats stuffed down there because you just cant do shit about it; and then theres not knowing how to dress, and trying to fit into pants purchased 10 years ago at a Walmart clearance bulge.

Check out the VPL thread here and you’ll see what I’m talking about.

Nah im good, unless there is pictures of overweight dudes in khakis that are 3 sizes to small it has nothing to do with what I WAS referring to.

I dont understand why your so set on being contrary to the opinion I laid out in the first comment.

- I comment saying I just let it hang a bulge is a bulge; make a reference to the shitty bulge dudes who dont know how to dress get.
- You say i should relax, a bulge is a bulge…basically just agreeing with exactly what I said before.
- I reiterate and further clarify my example of dudes without style
- You argue that you dont care what people think because youre 50
- I say thats super cool, who cares. Again re-iterating the point im trying to make about a very specific style of dude/clothing/ect
- You link to a different thread; which unless is about dudes 50-100lbs overweight showing off their smothered peckers in pants they owned in the 80s and peoples opinion on it. Has pretty much 0 to do with what I said in the first place.

End of the day bro, i dont really care what people wana sport on the daily. My opinion is that Im never gonna stuff myself in a pair off pants 6 sizes to small for myself and feel comfortable sitting around knowing everyone can see my business as it tries to rip through the fabric like the Chestburster from Alien, and Ill never think that dudes who think thats a good look arnt completely clueless. Ima keep freeballin my joggers and sweats and packing a bulge as i do; and if you wana do the former thats all good too, we can agree to disagree.

You shared your opinion, I shared mine. Relax.

The thing is you never addressed, agreed, argued my opinion much less made your own.

You made some freedom speech about bulges. Something I literally supported in my original post, you just continued to ignore my literal opinion about a very specific bulge, while continuing to… attempt to respond to my post as if I said ‘all bulges are bad’.

Not sure maybe I hit a nerve or or you dont actually read post before you open the reply page. But, You never gave an opinion to anything.

Ill say it again and this time ill just CopyPaste so you cant miss it:

End of the day bro, i dont really care what people wana sport on the daily. My opinion is that Im never gonna stuff myself in a pair off pants 6 sizes to small for myself and feel comfortable sitting around knowing everyone can see my business as it tries to rip through the fabric like the Chestburster from Alien, and Ill never think that dudes who think thats a good look arnt completely clueless.

If you have an opinion that actually addresses mine than im all ears otherwise…. Im not really sure why you replied in the first place.

As many have already mentioned, it’s all just a matter of preference. Some will be offended, while others will appreciate, many more could probably care less.

I am one of those dudes that appreciates the camel toe and I’m sure there are some women that like to see a cock outline.

Some men and women will be straight up offended by the sight of either.

It’s all just preference. Cant please them all, might as well start with ourselves:-)

Maybe the missing equation in my statement was the shade of gray. As in not everything is black and white. I from the start, agreed that bulges are not bad, nor offensive, nor an issue, or something any man should put effort into hiding. My only statement was in regards to a very, very, very specific ‘bulge’ thats the result of a very specific attire and very specific guy.

While we can agree that as a whole bulges arnt offensive, nor shameful. The gray shading comes in when we account for people that wear clothing well outside their means. Im sorry but if your a fat-ass wearing tight dress pants that have to be hunched up before you can sit down so you dont rip them in half…and THATS the reason your frank and beans are on display? Thats a far cry from the fit 25 year old dude wearing some sweatpants with his dick popping out.

The former would be like your 90 year old grandma wearing a push up bra and a crop-top and trying to argue its the same as the girl next door doing the same thing. At some point people need to learn to live within their means.

Be well.

Thanks bro you too 😂