Erection and alcohol

mace,
i could’ve written the exact same post word for word (age and all). I understand the difficult situation, because like you I am much better with the women after I’ve been drinking. It’s like a catch 22, because the alcohol gives you confidence, you need the confidence to get the women to come home with you, but once you’ve drinken enough alcohol to get that confidence you’re past the point of getting a good erection. (and the nervousness doesnt help either). I felt helpless for a while, but came to the realization that less masturbation has helped. Also PE generally causes periods of short term desensitization for many of us, but there’s no way we’re giving that up. Anyway I’d suggest as little masturbation as possible, and never masturbating to porn. You’ll come to a point where you are truly thinking with your dick, and being turned on easier…… i can finally jack off to my own fantasies again.

good luck,
skinnyguy

Now we know why Shakespeare named that character “Falstaff”, don’t we? :)

Does having just one drink cause problems? Two? Three? Eight? Find that limit, and don’t go beyond it. Listen to your body.

When you younger guys have built a little confidence (by PE and/or just gaining years) you won’t need as much alcohol for confidence.

I have to echo some of the sediments of Rubberbandman. Use this as motivation to keep your PE going on the days you don’t feel like it. When you have your 8 x 6 that can be your knew “shield” as u put it instead of alcohol and it’ll give u the confidence to talk to the ladies that your alcohol used to give you.

I can feel your situation though. I’m a young guy would has a tendency to drink to much and that effects my erections…a couple of times of disappointing performances I went to get some answers. As far as I know the little blue pill Viagra is the safest of the supplements to take with Alcohol.

The only sideffect I’ve had started coming recently I’d get tension headache at the back of my head…Oh yeah and sometimes I won’t be able to come…so I’ll fake it after 45 min or so.

But if you do it right your girl should be wiling to try to rub your headache away.

I had two drinks while taking 25mg of viagra(1/4 of the blue pill) and I was flushed like hell with a stuffy nose(mild)

I don’t think it is wise to mix those two drugs.

I’m in the boat. I quit drinking 2 years ago at age 49. Alcohol didn’t make me impotent but erections were a bit weaker than otherwise. My wife used to tease me about it but I didn’t believe her. We separated some years ago and I had a few new ladies. I finally had to realize that alcohol indeed weakens my erections.

A bit over 2 years ago a met a new lady. We love to fuck. She told me that alcohol wasn’t good for my dick and thus not good for her pussy. I knew by now that she was right. She asked me to quit drinking. I stopped drinking.

No problems socially. I think that most people admire us *s*.

Here’s one that will really work. I did this once before and it worked wanders for me. Drink 2-3 shots of Bacardi 151, then switch to non-alcoholic drinks for the rest of the night. The 151 will be enough to break the ice for the rest of the night. Try it dude.

Ditto, add me as another young dude to the list (socialising vs soberity vs sexualness). Yet, I have had the best sex of my life when being absolutley hammered but other times fallen asleep and failed to get hard. So I don’t understand it. I think maybe too much beer and lagers make things worse, if I get drunk on whisky or spirits it seems to be ok sometimes or sometimes better, wil need to test this theory.

Though, just depends, sometimes alcohol makes me sleepy other times hyper etc??? But then again sex is often much better when your drunk and just let yourself and inhibitions go, you know when you’re high and get so horny and there’s no bad thoughts in your mind (i.e. is my dick big enough, does her pussy smell, should I change position, will it be hard etc). You just get carried away in the heat and passion and the moment with intensity.

I remember the two best sexual experiences of my life where both heavily under the influence. One, I had been drinking only whiskey and coke for maybe 3-4 hours then had sex. The other, drinking buckets of vodka, red bull and coke and whiskey, red bull and coke and dancing crazily for at least 5 hours before sex. Though each time maybe not drank alcohol for 1-2 hour before actual sex. Maybe that was the key mmmm I dunno.

Yeah, maybe it would work best to get pissed early then switch to water and just have a shot every now and then to keep you drunk. Any volunteers with girlfriends for this?

Now here is a post I feel experienced enough to answer. These things are common knowledge, (except for #1), but no one seems to do them consistently.

1. Drink Guinness, nothing else. I am serious.

2. Drink one drink, then one water. This addresses two issues, dehydration and pacing yourself. Carbonated beverages are not the same, drink water.

3. Eat while drinking. Snack/eat almost continuously. A Virgin Mary is almost like eating, and has some vitamins that you will need for the hangover.

4. Don’t stop drinking. If you stop you get tired. Pace yourself to drink throughout the night.

Be a designated driver, you get free tea.

Hey is this website telling the truth about Guinness. Drink Guinness - It’s Good For You! - BlackFive

Good bump, I’ve been looking for this thread.

My cock really hates the stuff and will turtle really bad when I drink, and also I can only get about 1/2 - 3/4 erection quality.

I hate it that alcohol often gets me into the situation in which I can use my penis, however it will never work -_-. Due to this I usually try to drink less if I feel that’s where the night will lead to.. However that is just as bad (morally) to try something on with a drunk chick lol. Cruel world -_-.

easyspeen-

See #1 in my post above. It is #1 for a reason. Once again, I am serious. Try it.

My current wife of 10 years still buys me the stuff, always has since we discovered its benefits.

We call a six pack a “sex pack of stiffener”.

When I was drinking regularly, (3 or times per week), she would buy me two pitchers of Guinness. This was for me only, and on a “school night”. (More on weekends).

In an effort to save money, we tried other beers. They made/make me a shit faced drooling limp dick. Guinness on the other hand makes me an alert sex monster with a steely erection that will last much longer than she needs.

Guinness is much better for hangovers as well. I often feel better in the morning than I do on a normal, non drinking morning.

This reminds me, I miss drinking.

Most of the time I go to bars I don’t even get drunk, just drink a few and get my buzz and chat.

Doesn’t alcohol block nerve impulses and create a nerve like injury, just that when the alcohol is out of the body, your dick it goes back to normal?