Erection level based on Stimulation

I have noticed my erections are not the same if I manually started it or it came by itself (watching porn, about to have sex, etc.).

If I touch myself it grows hard and big (BTW, I PE without visual stimulation such as porn), but if I’m about to slay my gf’s dripping pussy with my 9” schlong it grows…well to what looks like more than 9” (no I’m not whipping out the ruler in front of her to check if the erection is bigger than usual).

So my question is: Do you guys feel your erection can vary by self or other such as your next sexual conquest (includes wives)?

BT79

My erection is alot harder if it’s brought on by my girlfriend,rather than by my own hand or visual stimuli such as porn.

Exactly what I’m saying. I’m ready to stuff my girl and it seems more hard than usual.

Anyone else?

BT79

Me too. If I know i’m about to slam pussy it gets it’s hardest, but manual stimulation does not bring on that hardness anymore.

I think it has something to do with the PE- and getting so used to touching yourself.

Of course erection level is linked to arousal- it’s the difference between a 50% flaccid, a 90%er and a 110% super-cock.

I can PE with or without visual stimulation and I’ve managed 110%ers alone in the dark, but my mind’s eye is working overtime.

And I can usually manage a super-cock with a fresh XX, while the slightest show of disinterest or lack of commitment on her part will be reflected in my flagging erection.

Interesting andro,

My gf has a policy where she won’t so much interest in sex until we’re married, but we can still have sex as long as I’m, solely, running the show. Its her way of saving something for marriage, which I have no problem with other than the times where its hard for me to start something and then she bitches at me. When this occurs, my already weak erection (because she is showing zero interest-most of the time BTW her interests, she says, is 40%) falls even more precipitously.

My raging hardons occur after a long time of no sex or if she has that look or begging for my cock (scary that’s when her interest is 40%!). And that’s why I’m holding out till marriage (plus I love her)

BT79

Depends on what you mean by stimulation. Horniness is of course a factor. But for me, my morning wood cuts diamonds and looks like a half inch bigger in both directions.

Do a search on sympathetic and parasympathetic nerves.

Yeah, my erections are different from one another. Sometimes, I wish my best erections came more often. I remember one distinct moment, where my dick felt so hard and stiff, I even felt my inner penis fairly easy. No way I wasn’t going to cum with a dick that stiff. It lasted for a long while until I finally did orgasm though.

I remember three hours ago before I took that little nap, I already ejaculated once and had like three glasses of water… :o

BT, my PE brah-
Your statement had me concerned. In my experience, both personal and observed in the relationships of close friends, a couple’s sex life slows down after marriage rather than speeding up.

You might be the exception- I’m just saying.