Notenough
I must be the only woman in America that can discuss with strangers my husband’s size, but never with family and friends. This is my belief…women aren’t always the most trusting people. Ok, I said it. We can be the most vendictive and munipulative people, on top of being back-stabbers. I have few female friends because if that fact. I would never discuss how well endowed or not, my lover is, for one. Humans are tempted creatures by nature. To mention something, someone else doesn’t have, only tempts them to go after it or destroy it.
For two, as Diamond Winds said, her friend may very well be jealous. Any woman that dismisses a man on size alone is a heifer. And quite honestly, I don’t believe to be true. She might just say things like that to feel better about herself. You would have to be one cold so-and-so to do that. If she is, your g/f really doesn’t need a friend like that anyway, unless your g/f is a cold so-and-so, which it doesn’t sound like from what you have stated. Some people talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk. To base a whole man on his size is shallow. As you stated smaller has the big advance of being able to hit the “g” spot so much better, among other things. At least in my case.
Of course, this all is my little opinion and I could be way off base with all of this. So since I have already said too much , let me cap it off with this. Your g/f could also be afraid that if you were to achieve the length you would desire, that you may stray to see how well other women feel about it. It is like heavy people who lose weight. Their self esteem rises and they become more attractive on the inside and out because of it. Never mind the wonders it does for your confidence. Self confidence can be like a love potion. You can sence there is something there drawing you to a person, but can’t put your finger on it.
At any rate, that is my opinion.