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So women like them average sized… 8x6 is about average, isn’t it?

No, but it is ideal.

I’m aiming for more than 8x6, but not because I think it’s useful to have, but because the way we measure (BPEL 100% erect) is not the same as usable size. Therefore I think up to 9x ~6.5 would be my ideal. It’s a long long road…. Perhaps I’ll get there by the year 2034 when I retire :) but in the meantime, keep livin’ and enjoyin’.

8X6, it just keeps going through my mind, strangely enough, it hasn’t discouraged me, but motivates me to go that much harder (no pun intended) if I ever get there, I’m going to do women of my past and see if they like it any better.

Heh, I found the ex husband comment quite amusing actually! :)

So ladies is actually anything over 6” girth too big in your opinion??

Stretchin….

Better duck. Can’t have you messing with the gals on here.

Cajun,

Say again.

Start, where are you now? I for the longest time I felt 7x6 was ideal. It seems being here at the forum has changed that. I don’t think I will up that amount (8x6) anymore.

Dingle, 6” is pushing it. Anything significantly beyond that and I don’t know if I will have much patience waiting for my body to adjust.

But, don’t you think the “adjusting” could be fun, lots of kissing, caressing, licking, pushing, spreading and so on could be happening here too.

To me, prolonging the fun is best. I must say however that our youngest child has gone to University so momma bear and poppa bear have this giant house all to themselves. Our vocals have now gone through the roof :) .

That said, pain to me is no fun. For you M&M (or is that S&M) people out there, be careful when finding your mate but I would guess there are lots of possibilities there for exploration.

My wife has had four children and even if I were huge, I would still echo in there (7.5 x 5). From the rear, not anal, I can touch bottom and vaginal orgasms are frequent, either that or she’s the best actress alive, but we know each other pretty well, what buttons to, ah, enjoy? for each other’s pleasure.

I do think that 8 x 6 is optimal for all conditions and it is admitedly based on my readings here. Larger? Well, as men we wish to reach our full potential and playing with myself is fun too. I think this is akin to larger breasts. When we married, she was a “B” cup breast size, after children and much massage + 23 years later, she’s a “D” cup. (Hey cowboy, there’s enough there for you and a couple of strays too! hahaha) Am I pleased, you bet. I suspect J-junior’s size will be enjoyed as well.

There is one thing to prolong the longings and the desires that have two, three or four people, depending on the bedroom, involved where it is sexually fun. Being tore by a dick that’s too big for a hole it is being forced inside, even gently, isn’t that fun to me. Not at this stage of my life. Some pain I bypass gladly.

Please, pain is no fun for me too and no wish to damage/tear or even wish that on somone else to me, all are precious. I think the operative word here is force. There should be none, only invitation.

Have I missed the point somewhere?

For me, when my wife is dry, it’s painful in the extreme and she often doesn’t feel it. We say to each other, we have a lifetime to get it right (laughs here) so for her, my cum makes her cum and gas? “It’s talking to you honey” more laughs. I’m still sore though.

Recently, we’ve discovered cucumber oil, love the fresh aroma and the lubrication, both of us love this, what a find! Don’t get me wrong, I love her aroma, too, that turns me on to no end!!! Recently though, no oral, for many reasons. I miss that desperately.

We’re a traditional couple, no menage’a’trois or?, only deaux. I could experiment though, I think, but as long as married, I don’t go there and am satisfied, no, sated, where I am only fantasy in that place.

Recently, and I’m working on girth (but length happens too), she’s feeling more, me too, a good thing. Eventually we’ll have to talk. This has always been difficult for me with her, even with a good vocabulary, she thinks so fast, I can’t keep up (she’s the intellect, I’m the engineer, go figure). I have always been the long-slow-steady (!) type and verbal discourse/debate leaves me in its wake and I’m intimidated. Indeed, my filters/baggage don’t help matters but in this she is patient.

Where were we, oh yes, force v. invitation.

Are we talking about this giant thing immediately presenting itself for service or are we growing together? I think I now understand your additional partner comment. You know Mensa?…I belong to…Densa! (additional laughs)

How far afield have we gone here?

J

I want to echo Gaby’s question here. So, what’s the verdict?

anna, no insult, doubt or argument intended, apologies here. I believe what you say, that really, we need to listen to our partners and stop when they say stop! And, have fun along the way…can I be ‘trois? :)

Kojack 8 x 6

I wasn’t insulted. I just think that girth has to be something that should be comfortable/stimulating whether you choose to use lubrication or not. Sometimes it is needed and other times it is not. That’s the kind of girth I like. One that can be handled under any circumstance and I don’t have to necessarily have to adapt to. When you have a guy that is too thick there are going to be time when lubrication isn’t handy and spit ain’t cutting it and it would turn out to be a something that can be painful. I don’t mind nibbling and things like that but sometimes a guy gets over ambitious in his quest to cum and he thinks all is good when it isn’t. And all it takes is one thrust too many. And it doesn’t necessarily have to be by force.

Anyway, all is good. I don’t have a girth or length issue at the moment so I don’t fret over these matters too much.

What’s nibbling? The “what’s this” thread today is hilarious.

Is it communicable?

By the way, I like you, you are “earthy”, my circle of friends are too proper to dialogue like this. I wish I didn’t appeal to what’s intellectual though, but to what is fun. Am I old?