Memento, I'll take a stab...
day_is_today,
try Jelqing the base as Peforeal describes in this thread:
Try this for better base girth
Your legs should be spread more than usual to allow you to get in there really deep. Maybe try sitting down. When I do this I stand with my hips thrust forward and I use a palms down pinkie towards Glans grip. It can be tiring to do it correctly. Some of the Jelqs turn into Ulis but I personally like it this way. I am in the experimental stage with this technique but I love it already.
Really dig in to the sides of your unit with your thumb and forefinger at the root. Be careful to not pull to hard across the plumbing that holds your balls up… ouch! You may need to clip your pubic hair very short to do this without aggravating the skin.
Immediately after the PC clench you Jelq this additional blood forward about 2 - 3 inches. That’s it. Change hands if you wish or kegel again and Jelq with the same hand. Don’t rush through your stroke. Make it last a couple of seconds at least even though it is a short stroke.
Logic dictates that the baseball bat imbalance will take a little time to correct.
Peforeal describes it quite well but if I have muddied the waters at all let me know.
BTW, I lack privacy as well but I have learned the hard way to not forget the hot wrap at the beginning and end of each session! Very important.