This is one of those topics that comes up fairly frequently. I understand the appeal of the “Fight Club” mentality. However, in the case of PE, I disagree with it. The guys who prefer to keep PE little known are usually motivated by their concern about how they compare to other guys: They want to get ahead and stay ahead; they either don’t want guys who already have some size to get even bigger, and/or they don’t want the “average” to increase. In my opinion, this is incorrect thinking. Everyone will benefit if PE becomes more widely known and practiced. This means that you who are worried about how women judge your dick compared to other men's dicks will also benefit, if an appeal to self-interest is necessary.
Bear in mind that for the greater majority of women, there is an upper limit on the length and thickness of the cocks that they find pleasurable and, therefore, preferable. This upper limit no doubt varies from woman to woman, but it seems to be somewhere around the mythical “8 x 6.” The point being, it is not the case that if the “average” dick size became 8 x 6 that most women would come to prefer 10 x 7.
So what are some of the benefits to YOU and to others from mainstream PE?
(1) PE will be out of the closet; it will be acknowledged and encouraged. You won’t have to sneak around. And, you won’t have to forgo hanging or pumping, etc., for many hours a week because you don’t have the privacy to do so.
(2) YOU will feel better about yourself. Other men will feel better about themselves. And women will also be happier. The general level of sexual pleasure and enjoyment will increase. No one will experience less pleasure and happiness because his dick and other men’s dicks are getting bigger. (At least, no man should be made unhappy by this; if some man is saddened by this outcome, then he has serious psychological issues to work on, which are very much unrelated to PE.) In other words, I’m appealing to the utilitarian “greater happiness” principle.
(3) Once it becomes common knowledge that we can augment a man’s endowment, the whole size issue will diminish or evaporate completely. It will not matter if a man has been born with a five inch or an eight inch penis, if the five inch penis can be made into an eight inch one. Indeed, in this respect, we would probably stop talking about a man’s “endowment.” The most frustrating thing about a world without PE is the sense of helplessness that comes from not being able to do anything about your size, if you are not happy with it. This would all go away.
(4) Human knowledge about penis enlargement would increase vastly. Though we learn a lot from forums such as this, and from our experience and the experience of others, we are still very much in the Dark Ages when it comes to knowledge about how PE works. PE isn’t even a pre-science right now. When PE goes mainstream, it will receive the research attention it deserves. Our knowledge will ineviteably increase. And with this increase in knowledge, our ability to enlarge a man's unit will also increase greatly. Better equipment and techniques will be developed. But mostly, we will understand the physical variables involved in PE, and we will therefore be able to control these variables better to produce the outcome we want[/i]. We will know why some men find it easier to gain than others, and we will know what the limits are to lengthening and thickening the penis, if there are any such limits; we will be able to prevent injuries, and we will no doubt be able to achieve our goals in better time. Look at how scientific research has been able to assist men with ED (or those who want a little “recreational” boost); consider how this research is now about to assist men with premature ejaculation. In both of these cases, everyone benefits from this increase in knowledge. Do you honestly think that it will be anything less when PE begins to receive proper scientific attention?
In my opinion, PE will go mainstream; indeed, I believe that we are witnessing the beginning of this process now!
Despite the above, there are some men who would still prefer PE to remain a “secret society.” Their bottom line is, “I want to stand out; I want to be bigger than other men; I want women to notice me and not other men; I want other men to suffer and feel bad about themselves while I feel great and wonderful and powerful!” I can only repeat, the issue that these men are struggling with is a psychological one, and it really has little or nothing to do with penis size. It is not necessary for you to gain your own happiness at the expense of others.