I think I must be a grower.. Here’s why: Although I don’t gawk at the other guys in the locker room at my gym, I’ll sometimes take a quick, discreet peek.. And I still get surprised at how many guys have a pretty impressive flaccid size. Mine’s not ridiculously small I think, but it’s often definately in the ‘kinda smallish, not very impressive-category’. (Me being 6.3 tall doesn’t help either) After a workout I’m never in a fluffy, ‘loose’ flaccid state. I once read somewhere that this is because during a workout, the penis is not exactly the priority when it comes to blood flow. I guess that means that all these big guys are even bigger when they haven’t just worked out.(!) Now, erect I’m 6” NBP by 5.3”, a size that’s slightly longer and probably noticeably thicker than the average, according to most surveys. If we trust these surveys aren’t way off, that means I’m a grower, how else can so many guys be bigger flaccid than me? (Yes, I know about the whole ‘optical illusion’ of looking down on your own unit, but I think I’m not fooling myself too much here.)
Even though most people probably have read/heard about how ‘flaccid size doesn’t say anything about the erect size’, I still think most people automatically think ‘small dick’ when they see a small flaccid dick, and ‘big dick’ when they see a big flaccid dick. So becoming less of a grower (or at least getting a fuller flaccid hang) is one of my main goals in PE. But I do also see a draw-back in being too much of a shower. I’m sure many girls will be disappointed if the impressive soft one they have in front of them hardly grows at all, but just ‘stiffens’.