Guys I need Help

Last night me and the wife were hot and heavy and I was getting one of the best BJ I have had in a long time( I think that is due to pe). and I was hot and horny she pulls my cock out of her mouth and takes her tongue and goes around the head and she looks down and notices the ring around my shaft it is about an inch below my glans (I have had another thread about the ring). it looks like I guess stretch marks or growth ring I don’t know, but any way she asks me what is wrong with my cock and in the heat of the moment and dirty talking I say don’t you like my big new cock I have been growing it for you…….wrong thing to say(dumb thing to say when you are horny) well to make a long story short party over no fuck nothing. I haft to explaining what I have been doing and I tried to tell her it was for good penis health so on and so forth, well no go.

I tried to tell her that she has been commenting on how sex is better then it used to be and I tried to remind her how she will orgasm 6 to 8 times when we are having sex. she used to orgasm once or twice before.

Today she will not talk about it I have tried to bring up the subject, but no

WHAT DO I DO? I do not want to go with out sex

Has any one else had this happen and I still do not have any more answers on the fucking ring around my cock that give my peing away.

Please help.

BigH, I would like to help you : what are you asking, exactly?

P.S.: you should read the forum guidelines, before posting again. They are very serious about, here.

I am asking for advise on how to rectify what has happened. like what I can say to make everything good again?

Oh, now I get it! :)

The problem here seems to be your wife : why she refuse the idea of you being involved in PE? Maybe she was offended by what you said when you was in intimity. If so, time is the cure.

However, you could say her that you do PE for prostate health purpose, that a Doc adviced you to do PE work ; it’s a half lie, but not totally a lie, right?

She may be concerned that you are doing, (god knows what) to your penis in a desperate attempt to please her and you are harming yourself in the process. My advice is to remain calm and explain to her that enlarging your dick is no different than you wanting to enlarge your arms or chest by going to the gym. It’s a guy thing. Tell her that it’s for ‘your’ pleasure not hers. This topic really confuses women; you might have to wait a while before she is open to talking about it.

Above all, calm her by telling her that you are not doing anything dangerous and that the ‘ring’ is a minor skin irritation and will probably go away. And, if it doesn’t it’s no big deal.

When I told my girlfriend she acted the same way. But when we finally talked about it the only thing she was really concerned about was that I might be hurting myself and to make sure that I wasn’t doing it for her benefit.

It may help stave off erectile dysfunction in the future.

Yeah I agree with DB.

This is why I believe that guys should PE in stealth. I know, I know, some women seem fine with it. But I think it’s a bad idea.

A lot of women might become insecure, think the guy is building his dick for other women.
Or they might think you’re crazy, because PE “cannot” work.
Or they might think you’re weak or pathetic for wanting to have a bigger peepee.

Or…when they become your ex, they might decide to blab about your PE to others (when their recounting your growing list of faults to others - as my ex-wife does on every opportunity she has).

However, my ex never knew about my PE.

So………HA!!!!

Insecurity works both ways. Women obsess about boob size and body fat, wrinkles, me. What woman does not spend $$ on make up just so they can look good for me. Or you, they try to look pretty for their man.

My serious advice to you (from my perspective) would be to review the power/communication structure of your relationship. Then, having done so, should you decide within the privacy of your own mind that your current setup is unfavorable from your perspective then I would seek the assistance of a counselor so that you could work on these things constructively. In my personal opinion, your wife (and perhaps you as well) need to work on your communication.

Two questions: how old are you guys (ballpark: i.e. twenties, thirties, etc.) and how long have you been married?

The above advice assumes that you’ve been together for awhile and you’re at least in your thirties.

Good luck working it out.

Dude are you going to roll over for sex and sit up and beg or grow some balls. You don’t need permission to do PE!! This is a time to clear the air make her understand it’s something you are going to do with or without her support and it will be much easier with it. She will respect you for making a stand after she learns that she can’t control you action with sex.

Has she ever lost some weight when she thought she was getting fat? If so, there really is no difference. People get in shape for better health, sex, and looks, that is the same reason we do PE.

She will either get over this problem of hers, (Yes, it is her problem!) or you will end up with a new woman! (You really can’t go wrong either way!)

If it were me, I wouldn’t bring it up. I would think nothing of it, and although you might lose out of sex for a little bit, I would imagine she wants those 6-8 orgasms back as soon as possible! HAH!

Yeah, I’m in the group that thinks you should act indignant about this - women will find any reason to become upset and insecure, you just can’t play into it.

Chocolate, champagne and roses.