Has your Oral Sex gotten worse?

Hey all,

Like most men, there is nothing better than getting blown by a beautiful woman. It certainly is one of my favorite sexual acts. However, I’m afraid PE may be ruining it.

My current g/f has loved giving head and she is very good at it. Also on my part, to make it a little more enjoyable for her, I don’t try and “last forever” since I know it can get a bit tiring for her mouth. I’ve never timed the act, but I would say on average, from start to finish, probably 10-12 minutes is the average.

However, since I’ve started PE’ing, I can last forever during sex (which is great), but its also happening during oral, which isn’t so great. I rarely cum during oral anymore and it usually takes a lot of hand stimulation on my part and hers to get me there (turns into a handjob instead of a blowjob). I think all the PEing has desensitized my penis.

So I have 2 questions for the group:

1). How long on average does it take you to orgasm when getting a b/j? (I’m curious as to what is too long for a woman)

2). Has anyone else had this problem occur? Had no problem orgasming during oral and now after PEing you have all kinds of trouble.

I’m kinda of bummed. It’s gotten to the point that we aren’t enjoying it anymore. I know she is one of those woman who loves the “taste” of a man and she is disappointed she can’t make me orgasm this way.

Thanks………

But can’t she just finish you off orally with the last few strokes once you or she has brought you near orgasm with the hand?

Many of us would “give our all’ to last longer…….

Yeah,

She can and does. But its not quite the same. She use to be able to primarily use her mouth, with a little hand motion.

Now its sort of like mouth and a little hand…………and then a bunch of hand for awhile until I’m about there and then back with the mouth again for the end.

It just sort of seems disjointed now. Use to be natural, she would do her thing and I would cum. Now its natural until she’s tired and then she stops and does the hand thing until I’m close. Seems more like a chore…………

I’ve always taken a long time to cum from oral but now my girlfriend cannot make me cum this way no matter how well she performs. It does turn into an extended hand job session.

There is no question that our units are becoming desensitized with this activity. I’ve found that when you take some time off your sensitivity will begin going back to normal.

Curiously, I have found that during periods of concentrating on Uli’s with an 80% erection caused me to be more sensitive in sexual situations. I think others have mentioned this as well.

Likely, the stretches and the grip behind the head is the culprit here.

I agree.

PEing has definitely desensitized my unit. I have taken a break in order to bring it back and it is slowing coming back.

Unfortunately, jelquing and the grip mentioned by Torso, done on an ongoing basis, will desensitize you.

For some this is a good thing, for others not. I still feel that with the proper mental stimulation however, and in the right mood, you will be able to cum with your G/f like you used to. Lay off the BJs for a couple of weeks and see how it goes when you return.

Good Luck

BP