Your dick is 7 or 8 inches. This is enough of an explanation for most (or at least those that aren’t obsessed). If you are worried about women’s perceptions, realize that:
1) they usually qualitative and think in terms of “too small”, “normal”, “big” and “too big.”
2) Each woman will have a different experience and perception. For example on one recent occasion I was dating a woman whose last boyfriend was over 10 inches. (I know him and it is legit). She told me I was kind of average and I am now nearly 8 inches hard. On another occasion I had sex with a woman who had only one previou partner - her husband of 18 years. He was only around 4 inches, so I was Godzilla.
Use the numbers for tracking your own progress, but throw them out the door when you drop your pants in front of your lady friends. Or bring the tape measure and let them measure. I will gaurantee you will be harder than ever during this process.