This question caused me alot of probs with my girlfriend. Not relationship-wise but for myself mentally.
I asked her what the biggest she’d seen was, a question I regret.
She says she’s seen some huge ones, though she lost her virginity to me.
This made me really insecure when she estimated 10-11”. I do think this is probably an exageration because she’s not very good at judging size but it still made me uneasy. And the following questions I posed to her just highlighted my insecurities.
Although she told me she doesn’t like HUGE penis’ and doesn’t find them attractive I know that if I were to whip out a 8”x7” she would gasp in a good way. Which is the reason for my training. And I am eventually getting over this insecurity…
You are above average, just accept it as that. Work on it yes but don’t question it with her, I wish I hadn’t.