I'm nearly 7 BPEL, but I don't look it!

Rambone,

I have approached my PE gains like my hair growth when I had Locks.

Started with 1/2 inch
next year they were 4 inches,
4 years later I had a long pony tail down my back and had to
keep my hair wrapped up all the time…

But I never noticed them growing day to day.

By the way do you have a thick Fat Pad?

I have started to go to the gym regularly now and think of cardio
and eating right as part of my PE routine since I have a 1” fat pad.

Rambone
I am at the same length and frequently it measures exactly 7. This keeps me going for a little more.
I feel the same way at times. It just doesn’t look big enough after all this hard work especially in various flacid states. I think it takes time to mentally absorb the real increase. I have increased a full inch since beginning PE and sometimes it is just hard to believe but I can tell by looking in the mirror frequently.
Trust me, 7 is BIG and something to be proud of. Keep up the good work. It’s ok to whine as long as you continue.

start jan 03:
5.9” to 6” bpel, 5.5” girth
current:
6.9” to 7” bpel, 5.75” girth

goal: increase length to 7.5” bpel or nbpel if wife is comfortable with it.
also would like to have more consistent looking flacid length.
now trying to get increase from hanging but don’t want to measure for a few weeks.

I am not really overweight. But I do have a fat pad that takes about 1 inch from my nbpel (maybe less).

Here’s my theory for why you don’t think you look bigger. I’m also about 7 BPEL, so I think we’re mentally coming from the same place.

When I look at my dick now, I see something that looks descent but still slightly small. So, I don’t feel great about it. But what I’m not considering is that, before, when I was 6.5” BPEL with a really small flaccid hang, I didn’t really look at my penis directly. I think I used some kind of psychological averted vision, in a hope to see my penis as bigger than it really was. I didn’t really look at it, head on, as it were, and see it in all it’s (lack of) glory. This was clearly a defense mechanism against my feeling like a total microdick (especially when I weighed 245).

The difference is, now I’m really looking directly at it. I’m thinking, how would this look if I were lingering in the public shower, appearing naked on TV, on in the movies. My standards are higher. Now, I want to be comfortable being naked in prime time.

It’s all about perceptions. My appearance has changed, but so have my standards.

But then I think back. Now, I actually do feel comfortable showering in public. I never used to, out of fear of sheer humiliation. That’s real progress. Although I still feel smallish and am far from reaching my goals, I have to acknowledge that I really have come a long way. I’m sure you have, too.

Good point. I’ve stopped watching porn for many years now, but I can’t get certain images of people like Peter North, John Holmes and Sean Michaels out of my head. I think I’m subconsciously comparing myself to them rather than me a few months back when I was 6.25 BPEL.

Though I don’t feel tiny, I only feel medium. I think my wife thinks I’m medium too. One day when she notices and says that I’m BIG, I might actually believe it. After all, besides my own, her’s is the only other opinion that counts.

I measured last night and was 6.875”. A full eighth inch less than last time. When I measured 7” I was right on the line or even just a tiny bit more. If I took a breath I was a tiny bit less.

Guess what? I don’t care!

I can’t wait to pass 7” but in the meantime I simply enjoy my increased size, jerking off and fucking wifey.

Don’t get wrapped up in your measurements. Focus on staying the path and increasing your size slowly and safely.

Godzilla

Lets face the fact that penises are really not big at all compared to the rest of our bodies. Who ever thought 2” would be a huge gain in something?

I read somewhere that compared to other mammals, humans are huge.

On topic: I don’t think I really can notice my gains, either, but I think it’s partially because I’ve gained quite a bit of girth, so the proportions haven’t changed as much as they would have if I had only gained length. My Freakin’ Fat Pad From Hell (tm) doesn’t help any, either.

RBM

The blue whale’s penis is 92 inches long!

Humans have the biggest dicks of all primates. Compare to gorillas (1/2” erect NBP) and chipanzees (3” erect NBP).

Once humans started walking erect (as opposed to walking with erections), size become much more important for display purposes.

Have you tried this.

Measure your dick with your thumb at the base and your middle finger at the tip. Then take a look at how big your dick really looks.

Or just flip the ^&*% ruler over so you can’t see the numbers. Really, we’re getting pretty fixated on 1/16” here sometimes. Won’t make a bit of difference unless you can find 8-15 other 16ths to go with it, ya know?

Good advice.

Even though I’m not content with my current size, I am very happy that I’m growing (slowly though).