Is It In Yet????

OH! I left out the part about the size of his dick. I eventually got her to show me how big his dick was compared to her hand. She said that she noted how far her dick went up her arm when she was rubbing it. When her middle finger was resting at the base of his dick, his dick crawled about ten inches up her arm (I measured from her finger to the spot she said his dick ended) and she couldn’t come close to wrapping her hand around his dick, she said. She got pretty pissed when I forced her to tell me this, but I think I got more pissed about it.

First off I’d like to say, KOG buddy I hope that lifestyle comes together for you.

My wake up call actually came from a very positive experience.

Growing up all anyone ever talked about was length. And like many guys, upon finding out what the average length was, I whipped out the ruler to see where I measured up. I came in pretty much average at about 6.75”. As the years wore on I had lovers along the way, and none of them made comment (good or bad) about my penile dimensions. This didn’t bother me any. I figured being just merely average, there really wasn’t anything to comment about.

Last year I had a fling with an older woman who’d been recently divorced. I had met her at a party, and though I found her painfully attractive, I was reluctant to make a move because the word around the campfire was that since her divorce she was making up for lost time and bedding every swinging dick in town. On top of that, it was also rumored that she only dated men who were on the well-endowed side.

Well as fate and horniness would have it, I found myself alone with this woman. The proverbial one thing led to the other and we began fooling around. Eventually the time came for the boxers to come off. I had been sort of stalling, because I had this stupid idea that she’d spy my average-sized tool and call the whole deal off.

So I drop the shorts, and out springs my not-quite-fully-erect little friend. To my surprise, she clapped her hands, bounced up and down on the side of the bed and said “Ooh goody! You got a fat one!” I was stunned for a second. In a perfect world I would have cocked one eyebrow up, turned on the Sean Connery voice and said “Sho, do you like what you shee here Miss Moneypenny?” Instead I said “Huh?” To which she grabbed a hold of my willy and said “Your cock, it’s really f*cking thick.” I’ll never forget that moment as long as I live, she had the cutest, most innocent expression on her face, and was jerking my cock in tempo to the syllables as she spoke. But I digress.

As I said before, while growing up, length was the key figure. Only time girth came up is when the occasional girl would mention that besides length a penis had to have decent girth too. Problem is these girls never could put a number on “decent girth”. Plus the high school text books we had didn’t even publish a figure for girth.

Well after listening to this woman, it got me curious. A brief net search, and a wrestling match with a tape measure revealed that my 6.5”+ girth is indeed decently above par. In any case, I continued to enjoy sex with her for a few more months and then we happily and peacefully went our separate ways. Not long ago I was chatting with her online, and she made a joke about me loaning her current boyfriend a little of my girth. To which she added. “Y’know, if you had another inch or two in length, you’d have a real lady pleaser there.” I began me research into PE on that very day.

Looking back on it I realized that the majority of my previous lovers had relatively little sexual history, so they didn’t have much to compare my penis to. The one well-traveled girl I had had, owned a pussy that could double as a nuclear fallout shelter. Another thing going against me, is the fact that I am a big guy. I am 6’5” tall and over 220 pounds. So in proportion to my frame, my penis looks smaller than it really is. For whatever reason this was the first woman to ever appreciate any of my bodily dimensions.

I know that a lot of guys have sought out PE to help them with serious penis size issues. I sincerely wish them the best of luck. I know damn well that I should be thankful for what I have, and I am. Yet I freely admit that I have sought out PE for the shallowest of reasons. Now that I have heard the soft coos and praises of a woman in admiration of my cock, I want to hear more of it. It’s that simple. I want to hear more women worship at the alter of my manhood. It’s vain, it’s shallow, it’s dumb. But it’s the truth.

Boy I hate to follow KOG but here goes. I know there is a lifetime of issues that pushed me this way but this one sticks out in my mind.

My motivation to PE started a couple of years ago. I was about average (maybe less) in size <6X<5. I had been married for about 20 years (I am 41 now) and the wife and I have always enjoyed a great sex life. I was a good lover, I knew it from the wife and the bunch of my wifes friends I had fucked in and after high school (the wife wouldnt date me, so I fucked as many of her friends as I could, way another story). I never got a complaint at least not to my face. I could fuck for an extended period of time, and I would eat any pussy I could get my tongue in, so I was popular. But I was always tortured by a very small flaccid dick. I hated the lockerrooms in school as a kid and later at the gym as an adult. I know the guys in the school locker rooms had seen me naked and had made comments. This was so tortuous to me even though I was receiving accolades from the girls I was fucking and they were telling their friends. The fact that the guys would hear the rumors was very little consolation to the ribbing I was getting to my face and behind my back.

Now fast forward a couple of decades, I had let myself get really out of shape, was about 40-50 lbs overweight and was starting to have ED problems. I could not get a raging hardon without the use of Viagra. I was beginning to have trouble getting a 60% hardon without the use of Viagra. I was shying away from sex with the wife. Our sex life had gone from 2-4 times a week down to about once a month maybe twice a month. And I felt an enormous amount of performance pressure because I couldnt get it up and perform with the dick that I had and the condition I was in, in addition to this the wife was starting to verbalize her discomfort with our lack of sex life and my weight. I decided to join a gym and the wife hired me a personal trainer, a real hottie. I was starting to shed some weight and feel better about myself. One day I decided I would shower at the gym, the gym had private showers as well as an open shower set up. I knew I would be okay. Boy was I wrong. The private showers were being re-grouted that day so I had to shower in the pit with 6 other guys. I had no choice , I had a business meeting that day and didnt have time to go 15 miles back home and shower. Well I finished my workout early and jumped into the shower. I was the only one in there, I would shower quick and get the hell out. Well the fucking floodgates opened and 5 other guys jump in the showers. It was obvious that they all knew each other, they were laughing and joking as we all showered together. It could not have been worse. Here I was still 50 lbs overweight with an acorn for a dick. These guys were all buff and tone and their dicks were a helluva lot bigger than mine. A helluva lot. Now looking back they were probably only 3-4 L and 3-4 G but to me that was ” a helluva lot” different. I was mortified and didnt even feel comfortable enough to reach down and stretch out what I had for a dick. I QUICKLY finished showering and got the hell out of there. I went on to my meeting and decided I would make a difference in my dick size if it meant that I would go for enlargement surgery. I started lurking on the internet and came across a paysite and bought it. I dont even know which one it was. It showed me jelqing. I then came across PEforum I think, and then I joined MassiveMember.com before finding Thunders last year.

I am now a truly different person. I am 40 pounds lighter, work out at the gym EVERYDAY, sometimes twice a day. I have stretched my dick to almost 7.25 BPEL by 5.375 G with a flaccid of 5” virtually all the time. I still yearn for a 10X7 FLACCID but I am completely happy with my erect 7.25”. I will shower at the gym just because I can, not to be a complete asshole but maybe some schmuck like me will become motivated by seeing someone else who is larger and search the internet like I did. I have wanted to tell a hundred guys about this place and have only told one. I have even thought about hanging a sign by the mens urinal — https://www.thundersplace.org GO THERE TODAY or some shit like that. If we are out at the bars I no longer hide in a mens room stall or skooch real tight up against the urinal like I used to. I show my 5” off like I just bought a new muscle car, ready for action. I dont work at it as hard as I have over the past year but I get re-motivated when the old lady is hitting me up for sex all the time. I occasionally get into the CDS when she is close to her period and know that with a little bit more length I will be there on demand. The look on her face and the feel of her pussy when I am in there is a sight to behold. I swear it is. I AM TRULY A DIFFERENT PERSON.

789

I have never heard those words, thankfully, but I believe if I ever did, it would enduce suicidal thoughts! If you are 6 1/2 inches long, and she said is it in yet, she must have one hell of a big hole!!! No offense ment!

LurkMeat

The last time I fucked my X I was 8x6 and she loved it, we always had good sex even when we hated each other. She knows I do PE and I always bust her crotch watching. I know she thinks about my dick and wonders how big it is now. The problem being is my X is f-ing beautiful and has a great pussy, even with the power of the big dick I’m not sure if I could win over the power of the pussy so I keep my distance.

789 and Kog

What can I say those were some great stories, and kog you were one step away from going mental. It’s amazing how fucked up dick size can make a guy.

I think it’s best to remember, that women usually exaggerate in situations like that. I think most likely she had exaggerated to her friends, to seem cool, and then wanted to keep the same story with you.

I am sure this guy is huge, but I bet if you whipped out the ruler, it would be around 9x6.5 or so (very attainable through PE). Remember, if it was 10”x 7 she would say it was 12”x9. That is just how women are.

All I know, is that I will keep PEing, my goal is 8nb, but I have a feeling that it will end up to be 10” x7” nbp after that.

My motivation for PE started in Dec 2003. I’ve always been a bit self conscious about my size, but a little help from the tongue and fingers always got me through, until Dec 8, 2003…..It was finals week at college and a bunch of us were drinking, blowing off steam. Anyways I hook up with this cute sophomore and we go to my place for some after-finals sex. I do the my normal foreplay, kiss her up and down and licking and sucking her clit to orgasm, find her g-spot with my index finger and make her come again. By this time she’s really wet and my dick is really hard and I can’t wait to get in her. I’ve still got my finger inside her, rubbing away. She looks at me and says “Stick it all the way in Baby!” I’m thinking “Oh yeah she’s ready”. So I’m about to get on top and she starts fucking my hand. I’m thinking “WHOA!!!!, Holy Shit!” I’m watching this chick fuck my hand and she gets my whole fucking hand inside her to the wrist!!! She came so fucking hard around my hand, I couldn’t believe it. Now I’ve heard of fisting but never experienced it before this. There’s no way the girth of my penis is going to compete with the girth of my hand (I have large hands), needless to say, I went limp. I was in complete shock. I know she saw the look on my face, I was kinda freaked out. She said she’s had boys do that to her since she was 15 and that was the only way she got really intense orgasms. Then she wanted me to fuck her, I couldn’t do it, not in that. Everytime I think of it, it still freaks me out a little bit. After that, I started researching PE and found Thunders. I looked around for a month before logging on. It was definitely one of the best things I have done for me, it’s purely selfish.

Damn, was my story really that bad that to give it that “how do I folow that” feel? Taking this story and the story of my wife, a story I shared with this board some time ago and for personal reasons feel it would be unwise to do so again, it would seem that I’ve had some shitty luck with women.

I think I was at that critical point, the point at which that place called “mental” has been reached, but I was teetering on the edge of falling back to normal or falling into utter chaos from which I probably would have never recovered. Yeah, the bitch sank my battleship—but I won the war, I think.

Starter7777,

I actually did become suicidal. I’m kind of surprised that I’m alive today, to tell the truth. I’ve tried figuring it out … whatever the it is that kept me from offing myself. I think I was worried that my mother would lose it and kill herself. The idea of one of my parents dying has always horrified me. I couldn’t stand the thought of her being dead, even after I was dead and wouldn’t know anything about it.

My size was 5.75 x 4.5 (same as it was when I first started PE and the same as it was after I lost my gains-but I’m back up to 6 x 4.5 BPEL again—another 1/4 and I’ll be where I was before I lost my gains). It’s a small stick, but it’s enough to get the job done good, providing you know what you’re doing. But, I guess, some shoes are too big for the foot.

Another interesting thing is that, at that moment in my life I considered myself bisexual (I still would today, if I didn’t have a wife) and that experience totally turned me away from the idea of being with men or women. I think my ego and pride are the only things that forced me to approach women (normally, they’ve always approached me—I was a pretty good looking guy before I got married and turned fat). My experience with males is very limited, and that’s something I’ve always regretted. Who knows what the future holds—with PE I may no longer have a reason to be ashamed of a male-companion noticing that I have a small tool, and who says every marriage is meant to be?

pahncard,

Yeah, I’m sure she was adding some to it—I hope. Women are generally terrible at guessing a dick size. For some reason, it still matters to me all these years later that his dick was so big, but I know it is meaningless in my life and no longer has anything to do with anything.

KOG,

I hope you don’t think I was trying to be insulting about your situation, past or present. My comment was based on following someone with such a heartfelt story with one that seemed so lame (mine) in comparison. Your honesty is amazing and is commendable.

7

No, not at all. It’s hard to know how bad certain experiences look to others. When I was typing my story, I felt like I was just your average bummer experience. I know it was more than that to me, but then we tend to see our hardships as being something so terrible—even petty things, sometimes. :) I interpreted your comment just as you meant it.

I would stake two inches of my dick on it.

Besides that, when you are that big, it will look HUGE on your smaller frame, so in many ways you are quite lucky.

::fingers crossed::

Yo Dino,

This thread rocks! I was just reading over some of the previous posts….

You got the tight nut thing too, right? Have you been streatching your sack to make them hang lower? Has this helped? I need to do something about this. On very rare occassion, my balls hang and I love the look and feel of my flaccid. There’s nothing quite like nice low swinging balls…….on one’s self. :) This is usually when my balls are warm and I haven’t showered in a couple of days (rare, occassion, remember?). Don’t ask me why, it just happens this way.

My problem is that I have big nuts, but no flaccid hang. The nuts just inflame the problem.

I think the reason that I started is because I always hear people talk about big dicks. It’s everywhere in the media.

I just want to be able to ignore it all, and feel secure about myself. I will never have sex with anyone but my wife, but she deserves a sexually potent, and confident lover. On the insecurity side, I never want her to be curious about larger dicks either, by having as big as she cares to handle. I joke about going up to 10x7 and she gets slightly annoyed.

I think I just want to be able to chuckle anytime I hear of anybodies pool boy, and how “huge” they are.

I think after I am done with me, I will work on my wife. She has had two kids, and she has gained a little weight, but she is still very hot, and has great legs. She is truly a one of a kind woman, with a great sense of loyalty. I want her to feel confident about herself also, that will only make things better for my sex life too.

Also, I think that my average dick always looked small on my frame, I mean tiny! Now I am starting to look normal at 7”x6”BPEL. I figure it’s gonna have to be 8”nbp at the very least before I feel good about it, in relation to the rest of my body.