Is This Possible?

So, I bought a Fleshlight about 1 week ago. I got it because wifey is over 50 now and she seems to have settled into sex about every 2-3 weeks. If I get any from her more often than that, it is half hearted sex. This is not often enough for me so I bought the Fleshlight. I actually have another reason as well. I figured I could work on my endurance/lasting power. I love toys and I have wanted one of these for years.

I get the thing home and I am using it every day now in the evening bath. It’s GREAT! Feels better than the real thing, in my opinion. I go until I get to that point, back off for a moment and then go again. I am up to about 200 strokes with it now before I cum. We had sex the other night and I tore it up! I counted the strokes and I was up to about 300! Gave it to her good!

But my question is this. My dick has become very itchy inside lately. The kind of itch it gets when it has been stretched and gaining size. I have not been doing any PE at all. Also, my flaccid is quite big all the time. I have to do a couple of dry jelqs and horse440s to satisfy the itch inside.

Do you think I am gaining by edging or ballooning or what ever you guys call that? I have heard of this but really don’t know Let me know what you think. Gaining was not my goal at all with this device, but if that is what’s happening, that’s cool.

You know the expression use it or lose it. I think that definitely applies to your cock. Perhaps from infrequent sex your size had shrunk a bit and with your new toy you have revived it back to normal. Just a guess.

Yeah, you may just be right.

Of all the things one could be thinking about while doing one’s partner, you are counting the strokes ???

I count sometimes too. Sometimes just to see how many to get my wife to cum

Counting strokes while doing your partner seems fairly consistent with the whole tenor of this forum. I don’t necessarily think that we all have the exact same profile in terms of our motivation, but I do think that it is safe to say that a man that as taking a rigorous, scientific(ish) approach to increasing the size of his penis, might also adopt a similar perspective to figuring out how best to make use of his gains. I think that putting a little thought into what it takes to improve the sexual experience of a wife that has become disinterested in sex is a pretty intelligent move. How often do we hear about guys thinking about baseball to prevent themselves from cumming too soon? Why would counting stokes be any different?

In terms of the primary question of the thread, I can’t see why any form of increased expansion of the penis whether it happens as a result of a clamp or a raging hard erection from natural arousal wouldn’t have a similar effect. The clamp is probably a little easier to manage than your wife, but the outcome is similar. It makes for a good field study Vincent … Keep us posted.

Printman

I agree with this