masturbation, jelqing and premature ejaculation

Guys,

When I warmed up my dick and go jelqing, the penis gets way to hard and very fast to. Now, I’m sertanly not a newby and I jelq since 2001 (off and on). The “only” way to defete it, is to ejaculate before my warming up. Then I can controlate the erectionlever very good. Now I don’t see it as a problem to ejeculate before my PE sessions, BUT

I’m suffering with premature ejaculation with intercourse. I know there are several theories about it discussed in this forum. What I think for a long time, is that the 5 times per week masturbation before the PE sessions will do no good for controlling my ejaculationprocess in general. When I PE, normally I ejaculate whithin five minutes (also to keep the PE session short). I think that my dick has become fimalair to ejaculate in such a short time, which (I think) causes the premature problems…

I definitely don’t wanna stop PE, but I also don’t wanna cum so quickly.

-Are there more trained people who has erectionlevel problems while jelqing?
-Are there more people who usses also ejaculation for better controlling the erectionlevel?
-What the hell should I do??

Thank you guys!
Best regards,

Peter

Wow, I feel funning trying to give advice. How about I just put down my experience, you can do what you want with it.

First of all whenever my erection level gets to high during jelqing I just move on to erect bends. That tends to deflate my penis; it doesn’t like getting bent or something.

Second, I never used ejaculation for erection level control. When I stop thinking about sex it tends to go away on its own. I know ever time I try to measure it seems to deflate, you could try that.

Third, you are already doing the right thing by asking your question here at Thunder’s.

Thanks for your advice. I’m going to stop masturbating before PE. And I will use your methods to controle the level.
I’ll keep you posted.

Peter

For the hard-on problem I would just jelq in the shower. This usually works for me because the heat just makes my penis relaxed not stiff. For the premature problem, think of unsexy thoughts. For example.. Go to bangbus.com and find the black homeless guy with no teeth. Now think that the girl (dirty whore) you are fucking has had sex (ewwww) with him. You might just be so disgusted you go limp. Haha just kidding guys. Best of luck to you.

For the last few PE sessions I have masturbated to keep a low level erection. I can also see how this could turn into prem ejaculation. Only having sex a few times I wasn’t too impressed with my time inside :P I m cutting out cuming before I do any exercises as I need to keep control and not want it to become a serious problem. Also you could try edging, that sometimes make me go a little soft if I get really close or you could just build it into your routine.

Either that or do a handstand and get all the blood to the other end of your body :D

Just jelqed without ejaculation before it, witch is the first time in my life!!
De penis was way to hard in the beginning. The bends didn’t help to lower the erection level. Normally I jelq my penis upwards. I’ve just discovered that when I jelq downwards with quite a lot of force, the level drops. So I could jelq the whole 30 minutes session without any problem!

I hope this small step will help me to beat the premature ejaculations problems….

thanks guys!

Peter