My situation

I’m guessing nobody saw the comment and called him on it. I don’t know what ethnicities you all are, but my hunch is that there probably just aren’t that many orientals on this board, which could say something about the average Asian dick size. I’m not “oriental” but my stepfather and brothers are, and yeah, it’s considered an offensive word, though I think what matters more is not the actual word but the intent. Someone who uses politically correct words but is bigoted inside is much worse than someone who uses all the wrong terminology but really doesn’t care about race.

I don’t know how many Asian dicks Gottagrow has seen, but from my personal observation, his comment doesn’t seem to be true. I go to the gym fairly often, and live in an area with a lot of Asian Americans. I only know what they look like soft, though! And my brother has a pretty big dick. He’s about 7” flaccid, by the way. My half-brother, who’s half Asian, is smaller. Luck of the draw, I guess.

If you take two groups of individuals and take the average of each group, there is bound to be some kind of a difference. So I’m sure there are differences ON AVERAGE across the races. The question is whether those differences are significant.

I’m interested in knowing whether kerien has made any progress. My (starting) routine is somewhat similar to his starting routine, though I’m doing a bit less, so hopefully I’ll be seeing at least some slight gains in a few months. He sounds small, but not THAT small. I’ll bet if you’re at a convention—and not just a midget convention—and shake hands with twenty different guys, the chances of one of them being around that size or smaller are pretty high.

Reading your post really did make me bitter - women can be so insensitive and self centered, it makes me sick. I feel for you, but don’t worry, there is time to make a change, and 7 months is definitely enough time to get to a good start. I am 19 years old, and started PE at about 16 due to insecurities about my size (4 3/4” length). I didn’t start a proper, consistant routine until I was 17, and by my seventh month of consistant workouts, I had gained about an inch in length, possibly more (it’s quite difficult to remember).

The exercises do work, it’s just important to be strict with yourself. That means not only working out consistantly, but also working out correctly, and not overdoing it. It’s easy to think “damn, I only have 7 months, I’d better work out twice as hard”, which isn’t the correct logic. Best of luck, feel free to PM me anytime, as I started a similar size to you and am now over 6” (and haven’t PE’d consistantly for about 2 years).

Not to be a sceptic or anything, but since you started at 17, perhaps some of your growth was due to natural growth. I don’t quite remember, but my dick probably didn’t stop growing until I was around 18.

And about your first comment: “Bitches, man!” Yeah, women ARE self-centered. They have the nurturing, reproductive instinct, which also makes them incredibly self-centered because they’re always looking for “resources,” whether they be money, wild berries and game, or deep dickin’. Men are capable of greater evil, but also greater nobility of purpose in life. Women tend to be of middling righteousness all around, in a pragmatic sort of way, without being capable of being especially good or bad.

When I hear stories like Kerien’s I just want to go around to every mean, fat chick and tell her how fat she is, but only if she’s mean. But I’m not that kind of guy.

Swinteck I agree with you. I would say that someone who uses the wrong terminology and doesn’t care about race probably just needs to be told. which is why I phrased it the way I did.

I am neither racist nor politically incorrect- I have used words considered much worse than that but only with people I am close with and then it is used as a term of endearment or a joke, not to hurt or disparage.

when you talk about your starting routine are you talking about the manual excersize or hanging?

I am pretty sure my penis didn’t get any bigger after 16- I did which had the overall efffect of making it look smaller

Kerien,

An incredibly heart moving story. Thanks for having the courage to share that with us.
It not only gets that off your chest but it helps others here with similar situations ( but maybe reluctant to post) to realize that they are not alone in their feelings of inadequacy.
I know its probably been mentioned like a million times already but YGuy had similar starting stats as you and I believe he is currently over 8 as we speak. It could take a few years for you to match results like that and while I’m not saying that his results are duplicable, Yguys results were exceptional and he may been genetically predisposed to achieving such gains however it certainly demonstrates that with effort and perseverance you may be able to achieve something close or acceptable to you and your future partner(s) but of course no guarantees are assured here.
I cant say I really know what you are going through emotionally but I can only imagine that it can get downright depressing. Ive been through other forms of depression so I do know depression.
You are in the right place to find a solution for your problem and we are your brothers.

Remember that we are here to help you and give you the support you need.

Many here have offered to good sound advice and routines.
So you will have a lot to choose from. My advice is to follow the advice of people that have gained substantially as they are more qualified to give it out. Don’t re-invent the wheel. I strongly suggest you look into pumping and jelq combo routine if jelqing alone does not do it for you. You can may find these links here to be of particular interest and pique your curiosity.

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Hi!

Welcome! You have certainly come to the right place. I can really feel you, although I haven´t received those comments in my past. Take a good look around this forum which, in my humble opinion, is the the best around hands down. Read all you can read for a couple of weeks and follow the newbie-instructions while doing it. In a fairly short time, you´ll find a method or modus operandi which feels like something you would want to try. Then you´ll probably discover that you would like to modify this or that method to suit your needs and capabilities. It´s like the old scientific saying; thesis-antithesis-synthase. In other words: you try one thing, draw conclusions from that and move on to a modified or enhanced method (based on your own experiences) and move on to a personalized way of doing what the Vets recommend. Then the thesis-antithesis-synthase starts all over again. I am fairly new at this, but I can only say that this is the ONLY way to gain considerably without forking up thousands of $$ while risking permanent damage from surgical methods. Also, study the supplements department to find out what you might consider work for you. Most importantly; DO NOT LOOSE FAITH! Because this works, although it may take some time. Also, try to boost your ego by having a written mantra that you should read out loud at least once a day. The mantra should consist of the opposites of the negative things in your life at the moment. For example:

-I AM A GOOD PERSON
-I HAVE A LOT TO BRING TO THE TABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP
-I FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF
-I AM INTELLIGENT
-I CAN REACH ANY GOAL I SET IN LIFE (for example: enlarging my penis since that is one of my demons at the moment)
-I KNOW THAT SIZE IS NOT ALL THAT A TRUE WOMAN WANTS IN A RELATIONSHIP (but she will get that anyway, in time)

If you repeat whatever you decide to have in your mantra on a daily basis, and if you TRULY believe it, your inner self (sub-consious) will start to believe it in app. 4-6 weeks. This is called Mental training. It is important to say it out loud while looking at yourself in a mirror. Please, please try it and you will discover that these words will have surpassed your intellect and will have set camp in your HEART. You will se a gradually increased improvement in your self-esteem and your whole demeanor. Women will (unknowingly) pick up on this radient self-confidence and things will gradually get better from there. I guarantee it. Not to mention how it will affect your demeanor in general at work or in situations where you apply for employment etc.

Good luck my friend!

Well, if it was, then this “natural growth” only occured during the time I was practicing PE on a consistant basis, and completely stopped the very day I stopped PE’ing. Work that one out.

I wasn’t really calling women bitches in general, but many women are very insensitive when it comes to issues such as penis size, as Kerien has had to experience first hand (then if you call a woman fat, whether she’s fat or not, she’ll damn near have a breakdown). I didn’t imply that men are better.

Someone has pointed out to me that one of the reasons why the average on Thunders is high is because those who consider themselves big are most likely to post their stats whereas, those people who consider themselves small will just be lurking. As to the latter type of people, please remember, you are not alone. I am intentionally bumping this thread for it is moving and profound. I hope this won’t serve as downer but to show that for every member sporting 7x5 or 8x6, there are people who sport 5x4 but have courage to share their stories.

Many of us are here because we have been victimized by our supposed loved ones and hit us below the belt. Consider this thread as a reminder that we are a brotherhood here and that regardless of your size, we are supportive of you and the commenters in this thread showed just that. I hope Kerien has made progress and that he never had to meet women like those three women that has injured him so badly. Kerien, my heart goes to you. Wherever you are, don’t put up with cock shaming.

“You say in love, there are no rules. Sweetheart, you’re so cruel.” Bono

My children’s mother delighted in cock shaming me.

I stopped touching her for 2 years and eventually left her while discovering this place.

She did me a favour, and for that I will always be grateful.

Use what you are given, and make it your own.

My third marriage has recently ended and I miss her dearly. The idea of her.

I use the energy of the split to fuel my resolve in all the positive areas of my life.

I turned 56 on Wednesday and feel strong and optimistic for my future.

My thanks to this community have no bounds.

Try doing 1 day on 1 day off. It is working for me and many others. From your routines you seem to have been doing the “more is more” approach the whole time. Try “less is more” by taking every other day off.

Yea women are ruthless! But if it wasn’t for a women I would’ve never stumbled upon this site. Arguably the best thing that’s happened to me.