My wife told me she can not .......

So in conclusion:

- guy keeps towel handy
- girl does kegels

Sounds easy enough.

and girl stop fisting herself.

If my wife told me that I would stick it in her ass right away

That’s a pretty big penis, I don’t know why she can’t feel it. Maybe she is playing some head games.

Well, you’re certainly not small, but I can understand if you’d like to have more girth. I see nothing wrong with you aiming for 6.5” or 7”. There are some women that get very wet, and she may be one of them. Also, she probably has a larger than average vagina. A woman can have a vagina that is basically larger in every way, and not just be loose, but just bigger than average (when she’s aroused you’ll really know it). There are some women with a vagina that may appear small when you look at it, but if a small looking vagina feels loose, it is actual looseness from vaginal relaxation. Kegels would help both types of women, especially the woman that has a small vagina that has become loose over time.

Personally, if I were you I’d enjoy experimenting with large toys and objects with that large wet vagina, but then again, I do have some issues.

I forgot to mention it, but I did enjoy some serious belly laughs while reading some of the responses. I’m sure that rednuht wanted serious responses, but the funny responses were extreemely funny!

I am totally serious when I say that if my wife told me that I would stick it in her ass right away and I also think it would be a brilliant opportunity to give her reasons to ponder more cautiously before speaking certain things to his fat boned husband.

Should she say it again, at least I would know she likes it in the ass.

Yeah, I used my hand between strokes to wipe some of the juice off on the sheets.

I know most of the comments were meant to be funny. But it is possible that a woman can get too wet to feel your strokes. It happens with my wife and I all the time. Sure, she’s a bit big and I’m a bit small but we find a way for it to work well for us.

Good oral techniques will give her plenty of sensation, so will good fingering techniques.

The thread on “give her the big O” was helpful in this too. The CAT works wonders when vaginal wall sensation isn’t much. Hitting the right spots makes a big difference. If it works for me and my little dick, I’m sure it will be magical for you with yours.

Or, when you get yours…or before you get started. A hand or two can put a smile or three on her face. Thank God I only have to use one. :)

Buddy had a girlfriend that would get super wet. Even leave a spot on the car seat when making out. We called her Secrecia!

If you’re avg sized or above and the girl can’t feel it, it is not your fault, it is hers. Put the blame on her.

This girl I was seeing recently detailed in the ‘shit test’ thread, was so wet when we fucked that it made it less pleasurable because of lack of friction. Maybe that’s one of the reasons I went limp inside her after awhile.

Edit: Whoohoo!!! 3,000th post!

Congratulations baby!

Look - here’s the deal:

Until she can rule out vaginal muscle weakness (what we refer to oftentimes as looseness) by means of having an ‘adequate’ pc strength - not necessarily mighty, but not a lameass muscle status - then I would say the ‘too wet’ thing doesn’t hold water (pun, but truth). I’d need have her display the pc strength on my (your) fingers. If she can do that adequately, then by all means consider it a situation where she is just a waterfall of sorts.

But you gotta start by assessing the strength of the pc. Tooooo many women (and men in regards to the BC) just let it go as they age. If she’s in her 40’s and in natural decline, it should be one very weak muscle.