Need Motivation

Ever since I reached 6 inches NBP and 5 inches of girth, and now have a slightly bigger than average dick(6.2 length and 5 1/8 girth) I have not been as motivated as much lately. Has this happened to anyone else, and what did you do to get motivated again. My girlfriend does not want me to add much more in girth, she has a TIGHT cat. She told me that I can add more length if i want, but she is happy with it.

Are you not motivated because you have reached a length you are comfortable with? Usually it seems a person loses motivation when no results are obtained at all, or they are pleased with what they have now, even if they wanted to obtain something better.

YES, I am at the point where I am not insecure about HIM anymore, I quess that is my problem.

Why is that considered a problem. If you are secure with “him”, it would seem you are good to go. But then I don’t have a penis. But if I had a goal, but got to a point where I was pleased I would be very pleased until the mood hit me to go futher.

kkevinj

Congratulations on your gains!

It seems that most PE’ers have one of four goals. First, if someone’s “undersized” they can work to get to average or above. Second, you can optimize your size for a particular woman. Third, you can optimize your size for “most” women. Finally, you can refuse to quit until the people at the grocery store start accusing you of try shoplift salamis by hiding them in your pants.

If you and your girl are both happy/content, there’s nothing that says you have to go for more.

Enjoy,

MX

If you want 8” NBP, get with the program!

Or, you can stay at “average” if you don’t want it.

Simple as that.

I had a similar pause when I got to 7” BPEL, and again at 7.5” BPEL. I have since decided that I’m going to get to my goal without stopping again(another inch to go).

Your happy so no problem, when I hit 8 the same thing happen I wasn’t half as nutty or motivated anymore. But now I really want 9 or at least 8.5bp. So I’m working it and also trying to get into excellent shape with none or very little of a fat pad. If you want to get motivated spend more time on the board and get more involved and your will get caught up in the madness that is thunders

Dear Mr. kkevinj,

You have been sadly misinformed, 6.2X5.125 is NOT above average; the average penise is in fact 8X6”s. Penises the size of yours are rarely encountered outside of pedieatric wards. Your girlfriend is lying to you to save your fragile male ego, all the while having mind numbing screaming hot oiled up monkey sex with many of the 12X8 inch REAL men hear at Thunder’s.

Ummm…..did that help????

Thank you all for the help, when i was reading what iamaru wrote, I was laughing to myself, but that is the mentality that I need. I get on thunders almost everyday, but Dino is right, I need to post more. I have some, but not enough. What seems to be my problem is that I USUALLY dry jelq in the mornings, but by the time night comes and its time to stretch, I get too tired, or someone comes over. OK, starting tonight, I am really gonna try and get back on track. I was doing PE like crazy when I was still in the 5” range. When I finally hit 6”, it started dying off slowly but surely. I wish my girl would tell me that she wants it longer. I will ask her to start asking me if HE has grown any, this may help.

By the way, I think it is a big plus if you are able to tell your woman that you do PE. I am lucky that I have a girlfriend that i can tell just about anything to.

Damn you. You had me laughing out loud over here.

Dude,
first off congrats on getting to a size you feel comfortable with, that’s awesome.

Second think about why you may want to be bigger. For you? Your ego? your girlfreind? Just to be frigg’n huge. Maybe you’re already there.

But if you really want more do like Dino said, log on and get caught up in the madness. Reading about everyone wanting more helps keeps me motivated.

Maybe it’s a keeping up with the Jones thing. Anyway whatever you decide good luck, everyone here supports you.

Yea that’s great youre supposedly comfortable with where you are now. “Comfort” is however what holds most people down in their lives….keeps them from acheiving what they truly desire to. Are you sure you arent afraid to see if you can gain more? Fear of the unknown is another thing that keeps people comfortable and from striving for more out of life. WHO are you doing PE for anyway? YOU or HER? You say she’s youre girlfriend…..what happens when you two break up? After youre over her….gonna go find another girl and ask her what size SHE’D like you to be??? Just some thoughts man.

I can see it now, you “Salami hell no, that’s my trout!”. Them, “Well then give us back our trout please.” You again, “Well if you need to see it…” Them, “Holy cripeys, that…that’s your Johnson.” You, “That’s what I have been trying to tell you.” :D

That would be good! Push forward man, attain your goal. You will be happier.

~Q

I see no reason for you to force yoursefl to continue if you are happy for now. Maybe you’ll want to shoot for 8 later on, maybe not. Its your dick, your time, your hands. You are by no means required to continue past what you are happy with. This is a forum for people who have PE as a common bond, not people who are never happy with thier gains.

Take a break. Enjoy what you have achieved, and keep posting here. If you want to go bigger, you know that you have that ability. If not, you have made some new friends.

I envy your ability to be happy with what you have. I could have a 10 inch penis and still be unhappy. I think most people here fall in that category. To see your restraint and ability to be happy just being above average is admirable.

It’s admirable indeed!

But, the thread reads ‘Need Motivation’. I believe he needs a kick in his pants to get him going. However if the thread read ‘Think I am fine’ then I would tell him he should be happy.

So in the mean time, <kicks kkevinj in the pants> get moving boy. :)

If in fact you meant the latter rather than the former then I sincerely apologize and will remove my foot from your ass now. :D

~Q