Track_Star,
That’s pretty much the conclusion I’ve come to. And I will say this - coming from the perspective of a guy who’s been boning the same woman for more than 18 years - the girth gains are the most significant, for both of us.
Don’t get me wrong, the “CDS Bonanza” is a mind-blowing experience for both of us, but it’s not a sure thing. At my present length & her pelvic configuration, it’s usually just an “occasional” blast for us (coming at specific intervals of her cycle, as luvdadus explained). But the girth gains are an each-and-every-time rage for us.
If you consider the *average* penis to be about 6 x 4.8, that’s only about 11 cubic inches. That size could, of course, bring pleasure to the vast majority of women - but when the gals are wet & dilated, it’s more of a “sliding in and out” kind of pleasure. If that’s the biggest size that a particular woman ever had, she wouldn’t think she was missing anything. And even when I met my wife (at 6.5 x 5.25), that’s the type of pleasure we always had - the “sliding in an out,” even though at 14.26 cubic inches, I was still almost 30% bigger than the *average* guy.
But after a stretch of PE, which includes nearly 1” of EG gains, sex is a totally different animal for both of us. Even when my wife is dripping wet - for example, right after I finger her off - she’s still a snug fit. There’s no “sliding in and out,” I’m actually pulling her inside and out. It is an extremely intense feeling for both of us when I’m rattling her innards. For all these years, that’s something that neither of us had ever experienced (even at 5.25” EG, I had the thickest of the 3 cocks she’s ever had in her life). At my present size (7.72 x 6.2 midshaft, 6.7 base), I’m by far the fattest piece of beef she’s ever had.
And in the past, I could even screw her when she was just “a little wet.” Now, that’s impossible. Besides, a woman is most receptive to enjoying sex when she’s heavily aroused - which also makes it a perfect fit for both of us. When we go a while without sex, it’s almost like she forgot how good it was, because when we do screw, she’ll bone me for 2 or 3 days in a row - until her pussy is aching (which just happened now - 4 screws in 3 days).
My wife and I have had a very rocky past 2.5 years, which had nothing to do with sex. Ironically, I think my bigger & better beefstick is actually what’s kept us together so far (through this bad period). Even though we’re 39, the sex is far better for us than when we were 21; something I never would’ve imagined. She’s talked about leaving me a bunch of times (mid-life crisis, dissatisfaction with our lives, clinical depression, etc.). But then she’ll remember my hammer, and start playing with it.
It looks like we’re going to split in the near future, but I’m waiting to see if her upcoming operation (removal of a large & growing thyroid tumor, and a complete thyroidectomy), as well as the readjusting of her medications, will improve her mental state, allowing us to seriously work on this 18-year marriage - which includes 4 kids.
But she has made a number of very telling statements - such as she expects sex from me at least 1-2 times per week, after we’ve split. Now, that is fucked up and unsettling, but it also indicates several things to me. She probably suspects that she ain’t gonna find a better fuck buddy out there. Furthermore, she’s allergic to latex (severe reactions with condoms), and as a nurse, she is well versed (and afraid of) STDs. So she doesn’t really have many options, obviously. I’ve told her that when she throws me out, my kyack goes with me - and that results in her having a bout of depression.
Now, if she does leave me, life goes on. I survived a far worse loss with the cancer death of my mother when I was still a teenager. I survived that; albeit, somewhat worse for the wear. But the thought that this woman I’m with feels so addicted to my beefstick, that even after she leaves me, she still expects to get pounded by it is pretty damn satisfying (and a testament to the wonderous benefits of PE). This is why I suspect that if she does leave, she won’t be gone long.
Anyway, if it does turn out that she leaves and eventually does meet someone she really cares about, that poor bastard will have a rough act to follow. If all he can do is “slide in and out,” she certainly wouldn’t say anything to him about his weinie (she’s definitely not that type), but she’ll sure notice the difference - and no doubt complain to her girlfriends how her ex was such an “asshole,” but a helluva fuck. :) :) :)
I know the horse cocks are out there, but statistically rare. The odds of her finding an adequate replacement for my 23.62 cubic inches of fuckbeef (BP) are rather remote. I don’t mean to sound bitter, but as a guy who was always self-conscious about his own size for many years, it’s a bittersweet pleasure to be on the other end of the equation. If she does find “Mr. Average” - which is more than an 80% chance - she will have been used to getting hit with TWICE the crotch meat that he can offer. And if he’s dumb enough to ask, she may or may not break the bad news to him. But, most importantly, SHE will feel her loss.
And I’m gonna get even bigger! :)
- w a d