On and Off

I’m not sure I’ve titled this thread properly, but I’m having such mixed feelings about my PEing for the past month or so. I’ve definitely regained some lost length back to my previous max (6.85) and it’s much more cemented than ever before. But I’m feeling like I’m hitting a brick wall now.

It’s a long, slow process, I’m sure. But seeing some guys here posting their 7-9ers makes me wish I were that big too and a bit discontent with what I have and how long it’s taking me to break my previous maximun size.

My wife hasn’t really commented on the fact that in a short time (1st week) I went from 6.25 BPEL to 6.85 BPEL. I think she’s definitely enjoying it, but I don’t think she’s noticed it. If it takes me a year to gain another inch, gradually, I wonder if she’ll notice it then if/when I’m 7.85 BPEL-since it’s so gradual. I suppose it doesn’t matter to her nearly as much as it does to me, but I just want to WOW her and I know that if I were about 8-9 she’d be wowed.

Anyone have any words of encouragement for me?

Thanks!
Rambone

Thats what I want to do for my gf too, when I see her again in about a month, and then another month later when we go back to uni (we met at uni but live at opposite ends of the country). I started during term time, though, and gained just over half an inch in two months, but I don’t think she noticed either. And like you, Rambone, I feel my gains are slowing.

I think the trick I’m going to try to wow my gf is to add about 0.5” more girth before I go back, so at least she’ll feel the stretch more. And it’ll also mean my volume has increased considerably (small gains in girth add more to volume than small gains in length). Then i’ll go flat out with length for a year or until I’m 8.5” bp with some girth maintenance.

Oh and I also want my veins to be a lot more pronounced, hoping that will add to the look of a huge throbbing extra hard unit, so she says wow when she sees it.

Maybe you should try that too, unless you already have a large enough girth & veins. Otherwise, just stick at it. Or, if like me you don’t share your PE with her, bring up the conversation of penis size somehow, and then very subtly get her to measure it. Then do the same thing when you’ve grown some! That’s what I’m going to do. I’ve already been measured at 7” by my gf, and hopefully I’ll be 7.5” when she next measures me! :D

Good luck, and I’m sure you’ll continue to grow and eventually “wow” her! :)

Did you show her how to measure BPEL?

She always says I’m like 7 or 8 but I don’t think she knows what she’s talking about. Once she measured me from the balls up and I looked like I was 8 or 9. I’m afraid when she measures me she’ll be like,

“Ohh… it’s not even 7!” (BP I’m 6.85 but non-bp I’m like 6-6.25).

I don’t want her to measure untill I’m at least 7 NBPEL.

I had thought about working on girth too. That will just make me look fatter and meatier, which I think should be appealing to her as well.

Rambone

Well, she measured with her hands. Compared it to the distance between thumb and forefinger outstretched (L shape) and then measured that later because she didn’t have a ruler at the time. So obviously there was room for error, because I was only 6.5” at the time BP! :D

Just make sure the ruler is nowhere to be found or measure down the side bone pressed, that should add a little more length. Anyway, 6.85” is over average, so I’m sure she wouldn’t mind you being under 7”. Besides, when you then measure later on, you’ll be even bigger than if you first measured at 7”. And you could also say your not as hard as usual for some reason or something. Or you could measure the underside - that is the visible length when erect if you point up, afterall ;)

Personally, I’m still not sure if I want to impress my gf with extra length or with the extra tightness from more girth. Really I want both - the length visually and the girth “internally”! I guess we can only gain what our bodies will allow us to, but we should be happy ofthe fact that we are getting bigger dicks, whereas most guys think they are stuck with what they have.

Sounds to me you both hit somewhat of a plateau. Happens all the time. I suggest to increase intensity, but not neccessarily the length of the workouts. Choose some exercises higher in intensity like ULIs, dry jelqs or squeezes.

Add some patience and you should be good to go.

Rambone and Rifor,

I was also desperate for my wife to notice my new size before she busted me getting ready to hang…but it was not to be!

She was definitely enjoying herself more and I had gained more than an inch (from memory, I would have to check to be sure) and still she did not notice.

I guess it is because what women, in their right mind, would even think that their man’s dick was getting bigger! I mean, according to the medical fraternity, it is impossible.

Even Horsehung’s wife has not commented on his gains!

Well Guys.I would NEVER have my gf measure my unit! For one reason and one reason only!! They don’t have a clue to size, when they see your dick there are probably like use with boobs mesmerized! They are not putting ruler by it in there mind. If they measure by anything, it’s how much pleasure they feel. The more pleasure they feel the bigger they think you are.

For example my ex told her best friend that I was 8in. Witch I am clearly not! But she also told her I was the best she’s had. She also told her best friend that her first was bigger at 9 in. But it was too big and hurt. Now just by looking and remembering what other guys penises looked like by comparing mine to his in her memory she knew he had to be bigger but didn’t know how to judge mine by it. And by no means will either one of them get a ruler by my penis ever!

I’ve read Andrew’s story and he gained close to .75 in in three weeks I was amazed his wife didn’t know what was going on! I remember doing my gf in high school doggie style and in the middle of it she asked me if I got bigger!! I don’t think I did but since I was probably 17 I might of. I just think I was turned on more because I was pulling her hair and stuff. Needless to say I felt good that day.

So if you want to impress your girls, Rifor since you haven’t seen your gf in like 3 months of PEing just pick up a book the shows you the deepest penetration positions during sex. Rambone.well for a couple of weeks you can have sex and not but it all the way in by either not thrusting all the way or by putting your hand in front of her box and slip it through your fingers so you can’t go in all the way. Then one day POW let her have it. Or you can take the little blue pill like I do sometimes now and give her a harder erection to deal with.

Btw Rifor I admire you for having a slightly bigger unit all the way around than me and making it grow slow and steady like I wish I could.

And Andrew I admire you too for starting with a smaller unit than me and turning it into something I wish I had
Later guys

Thanks G!

There is no reason why you can’t reach your goal.

Half the battle is believing!

Rambone and Rifor,

I’m a newbie to this forum and have been PEing for three months. For whatever it’s worth, I’ll relay an experience I had recently with my girlfriend.

My starting stats were 7.0 BPEL and 5.5 EG (midshaft). My routine has consisted of mainly jelqing and manual stretching. I experimented with clamping with mixed results. As I sit at my desk typing, I am hanging with four doughnut golf weights attached with an Ace bandage. I just bought them today at Walmart and it feels great! I have also been taking 3000 mg of Arginine daily for about two months.

I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for approximately four months. We have an active and satisfying sex life and frequently have marathon sex sessions lasting more than a few hours at a time. We are both in our mid-thirties and are workout fanatics so our cardio conditioning is adequate for these intense sessions.

She’s known about my PE quest since the start and we talk about it quite frequently. She thinks I’m crazy and when she was first briefed on it, she just kind of shrugged it off as a silly guy thing.

Well, like I said, I’ve been PEing for about three months and I have not taken any measurements since my initial. About a week ago, after returning from a trip, my girlfriend and I were making love. As I slid it into her, she murmured something like, “You feel really good…”. On my end, I felt like her vagina was a little tighter and shorter. I was caught up in the moment and it was dark so eventually blew it off and enjoyed the rest of the lovemaking.

Afterwards, we talked about it and she relayed to me that I especially felt thicker. I half thought it was a fluke but hoped it wasn’t.

The next day, deja vu all over again. As I slid it into her, she felt just as snug. As pushed into her deeper, I watched her eyes roll back into her head and of all things, I started to uncontrollably giggle. I’m sorry, but it was pure elation, that all the hard work was paying off! This time I had to do a quick measurement, so to her surprise, I pulled out the tape measure I had hid nearby. As I looked down at my erect penis I must say that on first impression it did look definitely thicker and a little longer. I wrapped the tape measure around him and what the…it measured a hair over 6”. I quickly took another measurement for confirmation and then happily ran back to finish the task at hand.

This is when it gets even better. As we got back into it, we got into one of our standard positions and as I entered her again I swear that I could feel the glan push against the top of her cervix. In the past, the best I could do was kind of clip at it. This time I could really feel my glan pushing into her. I kept at it and gave her what I am fairly certain was an epicenter orgasm. I might be wrong but I believe the hotspot that I refer to as the epicenter is located right above the entry to the cervix. Why am I so sure of the landmarks? Because I had been previously giving her loads of epicenter orgasms by fisting. As I like to hit other hotspots in her vagina by manipulating and contorting my hand, I am intimately familiar with the landmarks of that region. In the past, I could give her vaginal orgasms with my penis but never an epicenter.

Needless to say, my girlfriend is now a true believer. As a newbie, I don’t know if I could have experienced a growth spurt like that but I will say this motivates me even more to train, and at the least, cement the gains that I have experienced.

MOTO

Yeah, thanks a lot G! :D

I agree, half the battle is believing. If you believe more you’re more likely to try harder. Because I’m not gaining as fast now I feel I might be losing faith slightly and my sessions have become more sporadic - its a vicious circle :( . However, I also know that I can’t keep gaining with the newbie like gains I have been getting so far (firstly from being a newbie, then after taking about a months break). But knowing that doesn’t help really. But its ok now after reading this thread because I’m going to go upstairs in a little while and do a more intense session, like Uncut4Big said.

Thanks Uncut!

Perhaps thats what you need to do to see better gains, G._Lantern, unless your already being quite intensive. In that case maybe a break is needed, or a complete change in routine to surprise your dick. Whatever happens I’m sure you’ll get to your magical size! :)