penis length & vaginal depth

Ok,

I guess I’ll have to weigh in on this one - again.

Yes we all acknowlege that most women would be satisfied as long as the penis is functional and not too small. I think that many of us here already know and accept that fact. I think that many of us are out to optimize the pleasure we give our lovers while at the same time doing something for our own self confidence issues. Ask a woman the following question:

If you were building an ideal lover, and you already had installed all the other things you needed or wanted please choose the penis you would install?:

5.0x4.5

5.5x4.5

6.0x5.0

6.5x5.25

7.0x5.5

7.5x5.75

8.0x6.0

8.5x6.5

9.0x7.0

Guess what? no one responds with less than 6.0x5.0

The point is what many of us are getting at is the size issue in isolation. Yes we take it for granted that a guy that is skilled with 6x5 may satisfy a woman more than a clod with 8.5x6. Both men can better themselves, one by simply learning some sexual technique and how to deal with women in general. The other by applying pe techniques. Now to ronin_oz original concerns.

I know my wifes optimal depth is 6.5” (by watching how deep she put in an 8” dildo- she left 1.5” unused). My bpel is 7.5”

At certain times of the month she is shallow and more care needs to be taken not to bang the cervix at an uncomfortable angle. Other times of the month this is not much of an issue. Keep in mind that not all of one’s bpel goes in, this depends on position and how fat one is, etc. I assume that about 6.75 of my unit can go in if I grind hard and press deep. but maybe I don’t want to have to struggle that hard to get to optimal depth in order to stimulate the cul de sac? I find the cds stimulation to have been a very useful part of enhancing our lovemaking and it requires a certain amount of length to do it. 5 or 6” in length is not gonna cut it if this is what you are after. If you don’t care about this, if g-spot and clitoral stimulation is your wife or gf’s cup of tea then go for girth or finger and tongue tricks. I do think that for the guys that have been succesful in enlarging thier dicks that they should take care not to rely too much on simply arriving at bed with your big dick, she might get bored with that after a while even if at first its all you need.

meh…right now im 5.75x4.5…i know it can please some women but i want to end up with a 7.5x5.5 when im done

You from cajun country or ya just yankin’ my chain?

btw I started out with 5.875x4.875 and I’m now 7.500x5.375

So what you want is very do-able.

meh…im just yankin’ ya chain

I assume you speak in BP terms right??

Yes all measurements I mentioned are bone pressed.

Again, I have to say that vaginal depth is all over the place. My wife has had 3 kids and has a deep vagina. It wasn’t until I hit 7” EL that I could reach the bottom of ber vagina. When I was 5.5, I never came close. Now, at 7.5+, I hit the bottom all the time. Also, since I started jelqing again and my girth has increased to over 6, I am stretching her out again.

For the first time in our marriage, she admitted recently that she liked “the new me”. I asked her why she didn’t have that opinion when I first told her about my PE (at that time she gave me the canned answer that she was happy with me the way I was) and she said that she didn’t think it was possible to grow a bigger one and she didn’t want me to feel bad.

She did caution me that if I get much bigger it may start to become uncomfortable. I told her that Bigger and DLD had over 10 inches and their women really liked it. She refused to believe that any woman could take one that big. I told her that I have heard that women can take it that size and she replied “Not this woman!”

In any case, the point of all this is that women vary. If you are committed to a marriage or a monogomous relationship, your size should match your mate. If you are playing the field, then some women will be able to take more than others.

Hey luv, I’m from cajun country and I ain’t yankin’ your chain either. Even south of Thibodaux some number of miles. I’m out of state at college right now though. I’m losing my accent slightly. I guess that comes with furthering my education a little also.

Well guys, I was broken by a large cunt (labia and all, heck it looks more womanly to me, more is there *smiling), my second was large, and now with a lil experience, I know that i like em to be able to accomodate. My last 3 lovers had smaller and average cunts……they were less fun. I like to pleasure them in more ways than one…..hehe…. I prefer women that enjoy that “full feelin” cause I like seen it and givin’ it. Nothin’ turns me on more no matter what’s fillin’ her.

I am shootin for a large thick cock, and I sure don’t care about gettin head. I hope that a few women would not like my girth, that means that the looser women will. Havin a large cock will help me find a loose match.

Oh and I am diong this for myself. I love challenges and this one will be soooo rewarding! I would never hurt a woman though. I am a gentlmen and would always put her first. I would definitely rather have more than enough. As mention so many times, there are many more important factors in pleasing a woman sexually than size. Nevertheless, It is my belief that size can give a stronger orgasm( at least it will feel that way!). A Volswagon would get you to work just fine, but what would you really enjoy driving?

I had one experience many years back with a brief encounter that I have never forgotten. I was 6 1/4 length then and had hooked up with this woman I met. I didn’t know she was married because she lied about it to me .She was getting back at her husband because he was cheating on her. I found out after I had sex with her on two weekends.

She was on top and after a couple of minutes suddenly it felt like the head of my penis pushed into or around something. She had been simply quietly riding me but the very moment I felt it she gasped and humped wildly for just a few seconds. What had happened had gone away because I couldn’t feel it after a few seconds and she obviously couldn’t either because she calmed right back down. I have never had this experience with any other woman, even now at almost 7 1/4.

I’m wondering if she wasn’t as deep as most women and if I had actually pushed around the cervix into the cds just for a moment. I wonder if at that time she gasped and humped wildly for a few seconds if she expanded from her extra excitement and therefore it was out of reach for me once again?

If this is the kind of reaction a guy can get when he’s long enough to enter the cds I am really looking forward to getting as long as I can. Those few seconds were by far the most excited I’ve ever had a woman become during intercourse. She went bezerk at that moment. I wish I had been at least the length I am now when I was with her. It might have been really wild those weekends.

I’ve only been with my current girlfriend since being 7 1/4. I was 6 1/4 when I met her. I’m now able to touch her cervix. She has been with guys longer than I am now and one guy much smaller that she says she didn’t even know he was in her. One long guy found his way into her cds. She won’t give me details so I think I know why .

I’m wondering if she wasn’t as deep as most women and if I had actually pushed around the cervix into the cds just for a moment.>>

Yeah, sounds like it.

>>I wonder if at that time she gasped and humped wildly for a few seconds if she expanded from her extra excitement and therefore it was out of reach for me once again?>>

At your current size you should be able to get there again, at least at certain times of the month. (Right after and just before her periods).
Try her on top, or missionary with her legs (or at least one of them) hooked oever your shoulders.

Probably it stayed just where she wanted it if she was on top.

Well this was with a woman from years ago. My girlfriend is deeper because even though I can touch her cervix now I can’t cause her any pain. I’m not reaching her cds from the positions you mentioned. I plan on getting there with PE though.

I found that from talking to several female friends of mine a bigger dick is in general more appealing to women, despite of what they always tend to say that size doesn’t really matter.

It also makes it easier to engage in positions that somewhat require a longer/thicker cock.

Just my two cents….

This whole CDS thing is new to me - probably since I never hit it before. But at 7 1/4 now, BP, I’m sure I’ve hit my wife’s CDS a few times (as luvdadus said, at certain times of the month).

We’ve always had good sex, and she’s always gotten off….yada yada yada. But recently, she went looney a few times. It was when I was really hard, hitting really deep, in the missionary position.

She opened her mouth wide, close her eyes, and made loud gasping cries - something she’s never done before (she’s a little uptight from her Catholic upbringing).

At first I thought she was jerking my chain, acting weird. But then I realized that her response had been spontaneous & genuine. I was really suprised….it took 17 years to get that from her.

I can’t wait until I nail down 1 more inch, so that I should be pretty consistent in driving her looney. :)