Positive comments at 7nbp x 5.5

No, the shape has nothing to do with it. What does matter is having your lady ready for deep penetration. If you are going to work the “deep spot” like the anterior and or the posterior fornix (cul de sac), sufficient mental and biological stimulation must take place first (typically called foreplay). The pain is usually caused by poking the cervix. You should never allow that to happen. When done properly, with the right kind of foreplay and preparation, the cervix and attached uterus actually will move out of place for free access to the entire cul de sac. If not fully ready than a slow and gentle nudge by the tip end of your penis will cause the female parts to gently rotate and literally move out of place. Then you and she can play in the beautiful and exciting cul de sac. Yes, hard pumping, deep thrusting is allowed when the time is right!

I guess my wife is always “ready” because she takes all of me with little or no fuss.

For the first while any way

I’m not sure what you’re expecting to hear. You’re a ‘big’ guy I suppose. Bigger than me at least. However, I think black women would disagree. For them, I’d say you’re about average.

I’m black, so I know that my penis has definitely been considered on the small range despite it being quite a bit larger than the average (in both length and much larger in girth).

Just my perspective, not trying to dampen your pride. I’m 6.25x5.8 btw

So were saying the black average is 8x6?

No, I don’t think so, but it just seems that black women have higher expectations of men when it comes to penis size. I’m from America, so I don’t know if its a country bias, or just insecurities built up from my experiences.

It’s not a negative comment. Just my opinion, which I thought the poster would want to here. Well, just know that no matter how large you get, there is always someone larger, so don’t let the size of your penis go to your head.

I agree with your last comment.

Sorry, black women aren’t my taste.

I don’t do PE for any woman, my wife included, so I don’t actually care that my wife doesn’t make dick comments.

I would actually be somewhat taken aback if she did.

Where my puzzlement lies is in that she doesn’t seem to notice the extra length and girth in time I’ve known her.

And what’s your size in comparison to mine got to do with anything at all?

And where is written that black women only have sex with black dudes? :confused:

Yeah I think it is a matter of insecurities built on your personal experience.

It’s a simple mechanism in conversation; ad hominem comments tend to elicit negative comments, direct or otherwise in response.

Regarding insecurities, mine have certainly been diminished in the time I’ve been here, not only by the results I’ve got but from the support from other like-minded men here.

But having a big fat cock makes me smile each and every day.

I am 7.5” bp x 6” mid, and my wife hasn’t noticed. She’s not really very generous with her comments anyway. I tell her she’s beautiful almost every day, she might say something to me on average once a month. Like you look handsome. Her kids are her biggest priority sadly. However, one day last month she said a new pair of pants we shopped for ” made my dick look big”. What the heck, am I reading into that too much it “makes” it look big? It was the pants I guess. :( my new goal is going to be 9”x 6.5”, now that should make her say it!

I’m married to a woman who is devoted to her bored, uninterested children as well.

Nothing we can do to change that.

My wife has said nothing about my size either.

I stopped needing her approval.

I think we put too much pressure on ourselves to get specific praise for things, and forget that this is a wife, not a mother.

Well said.

I’m 7.65 x 5.5.

For reference; most of these are Chinese girls. I’ve gotten comments from some, none from others. I think it just depends on the girl; how she feels about you, what she’s experienced, etc. I had one girl insist it was the size of her forarm (not even close). Another kept repeating how huge it was and was turned on by it. A couple of others said nothing at all. I think it’s more an emotional thing (how she feels about you, what shes feeling at the time), or perhaps personal fetish than something empirical that girls study. Actually, even if you’re swinging an elephant trunk dick between your legs and you are with a reticent girl, you still won’t get any comments (maybe only cries of pain)? Just one more reason to PE for yourself, not for girls. Something to keep in mind for any guy in any size range.

Precisely. We have very little clue what others are thinking unless we ask, and who in their right mind is going to ask a girl about their dick if they have any chance of continuing with what they hope will occur.

Women do not like signals of weakness, insecurity or uncertainty.

Smile and wave.

You’re right a-unit, I’ve been curious to ask an ex-gf what she thought about my size, but know that it’s something out of character for me, and think she would use it to make me feel more insecure, which is not a power I want to give any woman. But damn, I really would like to ask!