Privacy and excuses for PE

MELVIN: Im in agreement with fello PEers that as far as wife or girl friend go , why hide what your doing , ive been at this about 2 yrs and i have kept my wife informed on what I am doing, she can see the increases as they happen and some times she watches witch inturn kinda turn her on and answers most of her questions, she does give me private time 5 nights a week to do my current hanging and pumping routine , she has helped me find my components for my new wench hanger, so be up front you might be surprized. Thanks Steel

I began PE back in July of this year and I did not want anyone to know. I did plan to tell my wife, but like other married men in this forum, I wanted to have some size before I opened up about my secret world. I wanted to hear my wife say I was bigger first. I didn’t want to hear negative things about PE like that it really doesn’t work and hear the phrase “your just fine the way you are.”

I first purchased the Penimaster because I could wear it at work and sometimes at home without anyone knowing what I was doing. I discovered this forum through the PM site and began jelqing and then added Ulis and Horses to my routine. The only secret place was the shower and sometimes a bathroom break here and there. My kids are young (under 8) and wouldn’t suspect anything if I went to the can for a little bit while the wife was shopping.

I never got to tell my wife because we divorced a few months ago. She was having an affair for a year. I am glad I did not tell her now because the news would have been out in the rumor mill. My new size was her Christmas present that she’ll never know about. I gained an inch in length and 1/2 inch in girth so far.

Now I have all the privacy I want and bought a Bib Hanger and PE while I read this forum. Though I would not have traded this freedom for my family.

Ophio

Sorry about your situation. I hope the numbmness from the PEnismaster has completely gone away. You were a bit crazy then. Good luck with the hanging.

I dont live with my girlfriend and only see her at weekends, and often a few days after/before the weekend due to my loose uni schedule. I do normally have a great deal of time for PE in the week. As long as my housemates stay away!

I was just thinking of telling her next week, as there wouldnt be any time for my routine as I will be there for 4 days. I dont want to miss four days of PE training! So I may have to tell her, I have coped before having two days off but I am trying to make a real good go of PE, as this is only my third week and I am very determined.

twatteaser,

My numbness from the PM is completely gone. I am a wiser man now and listen to the body. I do enjoy hanging and use the PM less now but still incorporate it into my routine. Thanks for helping me through that crazy time.

I will make it through this divorce and I look forward to using my new and improved tool with someone who will appreciate it.

By the way, how tall are you Twat? From your correspondence you hint at your giant stature. I am 6’ 2”

Ophio

I’ve been PE-ing for over 2 years now, gained an inch in length and half an inch in girth, and my wife hasn’t noticed, or at least said she has. No incentive to tell her just yet, then …..

jelq2grow, thought you grew more than an inch??

gmox - it’s more than an inch if I round down at the beginning and up at the end - but I’m trying to err on the conservative side. When it’s an inch and a half I’ll start saying I gained an inch and a quarter, OK? :D

melvin

be careful. I whole heartedly endorse telling a wife or live in gf. I’m not sure I’d tell a just plain gf. If you break up you’ll get a rep as a deluded wanker.

Agreed. If you don’t see the relationship as one that has some real potential don’t bother. I think the keyword is “love”. And not “love” as in “I love this prime rib”.

No problem, glad I could help. I wish you good luck on finding new recipient’s to torture with your tool. I am 7’0” in a pair of normal shoes or sneaks.

Very True, I think i would rather just skip PE while rather than tell her! reckon i will have to take a light PE break thru christmas anyway due to being at my parents or with my girlfriend most of the time.

Hi melvin, to be honest, i don’t think a 4 day break would do harm, I noticed my first gain in girth when i had a 4 day rest! could luck with your gains!!!