Question about cockrings

I am new to the cockring thing. The one I have isn’t really a “ring” but made out of rubber and has to “ties” on the end to control how tight or loose you want.
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Now, the one I have I believe can be used to go behind the balls as well, but in those pictures, I did not use it for that.

Now, when using it on the shaft itself, is it suppose to be over smooth skin only, or do you want it as far back against your base as possible?

Do I appear to be wearing my correctly?

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Question.

If you have the cockring adjusted with the right amount of pressue, then the erection / plumpness “should” be able to go down, and if so, then that is equivalent to allowing “fresh blood” to enter, right?

from what I’ve read, you want the ring to hold blood in for a longer period of time, but it should be loose enough for new blood to enter and older to leave as well.

I put mine under the balls and not on just the shaft and as far back as possible. I dont know if im correct but it seems that if you dont put it far back you might end up with a thinner base.

From you’re pictures, it seems that you may have it a little too tight. Im not exactly sure. I think it really depends on how long you’re wearing it. In my case, I wear mine all day, so it seem to be looser that what yours is.

Just posted some more pictures
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You might read JMeister’s thread about them.

I have another question.

The cockring that I am using when placed at the base of the shaft doesn’t necessarily “cause” me to start getting swollen or hard, especially if I put it on while completely limp.

For purposes of wearing a cockring throughout an entire day, should it be the type that is loose enough that you will be completely limp at times, but tight enough so that if you happen to start getting wood, it will just increase the sensation and erection level?

I wore mine tonight for about 5 hours and most of the time, I must say I was mostly limp, not even a little “plumped up from wearing it”. The only time it got plump was when I tried to get hard a little.

So I guess my question is, is mine still too lose, or does mine sound like the size that is right for wearing it throughout the day. I just don’t know if by simply putting it on, it should be plumping my dick up automatically.

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When I’m having sex, I wear a 2” ring. However, the ring I wear during the day is a 1.85”. It’s snug enough to help keep things plumbed up throughout the day. So, just try a size smaller and see if that works for you.

john,

The ring in your picture is designed to be used behind the balls. I use rings most of the time myself when having sex. Started out with a push-button leather ring behind the balls, and the I went on to try all kinds of other rings. Now I only use metal rings; they’re absolutely hygienic, and look much better than any other type of rings. The perfect seamless roundness also makes them smooth and comfortable to wear.

To attach a metal ring behind the balls, do like this: Pull the sack skin through, then ball 1 and ball 2. From there you bend down your flaccis or semi-flaccid dick through the ring. It’s very easy when you’ve done it just a couple of times. I do it in a matter of 10-20 seconds now, eyes closed.

Check out the link avocet8 posted. Like JMeister, I’m a metal ring affeccionado. Actually, women seem mildly fascinated with them too; that’s a whole lot more than than they seem to fancy worn out leather or rubber rings.

Yeah, Ideal, I love my metal ring and wear it all day after a good PE session. I’ve thought about it, but haven’t gotten around to wearing it during sex yet. So how does everything compare — ring versus ringless? I’ve heard mixed messages about whether you shoud bust a nut with it on. What have you found?

My God the man wrote a book on the subject!

You guys wear these things all day? Your not worried about cutting off the circulation?

I have sex with them all the time. Sex isn’t quite as good in a sense. But better in another sense(makes your dick bigger). I like to do the first half without the ring. Then once she’s nice and warmed up slap that sucker on. She gets two dicks for the price of one.

What I have found is if you are having sex with these things on you need to squeeze your balls from time to time. To get fresh blood in or you loose some feeling.

Ideal, the white cockring or the red loops?

Brian, well, when I had sex with the white cockring, I was able to still shoot a load. I mean, your cock feels bigger because more blood is trapped inside, but for me, because I am uncut, I was VERY sensitive. I am surprised I lasted as long with it on as I did (about 30 minutes).

The white one I have I think I am already stretching out, so maybe that is the kind that also goes behind the balls because it’s only 2 days old and when I put it on, I don’t feel like it puts enough restriction on my shaft to really plump it up.

Tonight, I did a pretty good PE session and when I was done, I decided to throw my red loop cockring on (shaft only) and tightened it just enough that it would plump it up, but loose enough so it could go flaccid if it wanted. After about 2 hours, I felt really really fat, even when it was mostly limp. It was weird. It wasn’t numb, but it was like I gave my dick such a workover tonight that the “feeling” I got almost resembled that as if you had a blister with fluid inside and you can touch it, and though you can feel the touch, it’s not as strong as if it was just your normal skin. Kinda weird, but I don’t htink it had to do with the tightness of the cockring since I spent most of the evening with my dick actually flaccid versus hard, so I assume I had fresh blood getting pumped into there.

That leads me to another question.

If a cockring is too tight, I can’t imagine your erection going down. So if you have one on and your erection is able to subside, that means you are doing just fine, right?

I’m kinda pissed because that white beaded one I have I thought could be used on the shaft only, but now I think it’s stretched out too much or something. It’s silicone.

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brianrex,

My first reason for wearing any kind of ring was to tackle my ED. I had those problems prior to finding out about Kegels and PE. For dependable erections during sex, simple rings really do the trick. Nothing fancy here, as you know it’s just a simple o-ring (albeit seamless, rust free and polished for an extra couple of tenners) — I figure these toys must have been around since man started working with iron.

As you might well expect, it’s a little different with compared to without, and the variation alone is nice. First, for the rings to be comfortable on your erection, they should measure app 5-6mm or more in thickness. Some rings are very thick, up to a couple of centimeters. Not everyone has a couple of centimeters to spare, but for good comfort try not to go below 6mm. I actually have a couple of rings that are just 4mm thick, and they do get slightly uncomfortable within 10-15 minutes of use. The good thing is they fit nice enough in the wallet.
6mm will be quite comfortable for the duration of 20-30 minutes which is the usual recommended max time you should ring an erection.

The pressure from an adequately thick (>6mm) ring is a good, kind of a loving feeling, an amorous grip. About half of the times I have a wank, I use a ring. In my experience, there’s nothing at all like should or shouldn’t ejacualate when using a ring; the only thing is that a very tight ring will inevitably restrict blood- and jizzflow. Not everyone needs a ring that tight; as a matter of fact it’s not recommended either for the obvious reasons of blood circulation.

One might hear all kinds of freaky stories about rings (metal rings in particular). I’ve heard that once the ring is on, you’ll never get it off again, you’re stuck there with an eternal erection, you’ll bust veins and so on. All complete nonsense. If you’re wearing a tight fitting solid metal ring and you want it off as quick as possible, just tilt the ring forward underneath your unit (where it presses against the BC muscle). This has the effect of pulling a plug.

Other than a good erection and a nice different feeling, I get extra girth and stamina. Not that I need the stamina; I’m cirumsized and can’t feel too much in my glans anyway, sadly. About the girth, that is indeed extra girth which I never get when ringless, even with one of those legendary, absolute 100% piss-hard-post- wet-dream morning erections. There’s a max girth for the ringless erection, and there’s another max girth for the ringed erection. When I shag without a ring, it’s for variation on her behalf.

john,

Sorry, I only saw the first set of pictures with the red ring; that one is preferrably used behind the balls.
The white one with bumps is designed to be used like you show it. I like the feeling of those bumps, but alas I’ve broken all the bumped silicone rings I’ve tried.

Broken as in snapped? I just feel ike it’s already been stretched out :( bummer.

What is your opinion of using solid metal cock rings (like Brian does) on the shaft only versus the balls.

Btw - Have ever worn one for an extended period of time?

Silicone snapped, yes.

I normally wear two metal rings, one behind the balls and one just for the shaft. As for pure erection quality, these work in about equal measures for me. I think that for the “behind-the-balls” ring to be superior in this respect to a “shaft-only” ring, it should be designed with some sort of protrusion, which is to be placed over the BC. These seem to be a somewhat rare sight, although they make their appearance in retail here and there. I positively recall that one of the stores linked to in JMeister’s cockring thread showed such a ring.

Other than that, the grip of a metal shaft-ring is obviously more stern and rigid than that of a flexible rubber ring. In case your shaft is kind of flat, it might not be the ultimate comfortwise for that reason. Mine is kind of flat, but I choose metal anyway…

…Hair tugging problems are much less existent with metal rings.

…Metal rings have less tendency than rubber rings to slip away along the shaft. Excellent for securing a condom to the base (come to remember now, this was an issue for me prior to using metal rings).

Really thick shaft rings will (obviously) pound the mound more than penetrate her. Not necessarily a bad thing — my ex enjoyed that treat. You can come up with a number of silly things to do with rings, like caging the balls with a heavy ring, letting that package slam her good in doggy style.

The longest time I know I’we worn rings when erect is app 40 minutes; the glans was deep purple by then, however nothing too scary like ice cold or such. For erect use, I try to keep it to the recommended 20-30 minutes. I haven’t worn a ring during an entire day or even an hour, but I could very well consider doing it for PE reasons. This is of course not erect usage… just in case that wasn’t too obvious to whoever else reads this.