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No clue- it’s not like I’ve walked around with a skinny monster dildo and a monster conical butt plug and taken notes.
But only I’ve only tapped the CDS on less than 10% of my bedmates, so?
Bear in mind that I generally make a point of finishing them at least once if not several times prior to penile insertion, usually by a combination of tongue and manual manipulation, including intensive G spot stimulation, generally progressing up the ladder into quite aggressive manual penetration quite often including 3 and 4 finger insertion.
[I save the thumb for clitoral/ anal play]
After 20-45 minutes of that, plus a few Os [especially if she’s one of those who can ride that wave slipping back and forth], I consider her motivated.
And as I’ve maintained here before, a properly motivated woman can take far more than most men even want to think about. Maybe not an hour of Lex Steel jack hammering- but [in my opinion only] far more than the 8” we often throw about here as the majority max.
If you’ve ever had the pleasure of your girlfriend’s ass, better yet, taking her black cherry, you know how important her state is. How motivated she is.
She must be cool, calm, comfy and feel safe and secure and unjudged [at least in the beginning]- else her emotional state will turn the whole thing into a disaster to be shuddered at for the rest of your days together.
Apply the same principles to the larger dick thing.
But I’m covering old ground and restating my position from my same old soapbox on this.
WE are the 99% 'WE are the people you depend on; we cook your meals, we haul your trash, we connect your calls. We drive your ambulances. We guard you while you sleep. Don't f&ck with us'-- Madame DeFarge
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